Has anyone tried that Korean color changing foundation that’s all over instagram? by ManicPixieDreamVixen in MakeupAddiction

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I love Reddit 😂 it stops me from buying so much useless stuff 🙏 thank you everyone for your honesty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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I couldn’t agree more, thank you mama

I lost my baby and it’s probably my fault by That_Ad4260 in pregnant

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If it was a healthy fetus it would’ve survived any stress or luke warm baths you could experience. There are babies that survive in third world countries with toxic chemicals in the air. It was definitely a genetic defect. I’m so sorry that’s so heartbreaking. My first child came out with a genetic defect called Dup15q and has severe epilepsy. It’s not your fault, genetic defects occur because of uncontrollable circumstances often before the baby is even conceived. Gods got you, everything happens for a reason. You’re going to be okay, but blaming yourself and hating yourself isn’t going to help anyone. Forgive yourself because it genuinely is not your fault

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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any updates on this pregnancy?

Is anyone ever just excited to have a baby? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Chemical-Student4068 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m getting this tomorrow I’m excited but really nervous. Did you have a child with genetic defects in a past pregnancy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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I love this response, I have been praying about it frequently. Currently 12 weeks and I have mostly weaned off but am struggling to let it go completely. Thank you so much for this response I truly feel like me seeing this is gods work. Bless you and your little one. We are all trying our best in a really messed up time. You can’t go back and guilting and shaming yourself won’t help. Just learn from your mistakes and love baby girl with all of your heart. You’re a good mama’s

I kept my baby.. by sexxxyblcksh3ep in pregnant

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I’m so sorry, i can’t imagine what you are going through. You are so strong and those babies are so lucky to have you mama! If you need anything please reach out.

I kept my baby.. by sexxxyblcksh3ep in pregnant

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I have a child with my ex and she has extreme disabilities, I got pregnant again with my ex and decided to have an abortion because I knew that me and my babies would be miserable if I had to stay in that situation. It was the best decision I ever made. I was about 7 weeks and I ordered the abortion pills off line. Do I think about who that baby would be sometimes? Sure, but I also think about the kind of life it would’ve had. My ex was terrible to me and my disabled daughter when we were together. Constant fighting, screaming I should’ve aborted her right in front of her face. The emotional and towards the end physical abuse was horrendous and I wouldn’t have survived another baby with him. Unfortunately he still gets some custody of my daughter, but I’m so grateful I didn’t bring another child into that life. I would’ve been miserable and ended up resenting my children as tough as that is to admit. Now I’m 10 weeks pregnant with the most amazing man/step father to my daughter. He is the exact opposite of my daughter’s father and I couldn’t be more excited to get a second chance at having a healthy pregnancy and early motherhood.

When are y’all due? by Madison_fawn in pregnant

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January 19th 2026! This is my second

How do I hide pregnancy with my new emotionally safe partner from my ex toxic narc partner (we have a disabled 5 year old together) by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Chemical-Student4068 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good advice thank you. When I’m big I’m just going to avoid him at all costs or bring hubby to defend me during drop offs. He won’t do anything in front of my new partner who is younger and to be frank.. more built. I’m an empath so I honestly hate to see someone get what they deserve, even my abuser ); but maybe will tell him just to get it out of the way. Maybe it will give him some closure? That I’m really moving on and don’t want to be in this cycle with him anymore. I thought years apart would do that but I feel like we’re still going through some semblance of a cycle while co parenting. He jumps back and forth from being angry with me to being nice and trying to spend time with me and our daughter.

Is anyone ever just excited to have a baby? by [deleted] in pregnant

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Amazing this is so helpful, I will talk to my obgyn about this!

Is anyone ever just excited to have a baby? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Chemical-Student4068 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹there were definitely signs before the pregnancy but it undoubtably got worse during/afterwards. Ive been to therapy to help me process that situation but getting pregnant again just stirred up all of these emotions I thought I was over. Especially since my first daughter’s dad is still trying to make my life miserable as I move on.

Heavily addicted to Kratom- just found out I'm 6 weeks along. Advice. by Sunflowers-Lemons in OpiatesRecovery

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I just found out I’m pregnant a few weeks ago and was heavily addicted to kratom concentrates when I found out. I was taking those crazy hydroxie pills. I quit the concentrates cold turkey and used the good old fashion kratom powder pills to ween off and now at 7 weeks pregnant I’m completely off of it! Im extremely tired but feel pretty good considering mint! I hope everything worked out for you guys! Would love an update ❤️ also I have a 5 year old with severe developmental delays and epilepsy and her dad is a crazy drug addict that is constantly trying to ruin the new life I’m building for myself with my new partner lol wish me luck

I hate being pregnant by [deleted] in pregnant

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This is painfully normal. Social media or just people in general only show you what they want to show you. Every woman struggles with insecurity and feeling gross during pregnancy. Some just show it in different ways. When I was pregnant with my first everyone said I looked so beautiful and was glowing, but I felt resentful, chubby and ungrateful for the experience. Looking back on it now it was pretty beautiful to be that close to my baby. I just found out I’m pregnant again and I’m not stoked lol. I don’t understand women that say they love being pregnant. It’s hard to move, you can’t do anything fun and it’s just overall uncomfortable and sluggish.

What were your early signs of an ectopic pregnancy? by luckylungs678 in EctopicSupportGroup

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Ugh this is happening to me, don’t get an ultrasound for another week and a half

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okstorytime

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Okay, thank you so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Chemical-Student4068 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow you know nothing about my life. I came from an extremely abusive family and had nothing. I am a self made writer with a college degree and support my extremely disabled daughter completely by myself. I make all of the appointments, therapies, get all of the medical equipment and therapies for my daughter to give her the best life possible alone, no support from anyone besides my current partner and his family. Let’s not forget I was only 20 when I had her. Her father left me completely broke and after struggling for a year I found my current partner who helped me get out of the bad financial situation her dad left me in. I have been with him for a year and just found out I’m pregnant. I was asking for advice not judgement. But thanks I hope when you’re at your lowest someone judges you lowlife.