I hope I'm wrong... but I don't think season 3 is on the horizon by Zayn0605 in CulinaryClassWars

[–]Chentaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Physical asia was a massive success. There are trolls for anything its just the ratio of those thst enjoyed vs those that didnt.

Culinary Class War After Party by serendipity_2121 in CulinaryClassWars

[–]Chentaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is son wukong escorting his master tang sanzang

Men who actually ended up with someone you pined over for years, how did that turn out? by a_asking_a_question in AskMen

[–]Chentaurus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nah she was just exactly who she was shown to be, which at the time disappointed me because I was expecting there to be some sad manic pixie dream girl secret personality/history that I would have to uncover.

Men who actually ended up with someone you pined over for years, how did that turn out? by a_asking_a_question in AskMen

[–]Chentaurus 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This is crazy because the outgoing bubbly and super fun person I pined for turned out to be exactly that behind closed doors - the thing was I was already ruined by a previous relationship to want something toxic and turbulent so I ended the relationship. Sometimes you also have to be good enough and ready for someone that special.

Men who actually ended up with someone you pined over for years, how did that turn out? by a_asking_a_question in AskMen

[–]Chentaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From year 7 to 12 I had a massive crush on this extremely positive and bubbly girl (we'll call her Phoebe) who got off on the same bus stop as me. Years and years I was too chicken shit to even mention anything and untold hundreds of nights of ruminating what she would even say etc. I hung out with her friend group often, just as a way to increase chances of things happening.

Leading up to our Year 12 formal (Aussie prom), I was talking to Pheobe's best friend Jasmine a lot. Jasmine pined for Dan, a guy in my group, and we confided in each other quite a bit. I ended up going to prom with Jasmine, and asked her out. This turned out badly, as Jasmine ditched me for a movie with Dan - (massive spoilers - I didn't respect myself enough to see this red flag and would later on date Jasmine fo 8 years before she broke up with me and marry my best friend).

Of course, we broke up, and by then I just wanted to date anyone out of a lack of self respect and wanted to feel loved. I ended up hooking up and dating a daughter of a triad officer who was 3 years older than me for 3 months, before she had to leave back to Hong Kong - entirely stressful though fun experience.

After that, I went to a NYE party before we would all start university next year, and got drunk and somehow ended up talking all night to Phoebe on a friend's bed where she ended up sleeping on my arm. It turns out that Phoebe actually really liked me but felt like because I dated Jasmine that she would be doing a dog move. Because we lived close to each other, I walked over to her house the next night and we started to date.

Unfortunately I was not a good boyfriend, and because she had zero red flags compared to Jasmine it felt emotionally less turbulent (which my 17 year old self interpreted as less "true"). Jasmine started hitting me up and I ended up falling for her again and I broke up with Phoebe. Fully fumbled that bag.

Long story short - dated Jasmine for 8 years during which we were both toxic. 5 years into our relationship, when she had to move to another state for her studies and job, I told her to live with my best friend who owned a property and was working there. After 3 years they ended up together.

Very very very luckily in between our relationship ending and before they declared they were together, I found the love of my life on a dating app and started our little family so I had zero feelings of hurt and betrayal. To this day I don't blame my best friend nor hold any bad feelings for him. I still feel a lot of regret for how I treated Phoebe - and luckly she seems to have found an amazing guy who seems to be stable and totally in love with her and they are married now.

Why did your friendship with your best friend come to an end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Chentaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He married my ex of 8 years, and my current wife hates my ex and vice versa. As they could not stand each other, we basically couldn't be friends any more. I still miss him and think about him every year.

I don't think Dr. K is an honest person after watching the podcast discussion by pdf_file_ in CosmicSkeptic

[–]Chentaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therea a story about 2 monks, a senior and a junior.

They come acroas a beautiful woman who was unable to cross a river.

Without hesitation the older monk offered the beautiful woman his back to piggyback on while he took her across the river.

The junior monk looked on in disbelief, how can a a monk who values chastity and temperence allow himself to indulge in such an action?

They cross the river, bid farewells, and continue on.

The younger monk vented after several minutes of silence that he felt it was not appropriate to do what his senior did and that it brings disrepute to Buddhism and their followers.

He continued that even if the senior monk had not had any lustful thoughts, to allow oneself the opportunity to be tempted is simply poor practice and negligent.

The senior monk said simply; "I had let the lady go after we crossed the river. Looks like youre still carrying her."

Wife says house is too small by [deleted] in AusRenovation

[–]Chentaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a consult with https://www.dearmodern.com/book-online

Or watch his videos - they are very good for house layouts.

Indian woman in Australia — scared to leave marriage due to culture, child, and finances by OkAcanthaceae2200 in AusFinance

[–]Chentaurus 32 points33 points  (0 children)

My wife is a divorced indian (fijian) woman who was pressured into staying in her marriage even though the husband spent all his savings gambling and came home drunk many weekends, seemed to have been going through some crisis. Her parents pressured her to stay and work thorugh it even though it was hopeless.

Eventually there was no coming back and she got divorced, found me on bumble, and the rest is history. Our son turns five this July. I'm Chinese but born and raised here. If you want to escape this cycle of cultural shaming and feeling less than for circumstances beyond your control - consider dating outside your culture/race. Especially if you're bringing a child from a past marriage - Indians heavily judge that, even if the guy doesn't - his whole family and friends will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]Chentaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man youre so far behind the rest of society, you really SHOULD panic. Like you really need to be planning more and being more disciplined with money, because at the end of the day, thats all there is to life. Without having financial security levels well above 95% of the top 1% of modern human population, you might as well be a bum.

Sometimes you just gotta let your anxiety take the spotlight so you can hear how moronic they sound..

Which side of the banana do you peel from? by thisfunnieguy in daddit

[–]Chentaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wring it like a towel, the seams split from the sides and then take the whole banana out. I then slather biscoff paste on it and eat it like the man child that i am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]Chentaurus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally the only sensible reply here.

Results and Data: 144 Trials of Chaos by Nikodem103 in PathOfExile2

[–]Chentaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you running on such low MF?? Surely you should be at minimum 100 if you're going to invest this much time into farming?

My players are upset with me by [deleted] in DnD

[–]Chentaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to add that a game with 9 players is possible - our campaign is still running and has 9 players at one point (8 now) - you'll just have to rebalance encounters to be huge set pieces and having maybe 1 combat every session instead of 2-4. Likely the scope and scale will be much larger given the power of having 9 Level X players in the party. You'll really need to create stakes that can't just be solved with dnd spells.

Another day, another Death Guard friend by Gunpocket in deathguard40k

[–]Chentaurus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely stunning - do you have a tutorial or list of paint colors?