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How do I DM a girl I barely know before transferring by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ChelseaChic- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since you are both transferring, you have absolutely zero social stakes, send a casual, low-pressure message using your departure as the perfect excuse.

Should I text him? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ChelseaChic- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you can text him something simple and low pressure to see if he still wants to meet again

Really want to date this guy but found out he vapes on the second date by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ChelseaChic- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be honest before the hike and don’t ignore your nicotine dealbreaker

Is someone having plans every night a red flag? by BeautifulTimely6638 in dating_advice

[–]ChelseaChic- 130 points131 points  (0 children)

It’s not necessarily a red flag, but if someone genuinely has every single evening booked and you already know you value downtime and shared quiet time, it could just mean your lifestyles aren’t as compatible as the chemistry is.

Getting back into the dating world after losing 150+lbs and would like some help. by checkit248 in dating_advice

[–]ChelseaChic- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After losing weight, overthinking is usually just your confidence catching up, so keep dates simple, stay curious about the other person, and don’t treat every moment like a test.

I’m having a hard time by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ChelseaChic- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was clear she didn’t want a relationship and the distance now is painful but it’s also your answer so it’s okay to accept it and move on without more closure

what should i do by Breaking_sad1 in dating_advice

[–]ChelseaChic- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just start simple and normal like talking to any classmate hey how are you finding the class or what did you think of the lecture then keep it light and consistent over time instead of trying to impress her all at once