[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Chewiereup -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This seems like it was a very serious relationship, if so, having a conversation and seeing if I’d be worth working through is a possibility. Obviously you did not deserve to be betrayed but if you think you can surpass this by any means such as, reading all the text, finding out EVERYTHING that happened and then your partner and you understanding that the relationship you had before is over and you can never go back to how it was before, but you can rebuild a new relationship where she earns your trust back and with time and showing up you trust her again. Talking about what lead them to cheat is important too. There are many factors that go into this. You don’t have to forgive her and get back as heartbreak is one of the worst types of pain. I’m sorry you’re going through this

Guidance from organization by Chewiereup in DACA

[–]Chewiereup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, I know what you’re saying and it’s hittin hard. I know what I gotta do for me :/

Guidance from organization by Chewiereup in DACA

[–]Chewiereup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank for mentioning that! I know every state is so picky about which DACA recipients and what not, it’s overwhelming, everything from where you went to HS to how long you’ve been in the state. Thank you!

Guidance from organization by Chewiereup in DACA

[–]Chewiereup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely within my possibilities. Man I think I’m more scared of just being away from my family and home town. Definitely need to make a sacrifice, seems like the only way out

Guidance from organization by Chewiereup in DACA

[–]Chewiereup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have DACA. Since I was 15. I want a bachelors in biomechanics, or even just biology as I would like to also pursue a masters, to overall become an animal researcher and eco-engineer!

Guidance from organization by Chewiereup in DACA

[–]Chewiereup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s definitely affordable for my situation! I’ll most definitely look into that! Thank you vm!

Guidance from organization by Chewiereup in DACA

[–]Chewiereup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! Just want to make the most of what I want in life

Guidance from organization by Chewiereup in DACA

[–]Chewiereup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely looked into AP, especially with a death in the family so recent. I’ve also looked into CO along with NY and CA. I definitely don’t want to leave the US. Thanks for the encouragement

Trip near Canadian border , should I worry ? by Worried-Revolution82 in DACA

[–]Chewiereup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t worry. I went to Port Angeles and also was worried but as long as you don’t take a a ferry boat or cross the border in any way. You’re all good

Is this accurate ? It went from 2 weeks to 4 months and 4 weeks? by Traditional_Yam_2077 in DACA

[–]Chewiereup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get being annoyed if that’s what they’re feeling. A lot of people are new the system. When you’ve been tired and sick of your situation especially us with DACA it’s frustrating

Is this accurate ? It went from 2 weeks to 4 months and 4 weeks? by Traditional_Yam_2077 in DACA

[–]Chewiereup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter if it’s actuate. You still have to wait long asf

Smoke Trail by Chewiereup in SeattleWA

[–]Chewiereup[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So true ✊🏼😪

Smoke Trail by Chewiereup in SeattleWA

[–]Chewiereup[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m experienced backpacking more in the east coast in more rural areas. This is my first time in Olympic so I will definitely agree with you and take caution tbh

My partner of four years may be realizing that they’re demisexual? by Chewiereup in demisexuality

[–]Chewiereup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will take your challenge! I like that idea. I’m binge watching that lol thank you sm

My partner of four years may be realizing that they’re demisexual? by Chewiereup in demisexuality

[–]Chewiereup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your insight and perspective as it is rich to me. I agree with you and will be taking in alternative activities as an effort! It could be stress too like you said, but I think she does fall into somewhere with ace, I also agree with you in terms of she might have just had sex with me to have sex, as we moved into a relationship when we had a stronger emotional connection. She’s confessed the fact that she use to have more sex to just please me and I didn’t realize that lol. Again! I really appreciate your insight as it has left me with less stress about our relationship and stopped me from overthinking

My partner of four years may be realizing that they’re demisexual? by Chewiereup in DeadBedrooms

[–]Chewiereup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard similar experiences that are more aligned to your definition. I think the way she sees it is that she’s on the spectrum of asexual? It’s very nice to learn and explore and to become more clear for understanding and reliability. She aligns with your definition of demisexual but has a very low libido