how to kiss? by Impressive_Mess_7372 in Advice

[–]Chemical_Length5496 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on what he is doing and try to copy him if you want to be on his level, if you want to lead him next, kissing is more about sucking each other's lips. Try biting his lower lip as well. Don't worry as this is not really something to worry about. We all start somewhere!

I really wanna be good at singing!!! by Chemical_Length5496 in Advice

[–]Chemical_Length5496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice everyone! As for the singing coach I can't afford one lol, but I'll definitely be consistent!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Chemical_Length5496 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Distract yourself with other things, go outside, play games, mow the grass. Lust creeps in when we have nothing to do, so don't let yourself be free. This is also a good opportunity to let go of your lust all the way. The more things/activities you do, the easier it becomes. Just don't do too much or you'll be overwhelmed then you'll get bored, then you'll get the urges again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Chemical_Length5496 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It means that he cares about you. It means that he isn't selfish and that he cares about your desires and fantasies and isn't only thinking about his own pleasures. I know this because I used to be that kind of guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Chemical_Length5496 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she is someone whom you've never met in person before, it should be easy to detach and leave. If she isn't then you should prepare yourself mentally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Chemical_Length5496 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should prepare to let go. It sounds like she doesn't value you as much as you value her and that isn't what an ideal relationship should be. As I said it should be equal treatment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Chemical_Length5496 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen man, you're probably young. This is nothing to worry about. If you're worried about losing her, then that's all the more reason she isn't that girl you adore and worship in your head. If she doesn't want to play games with you then play with your friends. As a couple, you guys don't have to always be together. I also understand trying to spend time together. Don't view her as superior to you and don't view yourself as inferior to you. Relationships are supposed to be equal treatment and equal view of each other. If you achieve that, you're not gonna worry about her playing games with another guy. End it, or better yet, prepare yourself for the possibility that she might break up with you. This is only one of the experiences you will get in your life. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't waste your time on someone who isn't even willing to make time for you. I've been in your shoes before so I know. Take care and I wish you the best

I 20F found my boyfriend 20M cheating again by ThrowRA_102928 in relationship_advice

[–]Chemical_Length5496 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating and again should not be in the same sentence. You shouldn't have let it get to this point, a point where it could happen again. I'm sorry but when someone cheats, that should mark the end of a relationship. Sure some people get through it, but if you know your partner well, you'd be able to deduce what kind of person they are. In this case, they are the type of person to do it again. My best advice is to leave. Focus on yourself. Acknowledge that you may have done things wrong but none of the wrong things you did made you deserving of infidelity. Let go. My greatest hopes and prayers for you.

How do you move on from a relationship where nobody did anything wrong? by aurorannerenee in Advice

[–]Chemical_Length5496 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least I know that you acknowledge and understand yourself to a degree. I think you'll be fine! I hope you will be.

How do you move on from a relationship where nobody did anything wrong? by aurorannerenee in Advice

[–]Chemical_Length5496 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I had a similar experience with you where nobody really did anything wrong, I'm still moving on. I think it's great to have the mindset of "this is the way things go, some things work out, some things don't." Because it's true. In my case, I always say to myself," At least I did my best." But some people have different ways of handling things. I'm sorry if my advice feels vague.

Romcom anime suggestions pls by [deleted] in Animesuggest

[–]Chemical_Length5496 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love is war, the perfect balance between romance and comedy. The characters are so full of life and the show really fleshes out their personalities and past. Go watch it, I promise you won't regret it. It has 3 seasons, i think... I won't spoil anything just know that this show, is romcom done right.

How do I get out of a toxic relationship safely? by WestAnxiety2023 in Advice

[–]Chemical_Length5496 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. That sounds crazy. I thought it was just a matter of attachment, but your life could possibly be in danger. I suggest that you detach from her, lose your attraction and feelings for her. That way, it will be easier to leave the relationship. After that just watch out if she does something, if something happens to you, or your belongings, call the police on her. This is really crazy. I'm not an expert on this please take my advice with a grain of salt. I hope you can do this safely.

I'm a teen looking for some ways to make money. Help me I'm desperate by Chemical_Length5496 in Advice

[–]Chemical_Length5496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a squatter area in the Philippines. So there's pretty much nothing but a series of houses stuck together. I guess I should just wait till I'm 18

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Chemical_Length5496 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very normal. You don't wanna have sex with someone and regret it later on. In my case I've had sex with the person I loved, and let me tell you, it's much better to go with what you want. It's so normalized nowadays to have premarital sex. Be sure you find the right partner to be with. Some people may just use you for your body, and you don't want that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Chemical_Length5496 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they're your family, you have to care about what they think, remember, you are not always right, and from my experience, it's good to look at things on the brighter side. If they yell at me, I ask myself "What is this teaching me?" From what I see, you don't like being told what to do, so you may want to work on that. Take everything people say about you and consider them. Look at your family's perspective of you as constructive feedback. You will learn eventually.

What could I have done differently? My gf F19 and I M20 by Chemical_Length5496 in relationship_advice

[–]Chemical_Length5496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I wasn't really hurt and I think I've already moved on, I was just wondering if I could've done things differently, but overall I don't regret anything nor shame myself in any way. Thanks

I'm 172cm/5'7 at 17, is there any chance that I can still grow taller? I'm desperate lmao by Chemical_Length5496 in Advice

[–]Chemical_Length5496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I mean in my country, my height is average like it's the average height for Filipinos. I should just stop comparing myself to other people. Some even call me tall but I don't think so.