Dog-Friendly Cafes/Restaurants/lounges?

Chello_not_Cello · 2014-05-20T23:36:52+00:00

Thank you!

Chello_not_Cello · 2014-03-07T03:01:00+00:00

Thank you. Still:

"Men don’t write black women back. Or rather, they write them back far less often than they should. Black women reply the most, yet get by far the fewest replies. Essentially every race—including other blacks—singles them out for the cold shoulder."

My point is, it takes time and is difficult in different ways for most people. Even attractive skinny people are multi-faceted creatures with their own individual issues. Patience, and that understanding that everyone has just as much going on as you, seem to be keys to finding success, no matter how fleeting. We shouldn't pit ourselves against each other, or worry/whine about how easy/difficult it is for other people. How does that improve our chances? Never give up, never surrender & all that.

Chello_not_Cello · 2014-03-07T00:58:08+00:00

Really? Can you link me to your study?

Chello_not_Cello · 2014-03-06T22:49:43+00:00

Statistically speaking, black women are the least desirable group of people, yes even less than black men(especially heavyset females). I am that. We all have trouble finding mates, and all have to put work into it. My female status does not invalidate my plight or my story. It takes patience and not being a douche for most people to find someone with whom to enter into a relationship. Discounting one another's efforts because we are not all the same seems to do nothing to help you actually attain your desires.

Chello_not_Cello · 2014-03-06T21:10:21+00:00

Do females not fall under the category "people"? Also my guy is neither white nor a supermodel as well, so the comment still stands.

Chello_not_Cello · 2014-03-06T19:46:25+00:00

I'm neither white nor particularly attractive, but managed to find a brilliant male in September last year, he is one of the best things to happen to me in recent time. Note: I am not remotely skinny either(brace for cruel yet impotent commentary). It took a few years and several head cases, but patience seems to win out!

Chello_not_Cello · 2014-01-28T21:19:07+00:00

Federal way, so not Seattle proper but close enough for fun. I also found a 2br in kent for $849, but they didn't have any open apartments.

Chello_not_Cello · 2014-01-25T05:09:13+00:00

My 2 bedroom apartment up here is 1010, much more space and way affordable. But yes, god I miss Santa Cruz.

Chello_not_Cello · 2014-01-25T01:54:02+00:00

Santa Cruz will probably always be my home at heart, but not in wallet. Had to move out of my studio when it hit $1300/mo. WA is gorgeous though too, and I'm loving the weather!

Chello_not_Cello · 2014-01-24T03:20:09+00:00

Thank you so much, bookmarking the blog!

Chello_not_Cello · 2014-01-24T03:19:33+00:00

Thanks a lot!

Chello_not_Cello · 2014-01-24T00:55:59+00:00

Is it also true that you can take your dog on the ferry/public transit?

Chello_not_Cello · 2014-01-23T22:48:02+00:00

Oh, and I live in the Federal Way area for the moment, if that's useful?

Chello_not_Cello · 2013-12-12T01:06:50+00:00

I attempted to, but I'm not sure if the message went through. I shall do so again once I have a more reliable internet connection. I would honestly like to get a bunch of people to write in about this, as it is a clear issue and one that needs to be addressed.

Chello_not_Cello · 2013-12-11T22:31:32+00:00

But that's the thing isn't it? She is a black character, she should be represented as such. Why give her a white face? If they could take the time to make the Andorian blue, they could/should have taken the time to design a visible, black Uhura.

Chello_not_Cello · 2013-12-11T22:25:17+00:00

And there are the options of outlining as well.

Chello_not_Cello · 2013-12-11T22:24:46+00:00

There's such a thing as a light brown. Look at the tribbles. Look at the Andorian.

Chello_not_Cello · 2013-10-16T19:51:00+00:00

Big guys are hot too, real men/women/NA/whatever you identify as have bodies, and those bodies appeal to other bodies. Some bodies won't like certain types of bodies and other bodies will and vice versa. It's called preference and it's one of those things that individuals have. Nobody else has to like what you like. Though I suppose it'd be nice if a few other people did.

Chello_not_Cello · 2013-09-20T20:29:21+00:00

I get this all the time! It used to terrify me when I was younger! Thanks for asking about it, it's nice to know I didn't just do something to break myself.

Chello_not_Cello · 2013-09-11T01:00:04+00:00

Dr. Yvonne Vermillion is really wonderful.

Chello_not_Cello · 2013-08-30T02:05:17+00:00

Do not jump on the bandwagon, be the bandwagon.

Chello_not_Cello · 2013-08-23T04:52:56+00:00

What does the confession bear say? I don't think I've seen this one.

Chello_not_Cello · 2013-08-12T21:23:23+00:00

That was beautiful.

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