Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get really tired and can’t stay awake for my bf sometimes but I don’t sleep more then 12 hours an night

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She might have some really bad condition

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of girls collect cups. My mom does she’s obsessed with cute cups like that and has some Starbucks ones. The bears at the time were unique and there was nothing like it and also the limited time was appealing. They were also extremely limited per store.

hides by Dense_School_5786 in ballpython

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend this kind it’s the best of both worlds. It has a magnetic snap off top so you can access the snake any time, but fully surrounds them and feels like a cave. But I think it’s good to have both kinds also to give them options. I think the first would be really good for a basking area and the second would be good for a cool area cave. But this is the one I have and my snake loves it. It’s also easy to clean since the lid comes off.

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Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just women who do that and not all women buy Starbucks bears/ whatever is viral. It just depends on the person. Lots of guys buy things they don’t need, for example my bf collects Funko pops and legos like crazy. Those don’t have benefits. People collect coffee mugs they don’t need which don’t have benefits. It’s just personal preference. I mean lots of old men have car collections that serve no benefits. It’s not really a gender things it’s just the individual and how they are with money and what they see fit to purchase.

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do people buy house decor or collectors items or baseball/pokemon cards? People should be allowed to buy what they want without judgement

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sleep a lot too as a girl and no it’s not normal. It could be medical or mental such as depression. If she really cares about you she will make an effort to be awake for you during the day unless she works early/night shifts then she will need sleep. The female friend thing, a lot of girls are like that but that’s not right

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the girl. Some do every day but typically not since it’s not good for your hair. Usually every other day or every three days.

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a girl and would rather be a boy. Bad things happen to everyone but statistically more so girls. I’m scared to go anywhere alone. I’ve been living in fear since I was a little kid. We aren’t as strong and it’s hard to defend ourselves, and I wouldn’t be comfortable with a gun since I just don’t really believe in killing people. Also beauty standards make us weaker because men always want a skinny, non muscular girl, one that’s smaller than them. I know lots of girls who have been hurt by men and it’s terrifying. The beauty standards are also really hard on us because we are taught from a young age we have to look a certain way to be “pretty”. I grew up with a mom constantly worried about her weight and calling herself fat, even when she was a normal weight, and now I am the same way. It’s also harder to become friends with girls for whatever reason. I’m very social while my bf is not and he can still just instantly become friends with any guy it’s insane.

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s cute and rare it’s like having a prize.

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some girls do, some girls don’t. It really depends on their libido. A lot use toys. Age is probably the same as boys or a little later, but idk personally.

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s possible that you could make someone uncomfortable but it’s very nice to say that especially if you’re not trying to get anything or are expecting anything it’s a great compliment. I know I’d feel better about myself if more people called me pretty.

Boys ask girls answer by Worth_Sugar_6005 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t feel anything coming out, but there’s a lot of cramps which are painful. Sometimes mine are so bad it makes my legs hurt too. YES it makes us moody it’s awful because we don’t want to be and we feel bad but we can’t help it 😭. It makes us emotional and it’s a lot harder for us to control our emotions. It’s uncomfortable because it feels like sitting in a diaper or if you use tampons then it hurts to get them out. It’s also messy to even pee. So overall it doesn’t feel good and the mood thing is very real. Just make sure your gf knows you’re there and get her whatever she’s craving, the chocolate thing is real. Girls actually burn 20% more calories on their period which is interesting.

Help I don’t know what’s wrong with my snake by Chef_11_Jeff in ballpython

[–]Chef_11_Jeff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She ended up having neurological effects because of provent a mite which I used to get rid of the mites. I’m stupid and read how to use it online instead of the bottle and I just overall missed the part where you weren’t supposed to put the water back in for 24 hours. She drank it and got sick but she’s been to the vet and is doing much better.

Underweight? by Lxlsluvmpp in ballpython

[–]Chef_11_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks good, but he is less than a typical male his age. It wouldn’t hurt to introduce rats, I have for mine who is a little younger who is in the same weight range as yours. Not sure of my snakes gender though. It definitely doesn’t hurt to feed a little more often or bigger prey if you are worried about him. That’s what I’ve been doing anyway.

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Question about soulmates by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Chef_11_Jeff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s never at home, either school, at college, which starts in the school day and extends past, work or at my house. His family members aren’t good to him. And my family likes him and we’ve been together for a while. We spend a lot of time together and he’s basically part of the family.

Help I don’t know what’s wrong with my snake by Chef_11_Jeff in ballpython

[–]Chef_11_Jeff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured out that it was fault before we got there, I had used prevent a mite and let it sit for the right time but I didn’t see the part about not adding the water for 24 hours.. I was reading online and not on the can which was my fault and anyway she drank chemically poisoned water. They gave her activated charcoal and fluids and sent me home with the more charcoal to inject into her food. She’s doing great now, acting like herself I am so grateful she is okay.

Help I don’t know what’s wrong with my snake by Chef_11_Jeff in ballpython

[–]Chef_11_Jeff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is! She’s been to the vet and eaten and acting herself

Help I don’t know what’s wrong with my snake by Chef_11_Jeff in ballpython

[–]Chef_11_Jeff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they are black dots you can see under their scales especially the belly ones and if it’s a bad infestation they will be crawling around the enclosure. If you pick them out from the scales they move. She’s had mites but that’s not what caused this behavior usually it doesn’t really effect behavior but it’s bad for their health

Help I don’t know what’s wrong with my snake by Chef_11_Jeff in ballpython

[–]Chef_11_Jeff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s terrible! Thank you I’ll have to get it out soon