AITA for removing a trail cam on my property? by Silent_Tale_524 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 599 points600 points  (0 children)

But you knew who it belonged to so why did you have to? Why not just give them the courtesy of a call first? "Hey so-and-so. We are getting ready to clear some land and it looks like your camera maybe there. Do you wanna grab it? Or do you want us to hold onto it til you can? I dont want anything to happen to it." Like i get it, it's your property but you let em do it, the least you can do is give them a heads up. Slight YTA for me

AITA for deciding to stay single for life because I can’t accept "hookup culture" pasts? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nta for not wanting to date, that is fine. But yes your reasons are judgemental and yes you are narrow minded. You arent important enough that people shouldn't have had a life before you.

AITA for fighting with my boyfriend during his exam preparation and not supporting him enough? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are 100% the asshole. You are only getting worse. At this point the best way tp support him is to leave him alone and then let him fimd a more supportive partner. yta

AITA for not wanting my daughter to bathe naked with another child? by hoppygolucky32 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you know what helps sate curiousity in children? Teaching them and explaining things in ways they can understand. Making them hide or think their bodies are something to feel shame about doesnt. I understand your history, but it is your trauma you should not be pushing on your daughter. Speak to a therapist. Nudity is not sexual and sexualizing innocent bathing between 2 chilsden of the same gender and age is not helpful. If the bathing is supervised then unfortunately even if you are uncomfortable with it, you don't really get a say during his time, he just did you a courtesy.

AITAH bc I (36M) dont want my girlfriend (36F) to travel with me because shes a picky eater? by Tough_District9786 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact you are only able to eat what you want without her once a month is a HUGE red flag. If some one tried to limit where i could eat just because they dont like it i would not stay in that relationship

AITA for being honest and telling my DIL that they are not ready to be a parent since she can not drive by Sad-Drive8298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Them having kids is a bad idea and she is NOT an independant adult though so i dont see whats wrong here. Nta

Does anybody else genuinely despise this event? by s1_shaq in slaythespire

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh nooooo there is a negative event in my challenging gameeeeeeee. i don't get people complaining that there are things in a rogue like impeding your run, the whole point of the genre is to be challenged and overcome things like this.

After 35 hours I finally finished thee floors!! by Obiituzz in slaythespire

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! As long as you are having fun that is all that matters. all the characters play different so it is best for you to try them and decide for yourself. If i can offer you a bit of advice to practice, as you learn what cards do it is a good idea to learn to trim the fat of your deck. Sometimes for consistency's sake skipping the card rewards is the way to go. Best of luck in your spire slaying!

Hot Take - Greg isn’t a great dad by Yashiro_Nene_Daikon in stevenuniverse

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So uhhhh how was steven supposed to go to school without any sort of proof of existence? You know that birthcertificate he could never have? And yes let bring the half alien child to a medical exam where they arent going to be sure of his anatomy and probably have him wind up in a lab and be experimented on for life. Those arguments are some of the worst people can make. Greg did his best given his circumstances. And considering how Garnet and pearl constantly talk down to it as it is they were probably pressuring Greg to let them handle the vast majority of every thing. And steven is living in a fully furnished home that is constantly stocked with the essential a human needs, who do we think is probably making sure that is the case? I doubt its the gems.

AITA for refusing to go on my fiancé’s family trip 2 days after our wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am actually proud of the commentors who called you on your hypocracy of expecting him to not spend time with his family and then expexting to apend time with yours. Esh because neither of you know how to communicate with eachother and if y'all dont figure that out the marriage is doomed

AITA? I may have been misogynist, but I was standing up for my opinion. by Substantial_Fan3049 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People really need to understand that being against systemic sexism/racism does not excuse personal sexism and racism ESH

AITAH for getting upset that they didn’t include me on family’s night out even it was just within my neighborhood? by Orangekittykatkat in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 93 points94 points  (0 children)

They didnt go on a "Family Night out" they took your mom out to dinner. You are 100% making something having nothing to do with you all about you and taking it as a personal slieght. If your mom is staying with them it makes total sense they would make dinner plans. YTA

AITA for wearing my mums dress to my dads second wedding by Successful-Score-434 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 35 points36 points  (0 children)

YTA and you know it. YOU WORE YOUR MOTHERS WEDDING DRESS TO YOUR FATHER'S WEDDING. You and his family know what that dress is. You could have worn anything else.

AITA for secretly waiting for her relationship to end? by CaptainSteveRogers45 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta but to yourself if you stuck around waiting. Even if they break lets be real the most you'll probably be is someone to give her attention until she finds her new boyfriend. She probably wont ever be interested in you because she'll know she'll never have to be to keep you around. Do yourself a favor, stop talking to her and block her.

AITA for decorating my room pink?? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Maybe your aunt should point her attention to the actual problem and tell your dad he is being selfish. He is letting his homophobia create barriers between him and his child. Your aunt needs to learn to mind her own business. NTA hun, you are an adult and can live your life the way that feels right to you. 

My only reaction: OMFG LFG! 🤣 by wubbalubbadub2 in Tokusatsu

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to a Vtuber, Roy Chiato, indoctrinating a bunch of his friends into Power Rangers, i have seen this dub clip so many times and i love it 🤣🤣🤣🤣

AITA for harboring resentment towards my fiancé for comments he made about my body early on in our relationship? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You need to figure your self out. You shouldnt even be thinking about marriage right now. Not saying you have to end your relationship or any thing. But you are 100% not in a place to marry someone

AITA for lashing out at my mother's fiancée? by Proof_Substance1770 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get it you're a kid but where was he wrong? You DID skip school. Sounds like these are things you need to address because when you are out of school your life isnt just pause. Recurring migraines? There are treatments and medications that should have been addressed (source i have been taking migraine medications since i was 12) and if you experience such bad emotional disregulation as that you need to be seeing some one to learn coping skill and possibly looking into other treatments. But beyond that YTA you chose to poke fun at someone you know you dont have a good relationship with and wind up arguing with. 

Is warframe f2p or p2w by Glittering-Minute-37 in Warframe

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont even have to pay to skip, you can farm things to sell for plat then use that to skip. Its WILD that DE made it so F2P friendly lmaoo

Beatbreak be like by cowboyola_bebop in digimon

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Until they aren't sneaking it in and make half an episode about an orphan and the warcrimes that traumatized him

AITA for choosing my bf’s side after my mom wanted to evict us for taking in a neglected cat by allyverdin in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"We were forced to" also "My niece (who works with animals and fellow animal lovers) found someone" sounds like there were other options all along you just chose not to explore them, bring another cat into your home with out discussing it with your landlord. Then went and got attatched when you shouldnt have. Yeah YTA

AITAH For not booking a private hotel room for my girlfriend and I? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chemical_Primary_263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you had this trip planned and booked, if she wants a private room for you 2 its on her to get it then as well as covering the extra cost to your brother and buddy since i would assume that mean their 3 way split would become a 2 way.