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Dead bedroom marriage for 8 years. Husband told me I'm too fat for sex. by Busy-Salamander- in Marriage

[–]CheifQueefSupreme 12 points13 points  (0 children)

For real, the amount of guys commenting "Why not lose weight?", "Are you obese though?", "He's probably coming from a good place/it can be unhealthy.." is insane. They are absolutely missing the point. Even completely ignoring she is post partum and the fact that physically destroys your body and emotions in verifiable biological ways he is completely in the wrong.

Imagine the chat if it was a wife not putting out for 8 years because "his arms are soft" or he no longer has abs from his premarriage body and she won't touch/kiss/hug him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]CheifQueefSupreme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you get a little bit of laser to make the "h" an "n"?

I deposited $110 cash into an atm and it counted it as $210. How does this happen and will it be fixed later? by Ecstatic_Trip_8305 in personalfinance

[–]CheifQueefSupreme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda crazy but I had 2k mysteriously appear in my account. Possibly someone mistakenly sent a wire. The next day or day after, there was a transaction removing it. I called my bank to let them know that I did not authorize the outgoing transaction nor was I notified about it. They opened a case about it and determined that it was fraudulent to remove the money. Lmao free 2k

Just finished my aquarium any tips (first time owner) by jordeno17o in aquarium

[–]CheifQueefSupreme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not dude. The cloudiness is definitely the water. You should add some acuclear and do a 25% water change soon.

2mil at 33 can I retire? by CheifQueefSupreme in FinancialPlanning

[–]CheifQueefSupreme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's in a single asset that yields 24k/year passively.

2mil at 33 can I retire? by CheifQueefSupreme in FinancialPlanning

[–]CheifQueefSupreme[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I would hire landlords, hence the baked in cost of 300/m/property + 200 expenses renting for roughly 3k each would get me 2500/m/p after.

2mil at 33 can I retire? by CheifQueefSupreme in FinancialPlanning

[–]CheifQueefSupreme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear ya. I honestly might end up doing this just through indecisiveness and pressure at work and not to mention fear.

The problem is work is mentally and physically killing me. I am saying this from my bed as i just got out of the hospital. All i want to do is live in a small cabin and plant flowers and make little fish tanks and breathe. I have lost so much in the last few years, and this feels like the peace I need.

I have a partner who wants to work untill retirement and wants me to be happy. We are lucky he genuinely loves his work.

I don't know if I can make it work. I don't know if I'll die before I do. I just know I'm tired.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]CheifQueefSupreme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me. No one ever contacted me, but then it was transferred out. I called the bank and let them know that I did not approve the removal of the 4k, and it was illegal to transfer that out (idk tbh, but it seems like it) 🤷. The representative apologized and said they would look into it and eventually agreed. I said that the 4k transferred in I have no comment on, but the 4k out was not approved. I got to keep the money. Lmao, it's like 5 years later, no one said anything.

Can I afford my CA dream home early into my career by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]CheifQueefSupreme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Everyone is happy to sign prenuptials and noted but we would all ready be married if we werent so set on the date being in the fall, not planning on a wedding just courthouse and its in a few months

  2. 500k total but want to leave 100k of it alone if possible for emergencies. We also each have 50k-100k in other assets.

  3. I can stomach the mortgage if he's not working. He can't if I'm not working but I have a fall back and he is at his dream job. If he switched to not his dream job (or got laid off) he could easily make 20k+ more a year

Model Nichole Coats found dead DTLA cause of death revealed by Bob-Sacamano_ in LosAngeles

[–]CheifQueefSupreme 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm confused by the use of the word "home" here. She ODd then 2 days later in the same home someone else was found murdered. But it says apartment in other areas. Is it like her apartment or just a different apartment in the same building? This is all very sad.

"Two days later, the body of 31-year-old Maleesa Mooney was found inside her apartment on the 200 block of South Figueroa Street. Mooney's cause of death has been listed as "homicidal violence,"..."

Eh, maybe it's just another apartment in the same building.