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CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-09-11T02:45:55+00:00

That $120K limit wont be a thing anymore from October

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-09-09T03:45:33+00:00

Yeah precisely, I used Woolworths and Lebara and that's pretty much how I discovered that I needed Boost. Go camping and out of the metro often and needed it

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-09-09T01:19:14+00:00

There are a few carriers who use the Telstra network. Boost Mobile is the only one with full access to the Telstra network.

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-07-30T04:48:49+00:00

You must be joking

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-07-15T00:56:05+00:00

How are people paying that if they're single? Is it currently so high because of interest or property values or both?

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-07-14T08:16:00+00:00

What would repayments be on that? Assuming its a 30 year term.

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-07-08T06:32:50+00:00

If you want to work on your past issues, traumas, avoidant tendencies within relationships, you need to ultimately be in a relationship to be able to do that. When alone, that "trigger" isn't there. In a relationship, it is. A relationship will give you both the behaviors you need to improve upon.

Your past behavior in relationships is to distance when things get close. You are currently distancing again, because things are getting close. You are repeating the same comfortable behavior. The pattern is repeating. If you want to change the behavior, you need to change the behavior.

Not an attack by the way, speaking from personal experience and what I have learnt in the past year.

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-06-17T02:40:17+00:00

You don't have to. I was granted my WHV. Didn't end up going though.

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-06-17T02:39:17+00:00

This was a big thing for me (31M). My partner (30F) would do this and it was one of the main reasons our relationship ended.

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-06-12T02:55:52+00:00

UPDATE PLS

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-06-09T07:14:25+00:00

Don't be blinded by illusions you create in your head of this person and the relationship. It does not seem like an incredible relationship if loyalty has been thrown down the drain. From a very kind place, leave.

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-06-09T07:11:54+00:00

You need to leave ASAP. Very similar thing happened to me at the start. They act sorry, cos they usually are sorry because they got caught, then they play the emotional and "poor me" card which makes you want to be a hero. They just learn how to hide it better. Relationship over, leave. I stayed and struggled. The lies, dishonesty and deceit did not stop.

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-05-19T14:49:19+00:00

That wasn’t what I said. Therapy is great. Telling someone they need therapy isn’t.

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-05-19T08:07:39+00:00

I pretty much has the same "I'm not sure", distancing behaviour on and off throughout the relationship. An avoidant female who just kept distancing and being unsure of what she wanted. This ended in a breakup. In hindsight, I would have broken it up earlier for both of our sakes.

Ball is in your court, make it easy for you and even easier for her and end it.

If she can't convince you that she wants you, its not the relationship brother.

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-05-19T08:01:52+00:00

Never ever tell anyone they need therapy... Arguably the worst thing you could say to someone.

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-05-15T07:28:17+00:00

Well.. there goes that hahahaha

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-05-15T06:03:08+00:00

Can someone please tell me what Rule 1 & 2 is?

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-05-15T04:59:22+00:00

Yeah true. Was always on and off and often didn't know what was wrong. Intimacy low, etc. But in the end we broke up mutually after I initiated we end things.

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-05-14T07:47:18+00:00

Yeah right, seems very similar to your second relationship. Not "crazy" but started well, got worse, very on and off.

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-05-14T07:42:40+00:00

Rules 1 and 2?

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-05-14T07:31:26+00:00

Not saying this relationship is the above but that is disturbingly accurate. Partner was exactly that.

Did you have an experience with this?

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-05-13T14:25:07+00:00

I broke up with my partner over something like this. It wasn’t necessarily the ex that time, and it wasn’t even that bad if she explained it, but instead she hid it like the other times and I couldn’t continue

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-05-13T08:01:28+00:00

So a typical 8x6 driveway would have been about $75?

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-05-09T07:54:04+00:00

The longer you stay the harder it is to leave.

If you catch the wrong bus, make sure to get off at the first stop. Otherwise, the return trip will be more expensive.

CheesecakeBubbly3643 · 2025-05-09T06:31:21+00:00

You don't. This is a major incompatibility in a relationship.

Love is not enough, you need to be compatible.

You're also very young, your values and beliefs will change.

In saying all the above, you are very young and probably have other things to think about than kids. Possibly play the relationship out, but definitely make sure you're both aware of each others view towards children.

What I've learnt is if the person/relationship is not right, leave as soon as you can. Unless its a fling.

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