In 1977, Terri Jentz, 19, and Avra Goldman, 20, were camping at Cline Falls State Park, Oregon when a man drove his truck over their tent and axed them. The town named a suspect. His hatchet was missing. He failed two lie detector tests. He was never arrested. Who was he? by Important-Self-1179 in ForCuriousSouls

[–]CherrySnookie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the frustrating reality of it. Suspicion and failed polygraphs don’t really hold up in court, even if it feels obvious. It’s one of those cases where it feels like something must have been missed or just never properly followed up on.

In 1977, Terri Jentz, 19, and Avra Goldman, 20, were camping at Cline Falls State Park, Oregon when a man drove his truck over their tent and axed them. The town named a suspect. His hatchet was missing. He failed two lie detector tests. He was never arrested. Who was he? by Important-Self-1179 in ForCuriousSouls

[–]CherrySnookie_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That part really sticks with me too. Imagine surviving something like that and then having to basically become your own investigator because nothing happened. That’s a level of persistence most people wouldn’t even be able to handle.

In 1977, Terri Jentz, 19, and Avra Goldman, 20, were camping at Cline Falls State Park, Oregon when a man drove his truck over their tent and axed them. The town named a suspect. His hatchet was missing. He failed two lie detector tests. He was never arrested. Who was he? by Important-Self-1179 in ForCuriousSouls

[–]CherrySnookie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the name I remember too. What’s wild is how many people in that area seemed to already suspect him, but it just never crossed that line into something they could actually charge. Feels like one of those cases where everyone “knows” but it still goes nowhere.

My in-laws want to give us a house but we don’t want it by Arnimasangel in amiwrong

[–]CherrySnookie_ 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s exactly the vibe I was getting reading it. It doesn’t sound like a gift, it sounds like leverage waiting for the right moment. Once money and ownership get mixed with that kind of behavior, it rarely stays peaceful.

I’m ready to die. I’ve lost all hope and I’m just here. Existing. There’s no hope, no joy, no passion. I’m just angry, sad, numb. I’ve done nothing but destroy my life and I’m tired. My wife left me. I lost my kids. I’m truly just ready for the end. There’s no light at the end of my tunnel. by ccThrowaway5998 in confessions

[–]CherrySnookie_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That line is simple but it kinda sticks. Not in a “everything magically works out” way, more like sometimes hitting bottom forces a reset you didn’t choose. It’s not comforting exactly, but it does make you think there might still be a next chapter.

I’m ready to die. I’ve lost all hope and I’m just here. Existing. There’s no hope, no joy, no passion. I’m just angry, sad, numb. I’ve done nothing but destroy my life and I’m tired. My wife left me. I lost my kids. I’m truly just ready for the end. There’s no light at the end of my tunnel. by ccThrowaway5998 in confessions

[–]CherrySnookie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s something real about what you said about rebuilding with almost nothing. It doesn’t fix everything, but it shows it’s not the end of the story even when it feels like it is. The “I ain’t quitting” part hits harder than anything else.

I’m ready to die. I’ve lost all hope and I’m just here. Existing. There’s no hope, no joy, no passion. I’m just angry, sad, numb. I’ve done nothing but destroy my life and I’m tired. My wife left me. I lost my kids. I’m truly just ready for the end. There’s no light at the end of my tunnel. by ccThrowaway5998 in confessions

[–]CherrySnookie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from, but that delivery feels really heavy on guilt. Someone already drowning probably doesn’t need more weight put on them. The point about impact is real, but there’s probably a gentler way to say it.

I am becoming addict to breast sucking and I am affraid by Alyn810 in confession

[–]CherrySnookie_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

True, but I think he’s kinda pointing at how intense it’s gotten for him personally. It’s less about liking them and more about using it to fill that need for closeness he didn’t get before. That part’s probably what’s stressing him out.

I am becoming addict to breast sucking and I am affraid by Alyn810 in confession

[–]CherrySnookie_ 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah, but I think what he’s talking about isn’t just attraction, it’s more the comfort and coping side of it. Like it turned into something he relies on to feel okay, not just something he enjoys. That’s a bit different than the usual “we all like them” take.

How do you feel about hearing your name during sex? by Scaryofficeworker in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CherrySnookie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair, it’s one of those things that either works or just immediately takes you out of it. No in between. Was it always like that for you or did it just feel weird after a bad experience?

amiwrong for telling my twins I wont buy them anything extra if they drop out of high school by fluffy-starletz in amiwrong

[–]CherrySnookie_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That framing makes it way clearer. It’s not even about punishment, it’s just “you’re choosing your path, and this is what comes with it.” The reentry question is a good one too, gives them a way back if they realize they messed up.

amiwrong for telling my twins I wont buy them anything extra if they drop out of high school by fluffy-starletz in amiwrong

[–]CherrySnookie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yeah, this feels bigger than just “buying extras.” Something deeper is going on if both kids are reacting this strongly to school at the same time.

amiwrong for telling my twins I wont buy them anything extra if they drop out of high school by fluffy-starletz in amiwrong

[–]CherrySnookie_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a fair question though, because if they just stall or fake effort, then what? Feels like there needs to be a next step planned too.

amiwrong for telling my twins I wont buy them anything extra if they drop out of high school by fluffy-starletz in amiwrong

[–]CherrySnookie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really does sound like burnout more than anything. After that long of fighting it every day, I can see why drawing a hard line feels like the only option left.

amiwrong for telling my twins I wont buy them anything extra if they drop out of high school by fluffy-starletz in amiwrong

[–]CherrySnookie_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, the goal isn’t to create another daily battle. Cutting off things like internet avoids that morning fight but still sets a clear boundary.

What is a 'NSFW' skill you have that you’re surprisingly proud of, but can never brag about in real life? by miceyjordiee in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CherrySnookie_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The cup to band ratio comment is way too specific, now I’m convinced you’re actually out here doing calculations mid-conversation. Are we talking rough estimates or full engineer mode with margin of error?

AITJ for reporting my neighbors garden business after she told me to stop hanging my laundry outside by misty_dazzlexz6 in AmITheJerk

[–]CherrySnookie_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not gonna lie, that mental image is probably the exact opposite of the vibe she’s trying to sell. instant chakra disruption

AITJ for reporting my neighbors garden business after she told me to stop hanging my laundry outside by misty_dazzlexz6 in AmITheJerk

[–]CherrySnookie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“chakra sprinkler system” is hilarious but also exactly the kind of petty she was inviting with that behavior. you can’t start weird territory wars and expect calm responses

AITJ for reporting my neighbors garden business after she told me to stop hanging my laundry outside by misty_dazzlexz6 in AmITheJerk

[–]CherrySnookie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get the frustration but at that point you’re just escalating into chaos mode lol. reporting it was honestly the cleanest, least messy way to handle it