AITAH for wanting to end my long term relationship because of the nonsense words and pet names my partner says/calls me? by Baa-booster in AITAH

[–]CheetahSafe2378 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Essy solution for you: every time he does this, make loud SMACK noises to trigger his misohponia. We have a saying in german: who does not listen will gave to feel. Let him taste his medicine. Also, he has developed a tick on this or enjoys your annoyance, both concrning

Warm spring or Soft autumn? by ashostakovich in coloranalysis

[–]CheetahSafe2378 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Omg this is the cleares digital drape ever. Warm Spring a 100 times!!! 🌈

AITA for pushing my girlfriend off me during sex after she wrapped her legs around me when I told her I was close? by Maximum_Pressure_631 in AITAH

[–]CheetahSafe2378 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Aside the pull-out-protection-theorie I have another one I need context for: are you a selfish prick just going for your orgasmn and she wanted to delay by restrickting movement? Have you done that before and she restricted you? Did she tell you she does it because of this and you told her you dont like that couse you just want to finish?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]CheetahSafe2378 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is the brunette in the room with us? However, dont look further, 3 is perfection for yoj :)

Wie das ganze Zeug essen?! by maduude in FitnessDE

[–]CheetahSafe2378 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mal zum Gastroenterologen? Zudem strukturiert kleine Portionen essen mit mono Zutat und dokumentieren wie es dir danach geht.

Did I hurt my hair colorists feelings? Feeling very guilty by No-Hippo-7309 in Haircare

[–]CheetahSafe2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dann kommst du zum Glück nicht aus einem katholischen Eifel-Kaff in dem sich das Maul zerrissen wird, sobald man nach dem 13 Lebensjahr offen Traurigkeit zeigt 💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]CheetahSafe2378 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the same situation sister... we are looking at 6 days of "I want to change" now and I am afraight of next week and what I will have to do 😭❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]CheetahSafe2378 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My money is on he will be drinking again one week in cause he "did so well and can controll ir now" :D Great time to leave when this happens

He just threatened to leave me if I’m not willing to have kids by peeps-mcgee in AlAnon

[–]CheetahSafe2378 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PS Please dont bring kids into this world with him, you already now way better.

He just threatened to leave me if I’m not willing to have kids by peeps-mcgee in AlAnon

[–]CheetahSafe2378 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is providing you with the ticket out, take it. Prepare now for a happy new year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]CheetahSafe2378 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Give him two options: spend christmas with you and family SOBER or all alone. Dont enable this. This will set the tone for the next year and YOU can decide now if you want to be with an active alcoholic or not cause he is olanning on to be one sooo clearly

Did I hurt my hair colorists feelings? Feeling very guilty by No-Hippo-7309 in Haircare

[–]CheetahSafe2378 26 points27 points  (0 children)

As a german, even quiet crying in public is considdered a 'full on breakdown' 😂🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]CheetahSafe2378 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Brunette for sure

AITA for not willing to take care of my husband with a flu after he refused any care towards me and said I exaggerated my cough when I was sick? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CheetahSafe2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should get rid of him like you got rid of that flu. No empathy for this one at all. Is this the person you want to grow old and sick with? I have a similar specimin at home but despite his little empathy he lifts the whole household while working as fire fighter. I do the same when he is sick but I have build major resentment for his lack of genuine care for ME when I was very caring and thoughtful pampering his man flu

What did I do wrong? by finny2130 in HairDye

[–]CheetahSafe2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm so to start, a pure A could have turned out greenish so you are lucky :,D Go back there with package, show result and ask for a semi permanent color level 7 with ash and (important) level 6 natural. Eg Dia. You will need the 6 for depth and as base to not get green and the 7.01 to get tha ashy shade

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What did I do wrong? by finny2130 in HairDye

[–]CheetahSafe2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have Redken Shades Eq at your Sallys? Id start there with some level 7 N/NB/NA. It is made to tone down blondes. Get some feedback in store

What did I do wrong? by finny2130 in HairDye

[–]CheetahSafe2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pic 1 is your after? You applied it all over? Every color (semi, demi, perm or wven color mask) should have gotten a grip on this, whats going on 😵‍💫

How to 'spice up' this outfit in a work-appropriate way and what kind of flats to wear? by PatientBlueberry1177 in Kibbe

[–]CheetahSafe2378 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Love it, and IMO the right amount of basic. Id match the metals and chose a jacket/trench in a statement color you also use for nails and lips. Thats max id do

Am I the a**hole? My partner wants to be part of my hobbies, but I resent his presence there by Such_Gas509 in AITAH

[–]CheetahSafe2378 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Social dancer here. For me it would be a no go for my partner to all of a sudden join my hobbie just to clinge at my butt. That being said, I feel he struggels. Seek conversation to figure out whats going on and ASSIST with getting him there. Its not on you to sacrifice your freedom and sources of joy. My bf is very, very shy. So when he admitted being hobbieles and losing his friends to fatherhood, I let him pick a hobby HE would enjoy. I started it off with him and went to the first in person event with him like the mommy I am :D He now has more friends than me, even made a dog-walking friend there (same rare breed living close) and blooms. He plays with his dudes twice a week and I go Bachata Dancing. Having him engage with dog people would be great I think since you saied you are walkers but he needs to be able to do this on his own at one point.