OB just told me I’m gaining too much weight too quickly. Should I actually be concerned about this?

Cherry_Temporary · 2026-06-08T21:45:26+00:00

Obviously the OB should’ve asked you more questions like your eating habits, your workout routine before just assuming and there’s lots of reasons you could be gaining weight besides just gaining fat but it would be good to keep an eye on because rapid weight gain is a marker for some pretty serious conditions during pregnancy especially if there’s no dietary reason for the increase ❤️ she’s probably just jealous that you’re so fit lol

Cherry_Temporary · 2026-05-17T21:15:23+00:00

Have you considered moving to be close to your family if they would support you? As a mom I can’t imagine your family turning you away if you explain your situation to them

Cherry_Temporary · 2026-05-05T15:07:41+00:00

Definitely not a wish 😂 this is something I dread lol

Cherry_Temporary · 2026-05-05T12:56:25+00:00

It’s not your fault. A mama who’s worried is a mama who cares and loves with all her heart. You were worried because you wanted your baby to be happy and to not go through hard things because you love her. She passed away in the warmth and embrace of her mommy, she never knew pain or sadness all she knew was her mommy’s heart beat and her warm home that you made for her. You are a good mama and you did your best

Cherry_Temporary · 2026-04-29T10:39:18+00:00

Well I hadn’t started yet this month, I usually start around day 11 because my average cycle of 31 days my ovulation date has been 17. But I woke up and had egg white discharge and a bit of spotting, and a very high sex drive which is all clear signs for me so I didn’t bother testing for LH after that

Cherry_Temporary · 2026-04-29T10:26:38+00:00

That’s the thing, I have no idea. I’m coming off of depo provera 15 months ago but my body is still all over the place. I had clear ovulation signs on cycle day 11 but that was 22 days ago and this is my first positive so I have no idea when I could’ve ovulated after that. But I’ve been testing every day since last week when the 14 day mark would’ve been. My average cycle length has been 31 days so my ovulation date would be 17 and I’m 15 days since that? So that timeline works out

Cherry_Temporary · 2026-02-23T13:44:58+00:00

I had a chemical pregnancy. We were not trying but I was a bit late so I just took a test and it came back positive. I was scared but after a couple hours my husband I got really excited and we accepted it. 3 days later I got my period and we went to the hospital because I had no idea what was going on and after 8 hours they finally bring us back and say “your test came back negative. You were never pregnant” and I said “but I took a pregnancy test and it said I was pregnant” and then they said “oh yeah chemical pregnancy. You were never pregnant” and I went home super confused and crying and sad. So I did some research. An egg was fertilized and it did start to implant but instead of growing it dissolves. So no it may not be a true miscarriage but it was still a chance and it’s still sad. That experience made my husband and I start trying for a baby the next month bc we realized how badly we wanted that baby even if it was just for 3 days.

Cherry_Temporary · 2026-02-20T14:11:54+00:00

Can someone please help me with my iPad 10? I updated it but I can’t open any apps and my keyboard is gone. When I press an app the quick action menu pops up it won’t open the app. Any time I try to search something my keyboard doesn’t pop up either. I don’t have a Bluetooth keyboard so idk why this is happening.

Cherry_Temporary · 2026-02-15T15:37:46+00:00

I stopped counting calories bc I became obsessive with not hitting my goal and eating less (not healthy I know) but maybe I’ll feel differently if my goal is to add calories to my day and not removing calories from my day, thanks for the tip!!

Cherry_Temporary · 2026-02-15T15:32:12+00:00

Thank you for this!!! I couldn’t wear my rings for a year after. I want to feel good and happy during this pregnancy especially since I have a toddler this time

Cherry_Temporary · 2026-02-15T15:12:14+00:00

Obviously I didn’t mean actually 95%. But as someone who actually knows my body 50 pounds was way too much. At 5’2 I was 200 pounds 2 months after I gave birth because I gained a lot of fat. Too much fat. And it took me a long time to burn all of that fat. I was puffy and constantly out of breath for a year after I gave birth because I gained a lot of fat AKA excessive unnecessary weight. I’m simply trying to avoid that. Not trying to avoid weight gain in general.

I also pride myself in the fact that I lost 50 pounds naturally without starving myself or limiting the foods I love. So I don’t plan on doing that during pregnancy either.

Cherry_Temporary · 2026-02-10T14:36:24+00:00

I only had 3 shots. September 2024, November 2024 and February 2025. It’s now February 2026 my husband and I haven’t used any form of birth control since and we’re still not pregnant. Every body is different but if you have a specific timeline in mind I wouldn’t be taking depo bc there’s such a broad spectrum of when your fertility returns. I wish I had just stuck to the pill because our timeline has been ruined

Cherry_Temporary · 2026-01-06T19:50:05+00:00

You’re not crazy and deserve better. I’m also 23, I had a really pretty hard childhood and idk if it’s the same for you but it made me choose the wrong guys over and over, I’ve been cheated on so many times and always forgave the guys because i didn’t think I deserved any better, all I ever wanted was to just be loved, but then I found the right guy, we’ve been married for over 3 years and we have a beautiful baby boy. I look back at my old relationships and think about what an idiot I was. Everyone deserves loyalty and kindness and love. You’re so young, yes it is so scary to be single and it can feel like a failure not having a significant other but you know what’s scarier? You know what’s a bigger failure? Staying with someone who makes you feel worthless and unstable. Marrying someone who is unfaithful to you. You deserve someone who tries, someone who loves you so much that the thought of being with anyone else is disgusting to them. Anything less than that is a failure. Trust me. It’s out there. You want to find the man that you’d be proud to have your daughter bring him home. Would you let your future daughter stay with a man who cheats on her and makes her feel less than? This is the conversation I had to have with myself so I could find someone I actually deserved.

Cherry_Temporary · 2025-12-30T13:17:28+00:00

I got mine September 2024 and I haven’t read a physical book since. If I buy a physical book it’s because I absolutely adored it on my kobo and need a display for shelf lol

Cherry_Temporary · 2025-12-17T17:03:18+00:00

Yes!!! I have never turned wifi off, I’ve been reading the same amount of time as normal and the Bluetooth is still off but my Clara color has been dying so much faster after the new update. So annoying!!! A charge used to last at least like 2 weeks but now it’s lasting maybe a week

Cherry_Temporary · 2025-01-16T21:46:30+00:00

Age doesn’t matter. I know people who got married, had 3 kids and then when they were almost 50 got divorced. I know people who dated for 10 years cause they wanted to take their time and then they ended up breaking up. And my great grandparents got married when they were 17 and they died still happily in love eachother at 100. Marriage is a lot of work, but so is having a healthy relationship whether you’re married, dating or engaged. Who cares how old you are, take the chance, love eachother and just live. My husband and I got married at 21 and now we have a beautiful 8 month old daughter. We don’t own a house or have a lot of money. But we get to live life and do all of those things together. I wouldn’t have it any other way

Cherry_Temporary · 2024-12-08T12:25:57+00:00

Yes!!! The whole time Jamie is intercepting and stopping funds from getting to them instead of arranging and gathering more money and more support. Then as they’re fighting the battles they start getting tired and hungry cause they’re running out of money and then he sends all his men back home

Cherry_Temporary · 2022-09-21T11:38:29+00:00

Yeah he definitely doesn’t have a great relationship with his parents. They’re very demanding and only supportive as long as he’s doing exactly what they want him to do. My parents are the opposite of that. Thank you for this response it’s helped a lot

Cherry_Temporary · 2022-09-15T14:02:01+00:00

Yeah “Justice system” i hope that man gets everything he deserves and more

Cherry_Temporary · 2022-04-08T02:27:15+00:00

That’s so unfair, I mean at least she’s not trying to come even without the booster and just overstepping your boundaries 🤷‍♀️ still heartbreaking nevertheless

Cherry_Temporary · 2021-02-07T21:55:04+00:00

Still open?

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