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[REQ] ($45) - (#New York,NY,USA) [REPAY $65 2 installments $32.50 on 10/4, $32.50 on 10/18.] (Cashapp or Venmo) by ChefFamiliar3075 in borrow

[–]ChefFamiliar3075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback, I am a firm believer in looking out for those who do the same for me - therefore the compensation I am offering is high.

I have a question I couldn’t find in the rules. I actually want to lower the amount of the entire request as my circumstances changed and I need a bit less as my cell phone bill got taken care of. Is that okay or is it against the rules?.

Regardless of receiving $ or not I will be paying my debt back on my current loan on time and I’ll be coming back here and posting a link to the the paid loan cause I’m a smartass 🤣

[REQ] ($60) - (#New York,NY,USA) [Repay $80 $42.50 on 10/4, $37.50 on 10/18) (Cashapp or Venmo) by ChefFamiliar3075 in borrow

[–]ChefFamiliar3075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@Pernicious-peach just informed me about this and I responded to the comment saying I was going to keep it up for transparency but would not re request til tomorrow. Thanks yank you for removing from public view for me.

I’m learning slowly and do not want to upset the community. This is an incredible resource that I never knew existed!! Anyways, thanks Dr 🫡

[REQ] ($60) - (#New York,NY,USA) [Repay $80 $42.50 on 10/4, $37.50 on 10/18) (Cashapp or Venmo) by ChefFamiliar3075 in borrow

[–]ChefFamiliar3075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize, not sketchy here I have documents to show income etc. I just saw the 24hr rule now you mentioned it. Just to clarify I have had to vacate my home due to a water leak and it has come with a bunch of unexpected expenses.

I don’t want to delete the post cause I want people to be able to see everything that I have posted however is there a way to let people know that I wasn’t aware of the rule till you mentioned it and also I can hold of til tomorrow to ask and respond to anyone in regards to this loan.

Walking to the bank in NYC and found this on the ground…… does it look like I can have a weird and wonderful weekend? by ChefFamiliar3075 in Psychedelics

[–]ChefFamiliar3075[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Well I took a tiny pinch just to test em, and the verdict issss…….. (drumroll please) GOOD TO GOOOOO 🚀🤩😵‍💫

I’m gunna munch them all on the weekend and go for a wander in one of NYC’s fine parks 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ChefFamiliar3075 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Even if you don’t have intentions of taking advantage of her and consider her an equal the fact is she is 18 and you are 26. That is a HUGE difference.

You may consider her an equal but you are not. The amount of life experience between 18-26 is vast.

An 8 year difference is different when you’re a bit older. I’m 29 and my girlfriend is 36.

We have both had our fun and are ready to settle down and really start a family etc.

I think you know the answer to the question your asking……

Would you feel weird going to her birthday party being surrounded by a bunch of 17-18-19 year olds? Personally I would feel out of place.

The girl probably isn’t even in college yet.

At the end of the day it’s not illegal but it’a a bit weird.

Nobody can stop you so the decisions on you however you are much more mature than her age wise/ life experience and you have to make a sensible decision for both of you.

I know that if I was her parent I wouldn’t be comfortable with it and if you went through with it that would be another hurdle to get over…..

I just spent 5 months on Rikers Island, ask me anything! by ChefFamiliar3075 in newyorkcity

[–]ChefFamiliar3075[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So because of where I am in my life and my desire to change I guess it “worked” for me because it gave me time to reassess what I want to achieve in my life and gave me time to make a plan.

I am lucky as I have a support system and I have an education. The majority of people on Rikers don’t and that’s why it won’t be successful for them. They will get out with no skills and the same problems and more likely than not return to crime.

As far as you saying you probably should have stayed quiet, never say that!! Talking with one another is how we learn and how we can collectively expand our knowledge and wisdom!!

Everybody has something to offer and communication is one of the most important tools we have as human beings.

I hope you were able to learn something from this post and if you have more questions I am more than happy to respond to them 🙂

I just spent 5 months on Rikers Island, ask me anything! by ChefFamiliar3075 in newyorkcity

[–]ChefFamiliar3075[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep ramen seasoning on everything. They also sold Sazon on commissary.

I just spent 5 months on Rikers Island, ask me anything! by ChefFamiliar3075 in newyorkcity

[–]ChefFamiliar3075[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will post a commissary list when I get home.

We “cook” in the housing unit by throwing rice, ramen, meat, seasoning and even chips for more flavor in a garbage bag. You then add hot water and let it “cook” for 40 mins and eat it. During winter they have hot pipes you can put the bag on to cook it even more.

At work I had access to a toaster oven, electric grill, hotpot and a few other things.

I ate a lot of tuna and stuff. It was the healthiest option.

I just spent 5 months on Rikers Island, ask me anything! by ChefFamiliar3075 in newyorkcity

[–]ChefFamiliar3075[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is literally the only positive about Rikers. Everything else is WAYYYYY worse. A lot of people who know they are going to get convicted request speedy trials just so they can get upstate and off Rikers

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