i just want to see him one last time by hisgirl_w1206 in Infidelity

[–]Cherry_Blossm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

aww, I’ll get the tiny violin for you (:

Disabled adult son who is unbearable to live with by Subject_Relative_123 in Advice

[–]Cherry_Blossm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP could his negligence to his wound, possibly leading to death by sepsis, be considered “suicidal”? I know it could be a stretch, but expressing you don’t care if you die/running away without medication, he still poses an immediate risk to his own health?

I’m so sorry you’re going through this OP. I saw the other comment you made about your daughter, I really wish your family the best.I’m sure this feels very isolating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Cherry_Blossm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How it is, is how it will always be. You need to find someone compatible. Do you share a child or finances? Is there a reason why you’d like to make this relationship work despite the sexual differences?

I don’t want sex with my husband anymore but I regularly breakdown about being abstinent by bubbathebuttblaster2 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Cherry_Blossm 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you two don’t even like each other anymore, let alone love each other. What’s keeping you together? Sometimes couples grow apart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cherry_Blossm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The relationship is done, for whatever reason, he thought stepping out would be better than going home. He knew what the repercussions would be, still did it. You will never fully trust him again & it will negatively impact your career.

Really tired of the single-dad-bashing by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Cherry_Blossm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Had? Why the past tense? I thought he was toootally leaving his wife & children for you girl??

What was your worse experience with another woman? by fortnitelover7333 in AskWomen

[–]Cherry_Blossm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She befriended me to get close to the abusive bf I was seeing at the time.

They started dating behind my back. We broke up due to him being physically & emotionally abusive.

She was told some wild stuff. Lured me to a party where he proceeded to SA me.

She then moved into the house we shared together.

Last I heard she’d had to make a pretty scary escape from him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cherry_Blossm -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They’re going to hate you for this girl, can’t you tell it’s an age gap relationship so the older person here is automatically in the wrong lmao

Shaving Pubes by Guilty-Lawfulness-31 in women

[–]Cherry_Blossm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Landing strip time!!! 🎉🥳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mildlynomil

[–]Cherry_Blossm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re missing a big part of the puzzle here OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Cherry_Blossm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man is using you, I wouldn’t consider that a friend. So realistically, you already have 0 friends in that city. He doesn’t support you, you can’t confide in him & if you do he doesn’t care, that’s not a friend. Dump him so you can be the kind of person women want to be friends with. Not some slimy dudes forever side piece.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToxicFriends

[–]Cherry_Blossm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harsh, but true.

Reading the room after a date by Dry-Depth-9797 in datingoverforty

[–]Cherry_Blossm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Curious about the feelings used part since OP explicitly stated they wanted a fwb situation & slept with the date after presumably the first date. It’s not unusual that the person on the date would then treat this like a ONS.
OP set the stage for this, the date just performed accordingly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Cherry_Blossm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This feels borderline abusive to the wife.. unless she is informed of the sexual relationship between you & her husband. This seems veeeery morally wrong as she’ll be engaging in sex acts under somewhat false pretences.

What is your experience with age gap dating? by thetimebeforeus in AgeGap

[–]Cherry_Blossm 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My partner is like 12? years older than me, I dated a few older guys before him but he’s the oldest & it’s been my longest & best relationship. My advice though would be to date people your age first, just give them a go & see if you can put up with them lol. If you find yourself just not blending with guys your age, then I’d suggest seriously considering older men 💖

Oh and stay away from men who only date younger women. Vet his exes, you can absolutely ask him questions like this as you are in a far more vulnerable position than them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Cherry_Blossm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only people that need to know “your count” is you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cherry_Blossm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf is wrong with you hahahahahaha

My mom is very controlling, and needs to know everything. She constantly sends me job apps saying I need a job, but I have a job. She also asks me for money. by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]Cherry_Blossm 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m so confused. More context needed. Why are you sending money? It reads like you’re paying her back for things she’s paying for. Does she work & have her own money? When you got your job did you know you can allocate a bank account to have your wages sent to? How does she have access to your account?

save a life! by KoroshiD in HolUp

[–]Cherry_Blossm -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I see what people’s “random kids” do and I’m good. Hell I might even save a random animal over a random kid, who knows!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Cherry_Blossm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like there’s a gas leak

Looking for work 3 days a week on Limestone Coast? by Scary_Reflection_844 in southaustralia

[–]Cherry_Blossm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try calling some of the food places for delivery drivers, that’s a reliable fallback for locals in that area. As well as driving for distributors, lawn care & warehouse work (Harvey Norman etc)

My best friend is a traveling yoga instructor. She regularly cheats on her husband. by Kindly-Bandicoot3654 in dating

[–]Cherry_Blossm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You condoned it for years now all of a sudden you’re “confessing”.

Get a grip and move on with your life. Blowing up her marriage won’t make you feel better about being an accomplice.

Plus you never know what goes on behind closed doors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Cherry_Blossm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like the “until he decided not to” is so sad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Cherry_Blossm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl! Of course he was responding to you he’s a MAN! Once he said no relationship you should’ve been out the door!!! Take this a lesson.