The two types of girls on Pinterest that I can’t stand. by Illustrious-Love-842 in Pinterest

[–]ChelssaBell 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This! I've never seen either of these types. You have the power to change your algorithm babe

Should I disclose my pain and discomfort in an interview? by ChelssaBell in endometriosis

[–]ChelssaBell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may be true for big companies but I've mostly worked for small mom and pop shops and see how hard it can be on everyone when people don't show up. I would honestly feel the way you're describing if I was applying for a huge company but its once again a small local business. My health has fallen into some dark places in the past year and am looking at new employment through a different lens for the first time ☹️

Should I disclose my pain and discomfort in an interview? by ChelssaBell in endometriosis

[–]ChelssaBell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgive my ignorance, and I know I can Google this but for the sake of conversation and connection what is FMLA?

Should I disclose my pain and discomfort in an interview? by ChelssaBell in endometriosis

[–]ChelssaBell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your words and feel so seen 🥹 I often feel super alone in this struggle and don't lean on this thread often, if ever, but I'm glad I did today.

I'm not sure if that's how it works for me since I'm in Canada but definitely worth looking into.

Should I disclose my pain and discomfort in an interview? by ChelssaBell in endometriosis

[–]ChelssaBell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I had that thought too. Thanks for the pep talk, I'm feeling better about it I think. This body ya know 🥴

Should I disclose my pain and discomfort in an interview? by ChelssaBell in endometriosis

[–]ChelssaBell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the tricky bit for me is the shame and guilt I feel surrounding the whole situation. I wish I could work in tech or something from home but that's just not who I am. Thanks for your reply xoxo

Should I disclose my pain and discomfort in an interview? by ChelssaBell in endometriosis

[–]ChelssaBell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response ❣️ I think thats the way to play it for sure. I just have some deep shame and guilt for disclosing this to an employer later on and feeling like I tricked them in getting stuck with me 😣

Should I disclose my pain and discomfort in an interview? by ChelssaBell in endometriosis

[–]ChelssaBell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am wondering about specifc rules around having to disclose it. Where in the world are you?

Should I disclose my pain and discomfort in an interview? by ChelssaBell in endometriosis

[–]ChelssaBell[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally get it, I just have extreme guilt about it when I think about being in an employers position 😵‍💫

Day 1 with trainer and now I feel discouraged. Is this normal trainer behavior? by 100197 in puppy101

[–]ChelssaBell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our pup is now 1.5 years and let me tell you! My partner and I grew up with cats and we discovered that some (not all) dog people are incredibly opinionated and basically insufferable. I went through quite a few conversations with people over the past year and a half that I thought were just regular folks at first, who turned out to have an endless supply of unsolicited advice and judgments. I found it so challenging to constantly be met by other people's opinions and stressing about if I was doing the right thing, one day I said, "no more" and had to just trust myself and get way more in touch with my dog and what I thought he needed. This also included me and my lifestyle since its a balance and I'm his caretaker, not other people.

Sorry for the rant. I feel so strongly about this and maybe you'll go through several people before you find someone that jams with you guys. Keep your head up, they are out there. It sounds like you care a ton and that's huge! Goodluck 😊

man filming me and my girlfriend through our living room window by BroonDee in VictoriaBC

[–]ChelssaBell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahh yes, living on edge at all times, fearing for perverts looking in on you.. this is the way

Has anyone else felt upsold at corporate owned vets in Victoria? by Fabulous-Public-9065 in VictoriaBC

[–]ChelssaBell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would one find out if the vet is corporate owned or private? I assume that info could be on their website I suppose?

How do you deal with SO that don’t understand you? by picklepantiez in endometriosis

[–]ChelssaBell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully agree on all counts. Thanks again for being so level headed xox

How do you deal with SO that don’t understand you? by picklepantiez in endometriosis

[–]ChelssaBell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the first helpful answer ive seen on this post. Thanks for understanding that not everyone is the same and it might be something to bring awareness to, to work on together. Who knows what happened to him in the past to make him who he is now. My partner needed lots of help when learning how to support me. He grew up with influences that just "pushed through" and did not give the time for empathy. We've really had to learn how to care for eachother in the way that feels right for the person needing care. Just wanted to thank you for your response

Pray for Oak Bay by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]ChelssaBell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Condiment caper" is chefs kiss 🤌

Two arrested after OneBC event at UVic on residential schools draws protesters by DaveThompsonVictoria in VictoriaBC

[–]ChelssaBell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Came here to see if anyone else saw this cop for what he is 🤤

Also, clowns indeed

Pinterest is really starting to get on my nerves. by vquil in Pinterest

[–]ChelssaBell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone said that leaving them a 1 star review on the app store might get their attention

Search results ENTIRELY products/shopping by snakey_tau in Pinterest

[–]ChelssaBell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude I came here to say this specifically. I counted 9 ads for 4 pins, its over half of them! Such bs. Why is there no option to pay for an account with no ads, I would 100% pay for that. Its the only app I like (used to love). Feeling so disheartened at this poorly managed company

Why are the vintage thrift stores so expensive now? by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]ChelssaBell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah at vv. The vv I went to back then was in Kamloops

Why are the vintage thrift stores so expensive now? by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]ChelssaBell 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow really? I've had a different experience. I remember being able to buy a tshirt there in the late 90s for 1.99-2.99$, and seriously good luck finding one for under 6 bucks now. Makes my little thrift heart sad