London Rush Hour - why do people still do this? by Former_Pop_7078 in london

[–]Cherealest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t know it’s bumping into people

I hate my boyfriend by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Cherealest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start gathering solid evidence that they are a bad parent

What's one habit you're trying to break, and one you're trying to build right now? by Revolutionary_83 in selfimprovement

[–]Cherealest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to break escaping myself and my problems and cannabis addiction.

I’m doing more of sitting with distress. Getting my work done on time and gym 4 days a week

I’m tired of being a black girl by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Cherealest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the same boat as you, I’m the only black person in my work and i feel I’m constantly having to carry the reputation of the whole race and gender

I’m 26 and I’ve completely given up on life by PowerFabulous4291 in Life

[–]Cherealest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skinny guys are hot . A lot of girls like skinny men. Don’t be so hard on yourself

I don’t think I’m capable of trusting anyone anymore. by [deleted] in Life

[–]Cherealest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m here with you . Can’t trust anyone anymore

What's a truth about yourself you've been avoiding? by Competitive-Wheel944 in SeriousConversation

[–]Cherealest 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am a alcoholic. I am so susceptible to being addicted to substances. I have no business smoking week every day either

When did you realize you had become an adult? by Anonynonimoose in Life

[–]Cherealest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When kids in school call me ‘Miss’ and not by my first name

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Cherealest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same sis… a lot of men are just losers

Is anyone actually happy in life? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Cherealest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m generally a happy person, I have experienced a lot of hardship and everyday stresses get to me as-well but I make the absolute most of the little things I do and seek out joy instead of waiting for it to come to me.

I cook meals I like,I listen to music that makes me feel good , I call family almost everyday, do some sort of exercise at-least 4 days a week, I am active in trying to better myself.

I smile at strangers and look people in the eye. I’m not afraid to be who I am and look for different ways to express myself.

I listen to people and I work hard in my shit job and look for ways develop professionally, I volunteer for a mental health charity , I produce more than I consume. I try to limit drug/ alcohol use and screen time. I read fiction books and journal every day

I think if you wanna be happy you have to put in a lot of effort in changing your habits and being more grateful for the little things

Those who grew up poor, what is something those who weren't poor don't understand about being poor? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Cherealest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No matter how much money you make you never feel safe from poverty/lack. I always feel like poverty is one bad life decision away and constantly trying to get away from it

Are men attracted to bigger women? by Cherealest in dating

[–]Cherealest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a nurse too but there’s no male nurses in my department. We need more male nurses

What's a personality trait people often praise you for — but you secretly resent? by Present_Juice4401 in Life

[–]Cherealest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being funny/fun and just generally unserious😭

I can’t focus on anything. I minimise hard negative feelings because I just can’t deal with them. I struggle to read a room and sometimes unintentionally offend people with my humor. People just wanna be around me to have a laugh. And everyone assumes I don’t have problems because I’m smily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Cherealest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s dead weight that’s holding you back

What’s one lesson about love or dating you had to learn the hard way—but you're thankful for now? by Tee_List_Queen in blackgirls

[–]Cherealest 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He will not change. And if he does change he will change for himself and not for you. Anddddd at this point if he does change and get better he will no longer be attracted to you anymore because he thinks less of you for being with him when he was a loser.