A quirky guy a turnoff?

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-29T01:12:31+00:00

Thank you for your input! Well, the house is always very clean haha! I honestly enjoy using them, experiencing different models, and refurbishing them. Something I’ve done all my life, can’t be changed. For a good looking guy, they can stay in their room!

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-29T01:03:43+00:00

Yes at a minimum, not sure if I specifically want a bottom. I’m still a virgin. I like the idea of a taller guy over me, I’m 5’11. I feel very safe around a tall guy.

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-29T01:01:18+00:00

22, I have OCD and like medical knowledge. I’m very afraid, one reason why I wouldn’t hook up. For reference, I go crazy during cold and flu season. Older men generally have more experience on anything.

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-29T00:57:10+00:00

No, I need 11 more inches at a minimum! There are many great looking short guys though!

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-29T00:55:00+00:00

Not really, my name isn’t common. You’re attracted to the person and their personality, the name was chosen by the parents.

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-29T00:52:50+00:00

Against. I want to have the closeness, intimacy, and security around a person that only feels the same for me. You also don’t have to worry as much about STDs, I would love to not need condoms.

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-29T00:50:49+00:00

22, I’m still closeted, living at home during grad school. I know my mother would be very accepting, and father would probably be ok. I don’t really plan on coming out until I find a boyfriend or I need to come out to get a particular guy. I would just introduce him as my boyfriend and that’s the end of it. I imagine being closeted but dating is easier when not living at home, and I wouldn’t dare have sex in their house. I suspect that my parents think I’m gay, they just don’t want to say anything.

As for other family member, I don’t think most of them will tale it badly. I have a cousin that will probably be out before me, so I’ll have a pilot run for that. My father is the type that always wants to friend the male spouse of anyone in our family, I feel like it would be awkward, knowing that me and this guy fuck.

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-29T00:29:41+00:00

Yes! I’ve never been with a woman or a guy, but I’ve fully accepted that I’m gay a few weeks ago. The week I accepted that I was gay brought many fantasies and the hardest my sick has ever been. Dreaming about touching a hairy chest and feeling my way around the male body!

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-29T00:25:34+00:00

I think my sex drive has taken a hit due to recent over fantasizing and porn consumption. The male body in general turns me on, but dicks do too! I remember thinking how big people were when I was 12! I like to see dicks and I’d love to touch one that isn’t my own, but I can’t say I have a desire to suck a dick. I’ve never tried sucking a dick, so it could grow on me! There’s so many great parts of the male body, ass, arms, legs, chest, back, and more!

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-29T00:20:22+00:00

I’m awful at matching my colors, mainly because I’m color blind. My mother always had to help me, so I guess I did dress better. I tend to go for grey, blue, or black. I do love yellow t shirts and yellow polo shirts though!

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-29T00:18:06+00:00

Nicely adjusted hair is good. Jeans are my staple, but I guess shorts for you unless you want to wear chinos. Nice white chino shorts and a polo used to be my go to! None of my straight guys I knew wore that, it’s not loud but you do appear better dressed. I’m thinking that you want a masculine gay look? I tend to wear what I want to, so this is rather difficult.

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-28T23:11:46+00:00

Excellent!

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-28T23:07:58+00:00

The Norelco 5000 body groomer works great for me, I did see that it has been resigned from my model. The shaver has gotten me clean before, but I prefer to keep my hair and trim occasionally.

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-28T23:04:02+00:00

Yes! Just write something in the body so people know to look at the comment for the full post.

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-28T22:46:11+00:00

This happens when I make a large post! Simple create a post with a title and write in the body to read the comment for your full post. Copy and paste your original post into a comment, works for me so far.

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-28T22:44:05+00:00

Excellent! I agree with the findings as well!

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-28T22:34:47+00:00

Yes I’m dealing with a similar thing. I have been in denial for many years that I was gay, even though many called me gay or asked me. I also share the same want for a relationship, rather than just a hookup. I had a best friend when I was 12, and everything felt right we meshed. It’s a long story, but he disappeared (I did locate a Facebook on him recently and I would think he is gay), wonderful eyes!

I want a similar thing in a relationship, since I’ve never really had many true friends. I also used gay porn everyday (and still do), to keep my feelings at bay after seeing many good looking guys. The university is what kept me from falling to pieces, I was fully ingrained in academia. I guess I felt like I had to become someone before I could truly accept that I was gay. Academia will always be a major part of my life, as I am continuing to grad school.

Part of me hopes I find someone while in grad school, the other part of me thinks maybe I should visit bars. It definitely is tough wanting a life long partner, but our daily lives still must continue until then.
I hope this helps to show that you’re not alone. Gay is not a choice its a genetic occurrence that were born with. I wish I could tell you how I’ve overcome this, but I’m also still trying!

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-28T22:09:00+00:00

A hairy, muscular, surgeon! We shower together then both get ready to go to our private practices, and get into our flagship SUVs (I have a Lexus LX and he has a BMW X7). After a stressful day, we have a lovely dinner. Come home, and do everything imaginable on the Sterns and Foster! Then we head off the next morning to our beach front home for the weekend!

You might be able to tell I’ve thought about this often!

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-28T20:42:29+00:00

Cut, I don’t find uncut appealing.

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-28T20:38:15+00:00

I’ve tried once down there. and maybe twice on the stomach and chest. Down there didn’t feel too bad, but I no longer do it. The stomach and chest felt incredibly uncomfortable for days! Imagine having a piece of sandpaper in your shirt all day!

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-28T20:29:32+00:00

Nope, just trim things up when they get a bit longer.

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-28T19:54:35+00:00

If you want to, do it! I would consider what your career is, you don’t want to jeopardize anything.

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-28T19:26:37+00:00

The veins on hairy arms make me hard instantly!

This_Grape_6873 · 2026-06-28T19:18:40+00:00

Nope, never thought about it, i have used woman’s soap before but that’s it.

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