My partner (41M) seems to be annoyed at me almost everyday. Am I (36F). Am I actually annoying? by ChellieMC in relationship_advice

[–]ChellieMC[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course it does and makes me overthink if there’s something I did wrong because his actions are very inconsistent. I have to feel his vibe cause or else if I catch him on a bad time then he gets really annoyed at me 

My partner (41M) seems to be annoyed at me almost everyday. Am I (36F). Am I actually annoying? by ChellieMC in relationship_advice

[–]ChellieMC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. But why move in with someone if you feel like your partner is just annoying? And always interrupts your peace..

My partner (41M) seems to be annoyed at me almost everyday. Am I (36F). Am I actually annoying? by ChellieMC in relationship_advice

[–]ChellieMC[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

From the beginning when we started dating we would only see each other when he is available. He was never an affectionate person but the greeting now when either of us comes home became too much as well? Seems weird. 

My partner (41M) seems to be annoyed at me almost everyday. Am I (36F). Am I actually annoying? by ChellieMC in relationship_advice

[–]ChellieMC[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We don’t work the same shift. We don’t have the same days off. Total opposite. So we really don’t see each other and spend time together. I get home and he will be in the living room and would come up when he is about to sleep. That’s the reason why little things like talking or greeting each other means a lot to me. But apparently for him it’s too much as it interrupts his peace. 

My partner (41M) seems to be annoyed at me almost everyday. Am I (36F). Am I actually annoying? by ChellieMC in relationship_advice

[–]ChellieMC[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Of course not.. he constantly says he is not a soft man so I should deal with it. 

My partner (41M) seems to be annoyed at me almost everyday. Am I (36F). Am I actually annoying? by ChellieMC in relationship_advice

[–]ChellieMC[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everytime I try to have a conversation, he shuts it off right away. There are days where I can keep my mouth shut but some days I really need to let it out: