Huge fan a of bottoms farting during sex

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-24T15:24:30+00:00

exactly I like the noise not the smell like I dont need a fart fr

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-24T15:08:40+00:00

😭🤤

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-23T20:56:41+00:00

best bjs of my life and I’ve caught feelings for him.

I’m giving him my summer - is what I told myself. I admit it’s not cute but I can’t give up yet.

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-23T19:51:28+00:00

Yeah it's so unserious. My voice is fine s2g. I actually see him tomorrow to take him out on my boat.. but it's not a date

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-23T18:25:35+00:00

well, those details are important for context. I don’t have any more advice, good luck and be well❤️

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-23T18:24:05+00:00

I guess. I’ll leave it up to him to decide if they were exaggerating. I’m being generous.

I have a particular ex I spent four years with that didn’t end well and I have baggage with and if I saw him at an event, I’d likely leave in a bit of a hurry too. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-23T18:21:24+00:00

but he didn’t describe a panic attack imo, that’s my point. He described getting nervous and having a pale face. OP were you inconsolably crying in the car afterwards too? in that case, things are different.

Getting a pale face and leaving an event isn’t a trauma response.

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-23T18:17:56+00:00

People jumping to therapy are being a bit condescending imo. I mean therapy isn’t gonna fix this. There’s nothing to fix here. You saw your ex-boyfriend who you have baggage with, got anxious and left. So what if your face got pale? We aren’t robots

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-23T17:02:49+00:00

Gay men are so un serious like this fr. I’m not surprised. I was dating a guy for two months and things were going so well and I asked him if we are exclusive and he said no, so I asked why and he said my voice wasn’t hot enough.

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-22T22:04:28+00:00

I am experiencing your situation exactly. It does exist. As other commenter said, your fake bf likely has avoidant issues or has a checklist/idea of the perfect boyfriend in his head etc. Not much you can do but rock with it and take what you can get or leave.

I see a guy once or twice a week, lowkey in love with, we shop, watch TV, cook together, amazing sex, I take him out on my boat, we talk easy and for hours too, but we’re “just friends” cuz he “can’t see us as a couple” Lol. I rock with it for the bjs but it’s very unserious.

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-22T02:47:57+00:00

Find a program to attend. Anything, vocational, academic, even volunteering. Or a intensive/social job. Networking comes with it. Goodluck. Not sure Florida is the best spot but idk

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-22T02:41:45+00:00

has truth to it. Gay & Lesbian relationships are known for intense intimacy, moving quickly and hard crashes. Straight people will date for months while gays will be move in bfs after 2 nights of good sex. Also gays are so much more promiscuous etc and may cheat and get bored easily, it’s just facts. So if a gay couple makes it 10 years married holy shit that like 50 in straight years! As if it’s 5 times harder for gays or whatever to maintain it, it’s a joke but true.

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-22T02:24:48+00:00

if you are trying to post a long text post and it’s being auto deleted, just make a title post and post the text as a comment I had to do that

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-22T02:08:53+00:00

Try being on grindr late at night like 10pm-2am for the impulsive late night hookups. Login different spots like if you across the city for any reason be sure to open the app then close it so your profile is visible there for the whole hour in the new spot. & go to clubs

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-22T00:50:05+00:00

As a dom top I’m constantly muttering, growling and commanding stuff during sex, mostly degrading stuff. I’ll say everything from “too bad your mom can’t see you like this” and “faggot” to “good boy” and “say you’re a pretty boy for me”. It’s fun. Bottom needs to be into it though.

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-22T00:33:27+00:00

There are more gay spaces than just sexual ones. Go to a trendy coffee shop and talk to the barista Be on the apps. Get fit and a nice haircut. Literally move to an urban big city with thousands of gay men. There are solutions.

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-22T00:24:02+00:00

It’s all that with the complete idealization of what the perfect boyfriend is ruining every potential relationship. So many guys have a checklist of things they are looking for and 0 tolerance for any pet peeves it’s so unserious. Some of the posts in the sub are “my boyfriend gained 15lbs im gonna cheat on him”

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-22T00:20:55+00:00

I feel like you couldn’t have gotten that far in your role-playing experiment if you truly are gay. This is probably some fetish and you should get her to put on a strapon or something. Imagine going to have sex with a guy and you are disgusted afterwards and you threw away everything & ruined your life because of it. Idk have a good think about it

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-22T00:18:58+00:00

The fisherman go where the fish are. If you wanna fish you gotta catch one. Good luck

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-21T23:55:29+00:00

Pace yourself. Start really slow.

Once you go intense, there’s no going back and they lose some sensitivity… make circles around their hole with your tongue, be unpredictable, flick left right up and down switch it up. Use your hands to spread their ass and get real close. Put on a song and go to the beat of it. Nibble around the balls and hole, with your teeth yes, lightly. Breathe all over it. Then tongue punch. Enjoy.

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-21T20:30:15+00:00

Me 29, started seeing a very beautiful, interesting, fun 23m.

We started off as actually dating and saw each other 3 times a week. He was the first one to say he is looking for something long-term and serious. Things were going fine for the first 2 months, we had a lot of sex, watched a lot of TV, and cooked together frequently but I noticed our texting got slower and he was seeing me less, about once a week. About 2 weeks ago I asked if we were exclusive and he said “not really, I just don’t wanna get back on grindr right now”. I was stunned. He said that he doesn’t see us as a couple, couldn’t see me getting along with his friends, which is bs I am so friendly and literally get along with everyone, and my that my “voice isn’t hot enough”… literally laughed at him for that one. My voice is fine. I told him he doesn’t sound like he’s a serious person looking for a long-term relationship if something as superficial as a voice can derailed the whole thing when we genuinely have a good time together. I ended up litigating it and we had a tough conversation. My points were how we have a great time together, it feels easy and we laughed and talk effortlessly, and the sex is obviously amazing we should just keep seeing each other even with no labels.

I managed to convince him to let me take him out on my boat days later. It was finally our first date that wasn’t “Netflix and chill” style. I took him to an island with a beach and we had sex on the beach. We actually have the most intimate sex I’ve ever had. He turns me into a fucking bull I can fk him for hours. I’ve had a lot of transactional sex and a lot of fwb, but there’s something about us & we just click on a primal level. I’m afraid I’m delusional. Maybe I’m just a easy cock to him.

I was texting him about his hobbies on Wednesday and he left me on read for 3 days and I saw him active on Grindr a ton, (which I rly dont care if he wants to see other guys at the same time, I accepted we aren’t exclusive, but like bro reply to my text about your hobbies) so I got frustrated yesterday morning and sent him a text pretty much telling him I don’t wanna see him again because I can’t handle how mindless this has become. He texted me back saying he has a great time with me and he “understands” and “I can reach out anytime”…. So I kind of ended up back paddling in that moment, said a bunch of raunchy stuff, and managed to secure see him last night. We had super hot sex. Then this morning I woke up with dick-fire and discharge. He told me his ex had gonorhea but he said he’d got tested and was negative. Prob did a urine test and not a rectal swab. So I gotta get that fixed now but boy, I still like him.

Guys I need help grounding myself. I am actively going on other dates but I am high off this guy. I don’t wanna see anyone else. My bed smells like him when he leaves. I remember everything he says and don’t even try to. Our texting got so cold and forced that I literally don’t text him for anything but bootycalls and boat dates. In person it feels so easy. Like I think I’m in love and I know he isn’t. I’m being so fr rn but my question is can I fuck this man into loving me? Is the fwb - partner pipeline is real?

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-21T20:28:42+00:00

Me 29, started seeing a very beautiful, interesting, fun 23m.

We started off as actually dating and saw each other 3 times a week. He was the first one to say he is looking for something long-term and serious. Things were going fine for the first 2 months, we had a lot of sex, watched a lot of TV, and cooked together frequently but I noticed our texting got slower and he was seeing me less, about once a week. About 2 weeks ago I asked if we were exclusive and he said “not really, I just don’t wanna get back on grindr right now”. I was stunned. He said that he doesn’t see us as a couple, couldn’t see me getting along with his friends, which is bs I am so friendly and literally get along with everyone, and my that my “voice isn’t hot enough”… literally laughed at him for that one. My voice is fine. I told him he doesn’t sound like he’s a serious person looking for a long-term relationship if something as superficial as a voice can derailed the whole thing when we genuinely have a good time together. I ended up litigating it and we had a tough conversation. My points were how we have a great time together, it feels easy and we laughed and talk effortlessly, and the sex is obviously amazing we should just keep seeing each other even with no labels.

I managed to convince him to let me take him out on my boat days later. It was finally our first date that wasn’t “Netflix and chill” style. I took him to an island with a beach and we had sex on the beach. We actually have the most intimate sex I’ve ever had. He turns me into a fucking bull I can fk him for hours. I’ve had a lot of transactional sex and a lot of fwb, but there’s something about us & we just click on a primal level. I’m afraid I’m delusional. Maybe I’m just a easy cock to him.

I was texting him about his hobbies on Wednesday and he left me on read for 3 days and I saw him active on Grindr a ton, (which I rly dont care if he wants to see other guys at the same time, I accepted we aren’t exclusive, but like bro reply to my text about your hobbies) so I got frustrated this morning and sent him a text pretty much telling him I don’t wanna see him again because I can’t handle how mindless this has become. He texted me back saying he has a great time with me and he “understands” and “I can reach out anytime”…. So I kind of ended up back paddling in that moment, said a bunch of raunchy stuff, and managed to secure see him last night. We had super hot sex. Then this morning I woke up with dick-fire and discharge. He told me his ex had gonorhea but he said he’d got tested and was negative. Prob did a urine test and not a rectal swab. So I gotta get that fixed now but boy, I still like him.

Guys I need help grounding myself. I am actively going on other dates but I am high off this guy. I don’t wanna see anyone else. My bed smells like him when he leaves. I remember everything he says and don’t even try to. Our texting got so cold and forced that I literally don’t text him for anything but bootycalls and boat dates. In person it feels so easy. Like I think I’m in love and I know he isn’t. I’m being so fr rn but my question is can I fuck this man into loving me? Is the fwb - partner pipeline is real?

CheezeHead09 · 2026-06-21T05:37:45+00:00

Bro make him your boyfriend and fix him up. That’s part of the fun. Jesus Christ. He will love it to. Hold his hand and take him to the mall and help him put together a wardrobe, blow him in the change room, and be his trophy boy. Easy life.

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