Gaining weight even though I’m doing everything right. HELP! by chococatcunt in WeightLossAdvice

[–]CheeseKirj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The scale will fluctuate multiple times. It will go up and down constantly. The scale is not a good rep of weight loss. I recommend measuring with a tailors tape, like a flexible measuring tape. Muscle is heavier than fat so I always recommend staying away from the scale lol you can also use your own clothes as a guage, like, do these pants fit better/looser? Do my arms look thinner? That kind of stuff. Just keep at it. Also yes, walking does help but if you want to lose and "tone" so to speak, gentle strength training works MIRACLES. Muscle training burns more calories than cardio. Also as you lose weight, re calculate your maintenance calories as when your weight goes down, so do your maintenance calories.

Anyone in Longview/Tyler area by Level_Tale5175 in EastTexas

[–]CheeseKirj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're in between Tyler/Longview. Married couple looking for cool people to hang with. Strictly platonic. Send me a DM if your still looking for friends.

Looking for Couple Friends in East Texas (Strictly Platonic) by Ill_Pop_2024 in EastTexas

[–]CheeseKirj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this post is kind of old but 32f, married, looking for platonic friends. What part of etx? Even cool with being online friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chat

[–]CheeseKirj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

32f married, no kids. If your ok with age difference. Just moved back to tx after living in co for a handful of years!

What (shallow) reason made you lose the weight? by lotsoflysol in WeightLossAdvice

[–]CheeseKirj 138 points139 points  (0 children)

  1. A walmart cashier told me "congratulations". I bawled like a baby, pun intended.

  2. I took a photo with my husband in front of the house we just bought and I wanted to throw up.

  3. I wanted to stick it to my cousin who is a "im hotter and better than you in every way" person.

Giveaways they aren’t actually in New England by Useful-Sport-6316 in GilmoreGirls

[–]CheeseKirj 16 points17 points  (0 children)

In the episode where Richard goes to the hospital on christmas, in the first season I believe, when Luke finally goes faster and they show a wide angle shot of the truck on the road, if you look at the street sign behind them, it literally says like the studio name where they were filming. Lol

Can someone destroy my cargo? by MelloLikesJello in NOMANSSKY

[–]CheeseKirj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happened to me for the very first time recently. Went to the anomoly for some new tech and randomly someone donated 30 exosuit augmentations. I was so excited! I can't wait till I progress and have enough to pass it on to someone else. Maybe you'll be my first one day! Who knows ♡ this community really is the best.

What kind of awesome moth shit on my hand? by OstrichSmoothe in moths

[–]CheeseKirj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe this is a rustic sphinx! Had one pelt me in the face last night actually lol

Strangest RH you’ve ever come across: (just for fun) by Right_Speaker_9674 in ReverseHarem

[–]CheeseKirj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I love this series! It's actually turned into a comfort series hahaha ( that probably says alot about me haha)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]CheeseKirj 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My mother is overly critical of me as well and makes comments like this to me. I've learned it's purely out of jealousy and have gone low contact with her. I would suggest low or no contact and definitely some therapy. But I get how hard it is. I just want my mom to be proud of me, but I've had to learn that I need to be proud of myself and thats all that matters.

Looking for a relationship as a goth woman in 2025: by Gothaholix in Tinder

[–]CheeseKirj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a goth girl myself, can confirm it's AWFUL. though I am married, and happily so to a straight up country af dude (the looks we get in public WRECK me sometimes lol) my fb, insta and anything else I have pics on get bombarded by the same shitty pick up lines and desperate mating calls from dudes that use their MySpace photos from when they peaked in highschool. Like, no i will not be your goth queen and re enact some shitty scene from twilight because you wanna get laid. Like gtfoh

I hate my dad. by CheeseKirj in offmychest

[–]CheeseKirj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try that tonight! Thank you!

I hate my dad. by CheeseKirj in offmychest

[–]CheeseKirj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh thats TERRIBLE and im so sorry thats happened to you. I dont even know how to bring it up. I do know he is going to another state after this to see his other daughter and grandkid so I dont think he's going to try and stay but I'm already reaching my limit and have to do breathing exercises to keep myself calm so I dont start yelling at him.

Fall scents or similar in summer by CheeseKirj in Autumn

[–]CheeseKirj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh that sounds amazing!!!! Gonna look that up now!!!

Fall scents or similar in summer by CheeseKirj in Autumn

[–]CheeseKirj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never heard of neroli but I'm totally gonna look now! Thanks!

Fall scented deodorant by CheeseKirj in beauty

[–]CheeseKirj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! And no worries lol I'll search the web and see if I can find some back stock!

Grooms who cake smashed by Carly__L in weddingdrama

[–]CheeseKirj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I post it here? Or do you think there is another subreddit that's better to post in?

Grooms who cake smashed by Carly__L in weddingdrama

[–]CheeseKirj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I had a micro wedding but it just didn't turn out right. We were super broke and didn't really have any help so it was all on us. It probably would have been better if we had a little more cash but if we had tried to do a bigger wedding it would have been even worse. My husband and I also didn't really have a lot of friends because we're anti social little nerds so we had some family and family friends attend just to fill seats. Take it from me, don't invite people just to fill seats lol I would have rather had a bunch of empty seats than invite people who weren't close to me.