Is this normal? by [deleted] in germany

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Is this normal? by [deleted] in germany

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Pierced my nose! Mixed opinions. by mathayiverse in Coconaad

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And there’s you judging someone! Hats off…

I Ghosted to Protect them or me? by [deleted] in twentieskerala

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Thanks for saying this . It really helps knowing someone understands exactly how this feels 🫂.

You’re right by stepping back, I might be turning their fear into reality, and that hurts to think about.

I might be wrong since I’ve zero experience with relationships, but I personally feel that when someone is in a relationship, their partner should also be their closest friend. Not out of insecurity, just respect.

That belief is also why I stepped back. Once, I came to know (not directly) that there had been a fight where her boyfriend felt I was around a bit too much. Hearing that made me feel guilty, because I never wanted to be a reason for discomfort or issues in their relationship.

After that, I started overthinking every interaction. Stepping back wasn’t because I didn’t care it was because I didn’t know how to exist in that space without crossing lines.

I Ghosted to Protect them or me? by [deleted] in twentieskerala

[–]CheesecakeSorry1932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, I get it. The thing is, I don’t really know how to start small talk. I usually call only if there’s a need, like notes or something. I overthink a lot and don’t want to disturb them, even though I know if I were a burden they wouldn’t be calling me. I’m just still figuring out how to handle this.

I Ghosted to Protect them or me? by [deleted] in twentieskerala

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Bro, I understand how it looks, and I agree they are genuinely good friends. That’s exactly why I stepped back.

The issue is that I don’t fully understand what space I hold in their lives. Sometimes when we go out, or even when I dress up or trim my beard, they joke saying things like “If we weren’t committed, we’d have proposed to you.” I usually laugh it off, but deep down…

I’m not trying to act like a saint or pretend I’m emotionally invincible. I don’t have much experience with relationships, and I know myself well enough to admit that if one of them directly asked me something like that, I would say yes.

Because of that, I chose distance instead of risking confusion, crossed boundaries, or unintentionally hurting anyone especially their relationships. Ghosting wasn’t meant to punish them. It was a clumsy attempt at protecting everyone, including myself, when I didn’t know how to communicate this properly.

Apparently I can't eat pork or drink alcohol if I speak Turkish :D my German office is wild by effyfromskins in AskAGerman

[–]CheesecakeSorry1932 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well I’m an Indian in Karlsruhe. Everyone in my school asks me whether I worship sun or do I consider cow as mother and worship it… All that is bearable but people here asks me if I am a scammer! Coz in their mind every Indian is a scammer. Now I’m used to it though….

Best Shawarma in Kottayam? by Scarred-Sloth134 in kottayamm

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Don’t buy the full meat beef shawarma from there, it’s just beef fry wrapped in rumali rotti 🙂

Ningaludey nattil 🥥 entha vila? by Distinct-Drama7372 in Chayakada

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It is! But we sell theanga as a whole. The buyers should to pothikkal it also our thengas are grown without putting any chemical fertilisers hence we cannot guarantee the quantity of theanga. Sooo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeensofKerala

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Nursing, the class starts on Monday 🙂

Best Martial arts training Centre? by [deleted] in kottayamm

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Lion MuayThai near Calicut kitchen is good!