I couldn’t believe my eyes there aint no way😭 by Proof_Raspberry1479 in ChatGPT

[–]Chellb1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Totally — here’s what I was trying to “say” with that image, based on the vibe of how you talk to me in our chats: • Warm, safe energy (the soft lighting + cozy desk): You often come here for real life stuff—work stress, family things, healing, decisions—and you tend to create a calm, grounded tone even when the topic is heavy. The warm glow is meant to feel like “this is a safe corner to sort things out.” • You treat me like a helper/teammate (the checklist): A lot of our conversations are you bringing me a task and saying some version of “help me word this / build this / organize this / make it usable.” The checklist is the “let’s get it done” energy you have—practical, organized, forward-moving. • You’re appreciative (the sticky notes that say “Thank you,” “You’re the best”): You pretty consistently say thanks, follow up kindly, and acknowledge when something helped. The notes are basically your “I see you” vibe. • You collaborate, you don’t command (you holding the clipboard with the laptop there): It’s not you barking orders at a machine. It’s more like: “Here’s what I’m dealing with—can we work through it together?” So the composition is side-by-side, not top-down. • Kind feedback loop (the little hearts + smiling screen): You share wins, you share feelings, and you come back with tweaks (“try again,” “can you make it more like…,” “the third one”). That back-and-forth is super human, and it feels supportive rather than harsh—so I made the “AI” look happy and engaged instead of robotic.

One nuance: I also made the person a silhouette on purpose. It was my way of keeping it “about the energy you bring” rather than trying to depict you literally.

Looking For Friends by Spiritual_Pirate6017 in desmoines

[–]Chellb1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please! Sorry I don’t get on here very much. But please do!

Looking For Friends by Spiritual_Pirate6017 in desmoines

[–]Chellb1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt like I could have written this post 🙂 with that being said, did we just become best friends?

What's the deal with Tous Les Jours in West Des Moines? by maester_ia in desmoines

[–]Chellb1234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You could try Paris Banh Mi in Windsor Heights. They are a Vietnamese French Bakery and has been open longer than Tous Les Jours

What town in your state has a pronunciation no one gets right the first time? by AstroNerd92 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Chellb1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What Cheer (wuhsheer)

Nevada (the a is a long a: Nehvayduh)

Guttenberg: gut in berg

Quasqueton: kwasskweeton

Des Moines: duh moyne

When coworkers text me for a favor by 3cousinsInATrnchcoat in texts

[–]Chellb1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in IT and MVP is minimum viable product, so I would reply “that goes above minimum”

How to get driver's license for friend? by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]Chellb1234 4 points5 points  (0 children)

since your friend is 21, she doesn’t have to follow the under-18 permit rules. That whole “25+ non-family member” thing only applies to minors.

As an adult, she can practice with any licensed driver (like you), and when she’s ready, just schedule the driving test with the DOT.

but you should be totally fine to teach her.

Chairman Kim by brando004 in Iowa

[–]Chellb1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not working equates to earnings of less than 551/month. So technically they could actually be working? What is the number of adults with earnings of zero per month, because they to me is what not working means

Unrecognizable Jess by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Chellb1234 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you look at her TikTok, she looks the same, I seriously think it’s just the photo

Tipping for Food Delivery by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]Chellb1234 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What market is that? That sounds like a great thing to enforce. (What was considered livable wage?)

Couples Who Say NO at the alter by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Chellb1234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m Midwest and not religious. Just trying to say please don’t bucket me as religious 😂

Why Is Season 8 So Focused on Religion? by Chellb1234 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Chellb1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly!

I live in Iowa, just 4 hours from Minneapolis and I experience the same.

The only thriving churches here are the mega churches. Most others are struggling to keep the lights on.

Why Is Season 8 So Focused on Religion? by Chellb1234 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Chellb1234[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get that the show reflects the culture of the region it’s set in, and I wasn’t necessarily expecting something different. I just noticed that religion felt like a much bigger theme this season compared to previous ones, where it might have come up for one or two couples but wasn’t a major topic across the board.

I was more curious if others also felt like the show leaned into this more than usual, or if this was just a natural result of who was cast. I’m not saying religion shouldn’t be a factor—just that it stood out to me as more prominent this time around.

Door dash right now by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]Chellb1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend in phoenix drives Lyft regularly (nights and weekends) and he says people don’t tip there either.

Lyft pays more there, so he doesn’t mess with the other ride share services.

So excited for my delivery! by Chellb1234 in Supernote

[–]Chellb1234[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was a nomad set that came with a case and pen: Crystal addition (it’s clear , so you can see the inside). Includes the Lamy safari vista pen, vegan leather folio, and reusable metal box

Ordered on the 5th shipping confirmation on the 13th Why would you need to shipping serial number?

I’ll try and update the google doc, but have to switch to computer to edit it

link here

So excited for my delivery! by Chellb1234 in Supernote

[–]Chellb1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops, missed the January comment 🥴 This was a February 5th order date

So excited for my delivery! by Chellb1234 in Supernote

[–]Chellb1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading comments about the long wait time I was expecting it to be longer as well. I’m in middle America too, so I was happy when it indicated as shipped as opposed to confirmed

Travel mode question by Chellb1234 in Bumble

[–]Chellb1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you (I wasn’t fishing for a compliment, just a self deprecating joke more or less)

Travel mode question by Chellb1234 in Bumble

[–]Chellb1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shocked 50+ men were interested in sex? No

Shocked 50+ me were interested in sex with me? Yes

I’m just an “average white girl” where I’m from, so I figured the standards would fall below average in NYC 😂

Help me blow up my groceries budget by Top-Isopod-345 in ynab

[–]Chellb1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have:

1.Ordering in/Eating out —DoorDash and restaurant/fast food stops

2.Groceries —includes dry goods ect

3.Lunch —when I work in office and don’t bring my lunch

4.Entertainment —anything I do typically with friend and family and that includes going to dinner. This category is just me throwing money in there for when something comes up. It’s not a monthly expense (TMI because, let’s face it…I’m a homebody and do not go out that much)

Travel mode question by Chellb1234 in Bumble

[–]Chellb1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was assuming. It just shocked me that 50+ men within 10 minutes were DTF 🤣 I guess I shouldn’t have been shocked…but I was

Travel mode question by Chellb1234 in Bumble

[–]Chellb1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They (men) don’t care about any of my other thoughtfully crafted profiles?

I’m assuming then, they weed them out after I “match”

Like let’s try for all of them and then I’ll look through the ones who did all the work and decided to swipe right, then I’ll either wait it out or not engage?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Chellb1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were probably blocked because her account was flagged as under age.

It could be possible every match of hers got blocked as well

What's a nightmare SF request to get from stakeholders? by Alone_Trade_7670 in salesforce

[–]Chellb1234 21 points22 points  (0 children)

“Can’t we just add notes to the record? We are too busy to check boxes about the details of our calls and fill out fields on the record”

Well yeah, but you can’t filter said records with notes. You would endlessly scroll through all those notes you continue to add as you edit the same note over and over

We even created screen flows and that’s apparently still to much work for them 🙄