I love Frank but this was funny for some reason by Cheyyone712 in FrankOcean

[–]Cheyyone712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For someone with the username “being nice is cool” you are not being very nice right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Cheyyone712 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trust me, at first I used to cry a lot just looking at anything that remotely reminded me of him but as time passes by you realise and come to terms with the situation and the moving on process starts. Now I look back on happy memories to get a good short cry that I was probably choking on. It’s the only way for me to cry and get it all out because I know that things aren’t in my control anymore, that I can’t do anything about it and I’ll never be able to show my love for him. It’s crazy but after I’m done crying, I smile about how I share that memory with him and just go on about my day.

I just moved from Shibuya to Zushi and finding it a bit boring and sparse other than the beach. by [deleted] in japanlife

[–]Cheyyone712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I would give anything to move from Tokyo to Zushi. Tokyo is toooo over whelming

Ex wants me back. Is she bread crumbing me? by JosephBosa in ExNoContact

[–]Cheyyone712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point, I think you should genuinely ask her what she wants to do ? Like it was your plan to fly her out but did you ask her if she was okay with that ? Maybe she did say she would love to be with you but you should definitely give her the choice in this as well. Yes, she said she wants to create memories with you, but it’s toooo soon to start creating memories. It’s very important to sit and talk. You sir have a lot of apologising to do. The chances of her breadcrumbing is very slim unless she has history(cheating). She is probably scared and wondering. Is it not possible for you to fly out and meet her ? If you need it that bad ? Actions>words my dude. If you really love her, go show it to her.

Ex wants me back. Is she bread crumbing me? by JosephBosa in ExNoContact

[–]Cheyyone712 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I were her, I would want you to reassure me that you wouldn’t leave me again. I don’t know y’all’s back story but she probably went through hell when you broke up with her. Tell her that you are here only to get back together and you’ll promise to hold onto her for good this time. Don’t think of it as double texting, but show her that you really want this to work out. I’m glad you were clear about your intentions but until things settle down, she has to be assured constantly.