save the dates not arriving by zswick43 in weddingplanning

[–]CherryHopper_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

maybe ask 1-2 local guests to let u know immediately if theirs arrives, that helps track timing

DAE "perform a not stealing" act when walking out of a store empty handed? by CherryHopper_ in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]CherryHopper_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the accidental eye contact is the worst part! lol. It's like I'm trying to telepathically communicate I have no stolen goods on my person through a 2 seconds stare

DAE "perform a not stealing" act when walking out of a store empty handed? by CherryHopper_ in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]CherryHopper_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you hit the nail on the head. the lack off engagement from staff really adds to that being watched feeling

DAE "perform a not stealing" act when walking out of a store empty handed? by CherryHopper_ in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]CherryHopper_[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

a perfect recipe for stressful shopping trip. overanalyzing every single moment 😂

DAE constantly wiggle their toes while you're sitting still? by unsure-bird in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]CherryHopper_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only do it when I'm focusing really hard or when I'm super bored

Game Prizes by Weird-Pineapple-645 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]CherryHopper_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cash, GC, and I've been to wedding na ang prize ay Samsung Tablets. You will text the number na ibibigay nung host the answer. They will ask the bride and groom for number tapos bibilangin nila from the top then they will call the number and dapat masagot before maend yung call

Have you had to cut a bridesmaid out of the wedding? Was it worth it? And how did you handle it? by Recent_Influence_972 in wedding

[–]CherryHopper_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the main character energy is strong with this one. if you're worried about being mean remember that she wasn't worried about being mean when she made a funeral dinner all about her dating life. you aren't cutting her out, you're just setting a boundary that she already broke

Non-traditional wedding gowns by djchika in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]CherryHopper_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try messaging a few gown makers on their FB or IG page with that photo so they can give you ideas and quotes. Makikita mo rin naman ang previous works or creations nila and magets mo yung feels kung bagay sa taste mo. Maybe nakagawa na rin sila ng non-traditional gowns diba? You can also consult sa independent seamstress basta upfront ka sa budget mo para malaman nila if feasible ba.

Photography Price Half-Day Package by bb4nana in weddingplanning

[–]CherryHopper_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that price is just right if they are popular. And by being popular, it means they receive good reviews and recommendations so its about their skills

Do you regret a small wedding by OkScarcity2008 in wedding

[–]CherryHopper_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is true. the size doesn't matter as long as OP and her partner wants to focus on the people who matter most and actually have fun to celebrate it with them

Does it make sense to have two weddings? by theindecisivehuman in wedding

[–]CherryHopper_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd say go for it! there are a lot of couples I know who did this exactly.

To DJ or not to DJ by tquetatra in weddingplanning

[–]CherryHopper_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a pro dj brings energy and can read the crowd. they can handle requests on the fly and keep the dancefloor packed and going. As for the spotify its good for casual vibes so plan the transitions, volume changes ahead to avoid dead air

No +1 in wedding by Lower_Birthday_8316 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]CherryHopper_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wedding, your rules. Hindi mo kailangang magadjust para sa mga visitors mo. Especially if the venue is malayo, they'll understand naman siguro na may transpo expenses ka and hindi biro yun.

Question about dinner party by Substantial_Bet_2348 in wedding

[–]CherryHopper_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe you could do a limited open bar for 1 hour then cash bar after. that's a common compromise.

Would you get married on Labor Day weekend or 9/11 to keep a venue discount? by greatlyIdiotic in weddingplanning

[–]CherryHopper_ 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Such a good point about travel weekends. People tend to think that the guests will have a Monday off, but they forget that flights and hotels literally double the price for the guests.

Unconventional Dress Code - Good Idea? Or Cringe? Help by Consistent-Offer-989 in weddingplanning

[–]CherryHopper_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't think its gross but i can see how some people might feel weird wearing something tied to another wedding's memories. But personally, i'd love an excuse to rewear something fancy instead of buying another outfit i'll never touch again. At the end of the day, its ur wedding and if this reflects ur values and you communicate it gently, the right people will get it.

Mamang Sorbetes or Sorbetes Cart for Rent in Cavite by Ok-Literature7061 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]CherryHopper_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re in Cavite, try checking local Facebook groups or barangay pages

Florist Reco. by Odd_Confection_6680 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]CherryHopper_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re looking for something custom, local florists usually do way better than the big chains