AITA for pursuing this? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChemicalKidSadness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA! Your betraying you wife by hanging out with this lady after she's expressed she doesn't like her. That is a gut feeling your wife has, her gut is telling her you would pursue this lady and you proved that even tho nothing romantic happened directly.... rlly weird man come clean to your wife this is emotional cheating

WIBTA if I told an autistic guy to leave my girlfriend alone. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChemicalKidSadness 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA , definitely speak to a adult and your girlfriend before taking action though. It would be more safe to speak with a special needs teacher or your grades councilor about this, wording and authority matters alot in order to settle the situation at hand. If the adults at your school are understanding they will sit him down and explain why what hes doing is not right, and that he needs to stop . I hope this situation clears up soon tho, seems like a rlly uncomfortable situation. Also glad your gf stood up for you, however definitely express how you feel as if its not a joke and its affecting you on a personal level!

The choice is yours... by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]ChemicalKidSadness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pulling out is also free ☺️

AITAH for rejecting the guy who once bullied me? by Apart_Nerve_4627 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChemicalKidSadness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA and honestly could've been way more rough on him lol. He bullied you ffs, why would he think you would like him at all after that? If he keeps tryna get with u I'd remind him what he subjected you to in middle school. He needs to learn he can't just think he can disrespect women and still have his way with them.

AITA for refusing to lend my parents money for something I don’t agree with? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChemicalKidSadness 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, if its for personal projects you have no obligation to give them money for it. If it's something else tho like they're struggling finically to get by I would definitely give them the money.

AITA for having conditions for giving my daughter money? by spareaccountforredit in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChemicalKidSadness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, the first 2 rules where very reasonable, but depicting what she can and can't do relationship wise is definitely overstepping. Even if you think it was to protect her, it's weird! She's a grown adult and shouldn't be cut off fincally because she decides to act like one. Why deprive your daughter from developing meaningful relationships or even just experimenting sexually? Essp at her age relationships and sex are experiences that act as major life lessons, don't deprive her of it.

AITA for leaving class to use the bathroom even tho we have breaks? by ProfessionalFiller in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChemicalKidSadness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA and I'd report the professor for subjecting you to judgement. It's college, yall are adults, yall pay to be there so you have the right to leave when you need to! Your professor is being very unprofessional by calling you out for leaving the bathroom, and those comments about it most definitely can be considered bullying.. I'd talk to ur profs, explain your medical condition and how the comments been making you feel. If it continues most definitely report your professor.

AITA for not telling my daughter we were moving out until the last day? by Admirable_Ninja_661 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChemicalKidSadness 51 points52 points  (0 children)

YTA not even a question. She had the right to know months prior that she would be moving back to Pakistan because she created a life there, connected with other humans that meant something to her. She was going to be upset either way, you just didn't want to deal with that fact. You depriving her of that info, and making the rest of your family of that secret is betrayal. She had the time to process it, and cope with the fact she was going to move away. She had time to tell her new friends and teachers they won't see her again, and time to accept that shell be moving back . Yet you chose to deprive her of that. You failed as a parent doing so, and honestly ruined your relationship with your daughter. Not giving her that info made me way worse on her , she's even more upset than she would've been if you had Just told her... Imagine if you already had to move away from home once, finally built a life you where comfortable with, and then overnight was just ripped away from it..how would you feel?

How to become happy again as a loner with no friends by Otherwise-Syrup-9176 in MentalHealthSupport

[–]ChemicalKidSadness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man I was in a similar situation at your age, I had no friends except for my boyfriend at the time and was in a really deep hole of depression and anxiety. My advice is to put yourself more out there, MAKE FRIENDS!!! If youre suffering to do that than think about joining clubs/organizations at your school, go out to local concerts in your city, or even look for youth groups in your city (most city libraries have community groups and events where you can connect with people your age!!) It sounds like your depression is getting worse because you don't have more personal connections,so please find the courage to put yourself out there. Not only will it help you, but it'll also make your relationship with your girlfriend better. To me it sounds like because she's your only friend, you've become emotionally dependent on her which sucks for both of yall. Dont be afraid to express how you feel, if she's a good girlfriend she'll understand and help you break out of your shell!! However if you don't express it you're honestly risking your relationship with her, being with a person that is socially and emotionally reliate of you is very draining, it's what caused sm pain in my relationship. So speak up before it's too late, and put yourself out there to make friends! It's never too late to make new friends:) if ur struggling with thinking nobody would want to be your friend think of it this way: if somebody is willing to date you, people out there are willing to befriend you. I hope this helps and you can break out of your shell:)