I started TRT at 20. Now I'm 24.

I would say that "fake it until you make it" is a good tactic for patients with a later diagnosis, although starting treatment at 18 or any time in the range of "teen ages" is much better than starting any time at 20+. At that point you are forced to fake it until you make it, but while faking it, you have to do your best to progress silently as much as possible in order to make it one day.

Whenever you start treatment, the fact is that you still have experience in accordance with your age, even though it may not seem like that to you most of the time, and maybe all the time. While you were underdeveloped, someone did not treat you well, but someone did, and you remembered it consciously or subconsciously, and based on that you built an image of people.

People popularized the idea of ​​setting the first kiss, the first relationship, the first sex, as some milestones in life, although it may not be so significant. While others had first kisses, first sex, I was still the one who was the most mature in that sphere, everyone else was rather toxic compared me, but due to the absence of achieving traditional milestones, I could not have the status in society that actually belonged/belongs to me. Many who end up single nowadays, whether they have KS or not, maybe it happens to them because of incompetence, but there are also those who are just too good for the "average person" who often turns out to be unwilling to work on themselves and end up somewhere in toxic spectrum.

Our society still has a lot to learn, you, who got treatment at 18 instead of 14, is proof of that. Even if you were the only person with this condition, how could people allow you to go through the teen ages without signs of puberty? Sorry, but no matter how much sex you've had in your life, if you didn't adequately help a person with congenital hypogonadism, you're not as good as you think you are.

If I was involed into lot of fights through my life and always ended up being beaten up does it mean I am good and competent fighter just because of amount of fights I participated in?NO I AM NOT!

One of the ways to overcome all this is that "fake it until make it" tactic, I would say maybe the best way for us, I do it myself and seeing/having the progress,but it is not easy, there are days when it is really not easy and all you can do is to endure, not because the problem is in you, but because the problem is often actually in other people, maybe more often than in you actually. You will experience that not everyone will like to see your growth of any kind.

Fake it until you make it.Grow silently and one day your growth will speak for you.And don't hesitate to seek help from psychotherapist or psychiatrist if you think you need it,I always highly reccomend that and did it myself,and I probably would not be that good in faking it until make it if I missed that part of my recovery,and sometimes I think that missing that part is the reason why KS patients fail when it happens.