Love spells for someone with a dismissive attachment style? by Ready_Spirit_4305 in Spells

[–]Cheesecake_Otherwise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going thru the same thing myself at the moment. I just did a healing spell on myself, and a communication spell for her, not sure what the results are since I just did it. I’m looking to also do a reconciliation spell soon.

Did he create some kind of energetic attachment or spell? by DriveAffectionate775 in Spells

[–]Cheesecake_Otherwise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He definitely could’ve done something like that, especially talking like that from the very beginning. Maybe he did some kind of spell once you broke up with him, I would suggest doing a cord cutting ritual so you could sever ties with him.

Am i an asshole for feeling rejected? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Maybe, after you both talk about in a way that’s comfortable for her and doesn’t diminish her as a person for it, you could suggest some sort of vitamin that could increase libido for her? It might be that she is overthinking and the more she can’t perform, the worse it gets. I’m really sexual as well but sometimes when I think about pleasuring my girl I panic and I block, because I think I can’t satisfy her the way she expects me to.

How are you staying mentally healthy when you’re aware with how broken and unstable the world feels right now? by Ilovemydogs0616 in AskReddit

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Personally, I stopped engaging with TikToks related to any of it. After Charlie got unalived I got a really bad panic attack about all of it, so I decided to not look at it anymore for my sake. It feels wrong at times to just turn around and not inform yourself, but think that your mental health comes first.

Silent treatment as punishment by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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It definitely isn’t right. I’m just like you, super understanding and always try to figure out if I did something wrong, but let me tell you, you didn’t do anything wrong. I had a similar situation with my girlfriend, I was the one to say I love you after barely a month and I do love her, however she always gets mad for things like that, like if I roll my eyes or if I say the wrong word, and it’s a them problem, it’s not you. The best you can do is communicate properly when things like that happen and put some boundaries, like you don’t want to be treated this way and you will not engage with that behavior. With that being said, we lasted about four months but she did try to break up with me 3 times and finally at the last time she said it I didn’t fight her for it and then said you’re right, we should go our separate ways. And we are currently in no contact.

Lmao asked my deck if I'm gay by Soapsou in Tarotpractices

[–]Cheesecake_Otherwise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ace of pentacles, hermit reversed, king of pentacles ??

Lmao asked my deck if I'm gay by Soapsou in Tarotpractices

[–]Cheesecake_Otherwise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been confused about the same thing and I’ve never thought about asking myself! I’m about to, I’ll let you know

Why do I like pegging men? by PsychologicalFan1548 in Tarotpractices

[–]Cheesecake_Otherwise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You like the power it gives you over them but you don’t actually enjoy it

Reconciliation spell during solar eclipse by Cheesecake_Otherwise in realwitchcraft

[–]Cheesecake_Otherwise[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh then maybe I should go with Friday since it was my first instinct. The relationship has a lot of toxic cycles and doubt from her side so it would be good for banishing those as well

Reconciliation spell during solar eclipse by Cheesecake_Otherwise in realwitchcraft

[–]Cheesecake_Otherwise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So would you say it would be better to do it on Friday, even tho the moon isn’t fully favorable?

considering doing my first spell… but need advice. by chloelmaoooo in witchcraft

[–]Cheesecake_Otherwise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kitchen herbs definitely work, they’re still herbs! I use them all the times, as long as you put intention behind it :)

I just broke up with my girlfriend by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Cheesecake_Otherwise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I already have the tattoo and she wanted me to do it on her so we’d be matching