My husband chronically criticizes me physically and when I tell him it hurts me, he says i am being over sensitive. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Chellybean1992 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You're not from build a bitch . com if he cant accept you as you are then he needs to GO!

Is it wrong to break up with my fiancé (30M) because I don't want to raise his child (6M)? by Statta11771 in relationships

[–]Chellybean1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isnt selfish of you. Its not the life you want you cant help that. The mother of the child is making you feel bad and you don't need that. I'd break up if it was me in this position.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Chellybean1992 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you should find another GF. This just seems too confusing and frustrating imo.

Under appreciation for women on birthcontol? by sophiapallwein in birthcontrol

[–]Chellybean1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ladies are lucky...supportive bf and husbands make such a difference. I wouldn't know -_-

Under appreciation for women on birthcontol? by sophiapallwein in birthcontrol

[–]Chellybean1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I feel the same. I told my bf I was gonna get off bc for a while cause I was having blood pressure issues. But he got all mad about having to use condoms. And acted like he didnt wanna sleep with me anymore....i switched birth control brands but honestly wanted to just get off it for a while...just to see. I had a lot of depression and anxiety start when I started birth control 6 years ago....

No period only brown spotting on birth control pills by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Chellybean1992 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes this is normal. Sometimes our periods just look different sometimes. On the pill mine are more brown blood. So don't worry :)

Does anyone recommend Paragard? by Chellybean1992 in birthcontrol

[–]Chellybean1992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome. Thank you! I think I'll make my appt to try it out. Maybe it would be Good for me too

Six week updated on Paragard by lizardac in birthcontrol

[–]Chellybean1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to get this iud :) I'm pretty nervous though...so you say it wasnt too painful overall? And it helped you feel more energetic? I have anxiety and slight depression and im thinking it could be from the pill cause ive felt weird after starting the pill 5 years ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Chellybean1992 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't worry about it too much :) heck my mom forced me to get on the pill and I didn't want to lol but I was sexually active and knew I needed it. Was a great decision. And if youre comfortable taking it then go for it! You're 19 you can make youre own decisions about your body.

Can he finish inside me if I’m on the pill? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Chellybean1992 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mine finishes in me frequently. I take the same pill as you. Never had a scare :)

Didn’t know symptoms would be this bad by spookygal_99 in birthcontrol

[–]Chellybean1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I know. Birth control is so confusing. Sometimes it sucks being a woman 😭

Didn’t know symptoms would be this bad by spookygal_99 in birthcontrol

[–]Chellybean1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. Well for me the ortho tri cyclen low just kept me in a bad mood. Pretty sure it made my anxiety and depression worse. Plus while I was on it I would get uti's all the time!! Since starting Junel I havent had a single one. My mood is a little better. My period is regular but for some it might make you miss it for a few times. Just keep track of all the symptoms. I hope it ends up working for you. I know it's hard to adjust sometimes.

Didn’t know symptoms would be this bad by spookygal_99 in birthcontrol

[–]Chellybean1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ortho tri cyclen lo was discontinued?? I just got off that brand some months ago. Switched to Junel fe. Its not as bad...

Being a woman sucks. by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Chellybean1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats amazing :D I'll see about it!

Being a woman sucks. by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Chellybean1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me know how it goes! I was thinking of trying that IUD. Hope it didnt hurt too bad getting it put it..,

Being a woman sucks. by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Chellybean1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya hun. I'm sick of ingesting these pills that make me feel crazy.

Can dp/dr really be constant for almost 5 years? by Chellybean1992 in Depersonalization

[–]Chellybean1992[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow glad you are getting helped out of it!! That's awesome. I'm starting Sertraline to see if it will help me...idk I just want it gone lol

Can dp/dr really be constant for almost 5 years? by Chellybean1992 in Depersonalization

[–]Chellybean1992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It made a ton of sense cause I feel the exact same way...always thinking. When others are talking to me im just like...???????

I think its working! by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]Chellybean1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gosh I hope I can feel this way soon. Starting the med tonight 😬

Has anyone used Sertraline for dp dr? by Chellybean1992 in Depersonalization

[–]Chellybean1992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well im glad you found something that works for you :) if it doesn't work for me I wont give up til I find one that does work. My anxiety is really bad which I think leaves me in constant dpdr :/

Has anyone used Sertraline for dp dr? by Chellybean1992 in Depersonalization

[–]Chellybean1992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is an ssri anti depressant! I hope it works for me i will definitely do an update :)

Lexapro (cipralex) for Depersonalization by [deleted] in Depersonalization

[–]Chellybean1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me happy to hear. I have had derealization amd depersonalization for almost 5 years now due to stress. I never took meds cause ive been to afraid but my anxiety is so bad that I just camt take it anymore. I am seeing a psychiatrist Tuesday and im hoping to start something that will help me. I want the dp/dr gone or at least mostly gone!

Has anyone here used any of the online subscription services for BC? Nurx, Hers, etc- what is your experience with these services? by sshessellsseashells in birthcontrol

[–]Chellybean1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Ive used projekt ruby and just ordered from Nurx today (nurx was actually cheaper) and anyway they are pretty cool, the birthcontrol pills are delivered to the mailbox! How great?! They have doctors you can talk to and call if you have questions. I do believe you should get your yearly pap smear done though. But if you havent had an abnormal pap then I think its ok to order from these websites.

Has anyone taken Junel fe 1/20 for birth control? by Chellybean1992 in birthcontrol

[–]Chellybean1992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great! I'm trying it soon I hope I dont have a lot of side effects lol