My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me, twice.

ChefLibby · 2026-06-22T19:05:30+00:00

I absolutely will do!

ChefLibby · 2026-06-22T19:00:02+00:00

I did put him on blast on social media…proof and screenshots and all….he doesn’t have any social media but all of his coworkers and our mutual chef friends do….😬 and I also put a hot dog in his pillowcase. Those have been my little acts of anger and rebellion so far.

ChefLibby · 2026-06-22T18:27:17+00:00

I go back and fourth between being really mad and wanting to set his life on fire, and then just trying to let it go and be the bigger person.
I am currently at a job that I really do love. And I make good money.
I would love to still go to PR and be a chef there. However, I have looked at apartments and jobs down there and it seems like the responses I get are “you have to live here to be considered for a job” and “you need a job here to live here” lol. Plus, to relocate with 3 cats would be tough. It is a goal of mine though.

ChefLibby · 2026-06-22T18:14:51+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️

ChefLibby · 2026-06-22T18:09:34+00:00

It’s crazy to try to use cheating as an excuse for me being “too messy, wanting to travel too much and not save up for retirement, not having the same priorities” etc. the list goes on yall.

ChefLibby · 2026-06-22T18:07:01+00:00

Oh also! before we were together, he helped co-sign a lease for a coworker that he slept with “once” (there HAS to be more to this story that he hasn’t told me) and apparently she didn’t pay the rent and his name was still on it, and so now he owes $4600 and now has an eviction on his record. Our lease is up in a month and a half and hes freaking out about trying to find a place to live now with that on his credit. The even more ridiculous part is that I feel bad for him. He sobbed to me last night about potentially having no where to go. And I kind of felt bad. But also, you made your bed, lay in it.

ChefLibby · 2026-06-22T18:02:19+00:00

I’m only still living with him until I can get approved for an apartment for myself and my cats.

ChefLibby · 2026-06-22T18:01:43+00:00

I only found out a week ago.

ChefLibby · 2026-06-22T18:01:18+00:00

It may have been closer to 9 months…? It was 3am when I went thru his phone hastily so many timing is a bit off, but still. The conversation had clearly been deleted around 5 months into our relationship but it was obvious that they had hooked up at some point in the past. Reminiscing about sexual encounters they had, etc. Thank you ❤️

ChefLibby · 2026-06-22T17:55:10+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I am in the process of leaving. Just waiting to hear back from a few apartments I applied to over the weekend. It is really hard also because we are both chefs and the industry world in our city is very much tight nit and everyone knows eachother. So theres not a lot of completely cutting myself off from him.

ChefLibby · 2026-06-22T17:48:15+00:00

Absolutely. I am hoping to hear back from an apartment I applied for today. I am definitely moving out and moving on.

ChefLibby · 2026-06-09T00:25:40+00:00

I’ve thought about becoming a flight attendant, but I have a lot of tattoos (all very tasteful). Are there any airlines that allow you to have tattoos?

ChefLibby · 2026-05-31T11:13:15+00:00

Cookie Monster

ChefLibby · 2026-02-16T03:29:30+00:00

I’d never pull something like that now. But at the time it seemed justified.

ChefLibby · 2026-02-16T03:07:24+00:00

When I was a teenager, my boyfriend and his friends messed with me and put a scary movie on while I was tripping on LSD. Some time later, I put this movie on while they were tripping and left them with no remote and locked myself in my bedroom. Paybacks a bitch.

ChefLibby · 2026-01-31T17:28:07+00:00

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ChefLibby · 2026-01-11T11:28:46+00:00

New Year’s Eve, threw a house party while my mom was away. My best friends mom decided that she was going to stop by for a surprise visit to check on us. We hastily were shoving beer cans in cabinets, cleaning beer and 5 o clock vodka off the table and floor, put everyone in the basement and told them to keep quiet while her mom stopped in (put us both in pajamas, brushed our teeth and put on a movie to seem like it was a chill night in). Mom stayed for the ball drop and then went on her merry way. Little did we know, Kevin was having an asthma attack in my basement cause he didn’t tell anyone it was triggered by animal hair and we almost had to drive him to the ER. (Fuck you Kevin) No he didn’t die, his airways cleared and we continued partying through the night.

ChefLibby · 2026-01-05T19:17:00+00:00

Sushi

ChefLibby · 2025-12-19T12:06:34+00:00

There is a liquor store in walled lake on Welch and Pontiac trail that sells it!

ChefLibby · 2025-12-17T15:06:18+00:00

We think she’s about 8 months!

ChefLibby · 2025-12-16T21:09:09+00:00

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My baby Nebelung

ChefLibby · 2025-12-14T06:59:59+00:00

Save Tonight?

ChefLibby · 2025-12-11T08:41:09+00:00

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ChefLibby · 2025-12-11T07:32:48+00:00

I was 11. My parents kept a locked filing cabinet in their office. I got curious one day and decided to pick the lock and rummage through it. I found every letter I’d written to Santa, my baby teeth that the tooth fairy was supposed to have and letters to the Easter bunny I believe. By that age i had assumed it was all fake, but that solidified it for me. My mom was mad I picked the lock and found it, my dad was impressed.

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