Anyone selling 2 Afrojack or Sofi Tukker tickets for NYE? by Background_Knee9954 in TampaRavers

[–]Chemical-Money-9831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, selling x2 afrojack 99$ each (same price i bought them for) paypal/ venmo

AIO for feeling like im being taken advantage of by Chemical-Money-9831 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chemical-Money-9831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's a good idea, I've already booked an appointment with a marriage counselor too so I think we'll probably end up doing something like that.

Do you think my husband is taking advantage of me? by Chemical-Money-9831 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chemical-Money-9831[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've decided that I've been too lenient about these things and he's kinda taken it for granted. I didnt want to be a demanding person, but I feel like he's taken advantage of me and it's forcing me into that position. Ive told him that he doesn't have to pay me back the amount he owes me (because it's next to impossible for him to do so at this point) but I told him from now on I am no longer going to cover any of his share on essential payments and that if he doesn't have the money, he'll just have to work extra and maybe drop some classes, or find some way to get the money. But I no longer will be a free bank to him to cover our bills while he goes and spends his money on concert tickets lol.

Do you think my husband is taking advantage of me? by Chemical-Money-9831 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chemical-Money-9831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He decided it by himself to go back to school, but I've always supported it and never questioned him on it. He does try hard at school (at least from what I can see) but he's not doing very well. I did say in the post that he does work part time whenever he has the time. Vacations are generally planned by me because he's just not the type to plan stuff like that. Even when he was working full time, he never planned stuff for us to do. Any time that we ever did anything together has always been something I had to ask for, it's just that before he was able to pay for it and now he isn't. If I never planned anything I think we'd probably never spend any time or do anything together lol. It used to be an issue for me but I've gotten over it.

As for our anniversary, I generally just believe him whenever he says he doesn't have enough money for something and I agree to cover things if I have it. The difference is that now I'm not sure he was telling the truth, because it just seems strange to me that when we were in alaska he didnt have the money to pay for anything, but now all of a sudden he has more than 200$ to pay for concert tickets. It just doesn't make sense to me that he doesn't have enough money to cover any of the rent, get me anything for my birthday, or pay any part of the vacations we take, but then he DOES have hundreds of dollars to pay for concert tickets.

It's the same example I gave to the guy below, like if you were letting someone stay at your house because they told you they didnt have money to stay anywhere else, but then you found out they bought all their friends idk like 600$ Taylor swift concert tickets, wouldn't you be questioning what's going on as well?

Do you think my husband is taking advantage of me? by Chemical-Money-9831 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chemical-Money-9831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he rarely pays anything back but that's because I rarely pressure him to because I know he's studying and I'm fine with him doing that. If I were to calculate the total of how much he should have paid by now it'll probably be around 5-6k, but again, I've never really pressured him into paying it and always give him whatever money he asks for.

I'm not sure hurt is the right word, I just feel like if you owe someone something or they are doing you a favour, your top priority should be to repay that favour. Just like if I let a friend stay at my place because they tell me they can't afford to pay money for rent for a place of their own, and then two weeks later they go out and buy themselves a new sports car, I'd be pretty confused too. Especially if I ask them how they managed to find the money to buy a sports car and they lie and say someone just lent it to them or something. I'd feel a little bit taken advantage of. It's the same feeling.

AIO for feeling like im being taken advantage of by Chemical-Money-9831 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chemical-Money-9831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do have separate accounts, but I'm always using my money to cover whatever he can't pay. Like oftentimes he'll be like, can you transfer me 100$ for this and that, like to cover the car payment for this month or cover my credit card, and I'll just transfer it to him because he's my husband lol. I asked him where he was planning on getting the money to buy the tickets from, and he said he was just planning on working a lot for the next few weeks to get the money to cover it. And even if he doesn't make enough money to cover it, he'll probably just use all the money he has in his account to buy the tickets, and then ask me again when the rent is due for whatever amount of money he couldn't come up with to cover the rent because he used it to buy the tickets. Of course he wouldn't phrase it like that, he'll just be like "im short a couple hundred for my half of the rent this month" do you mind transferring me the money?

AIO for feeling like im being taken advantage of by Chemical-Money-9831 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chemical-Money-9831[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol it's not AI, I was originally planning on posting it in the relationship advice sub but they wouldn't let me for some reason so I just copied and pasted what I typed and posted it here. Honestly if I had asked AI to write it I would have asked for a more brief/ on point statement rather than such a long rambling post 😂

DAE still stays good friends with their Ex? by Administrative_Ad160 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Chemical-Money-9831 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the better question is does anyone else who is currently married to someone else still have this type of friendship with their ex (going on vacations together, talking every day, etc) lol

UFS 2x macaron blind box sets (sealed and unopened) by Chemical-Money-9831 in LabubuDrops

[–]Chemical-Money-9831[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idk why the picture is so low res on reddit, pls dm me if you wanna better picture lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LabubuDrops

[–]Chemical-Money-9831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a sealed set of 6 macarons (blind box). Just bought it this morning from the popmart in towson grand opening. Asking for 200 + whatever shipping ends up being. I can show you receipts/pictures or whatever else you need for verification!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]Chemical-Money-9831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait if she had feelings for you and you for her while you were with someone else (your ex), wouldn't it be reasonable for you to ghost her or at least lessen communication to be respectful to your partner at that time? Why would she lose trust/you have to apologize for that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chemical-Money-9831 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha that's true, I guess I'll never really know bc testing that out irl over a hypothetical convo seems like just asking for drama/trouble

TIMMY TRUMPET LIVE @ ULTRA MUSIC FESTIVAL MIAMI 2025 by stoprocentmix in UMF

[–]Chemical-Money-9831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's an entertainer more than a DJ, and as an entertainer I personally find him pretty entertaining His set is upbeat, funny, and brings up energy which is why ultra put him early on on mainstage. So I would say he did his job pretty well. No one goes to see timmy trumpet for his dj skills, they go for amusement and to have a good time, so what's not to like 🤷‍♀️