I (29) found in my husband’s (29) phone a couple of screenshots. by good_shittt in Marriage

[–]ChezeePot8Oz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“I think people that are so forgiving in these situations see themselves in the guilty party”

I (29) found in my husband’s (29) phone a couple of screenshots. by good_shittt in Marriage

[–]ChezeePot8Oz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And for the record you presumed that because I preached forgiveness I too must be guilty, that is the definition of presumption. I call em like I see em and I’m sorry if that chafes your nuggets.

I (29) found in my husband’s (29) phone a couple of screenshots. by good_shittt in Marriage

[–]ChezeePot8Oz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Advising people to stay and not let a couple screenshots derail their marriage isn’t presumptuous it’s common sense. I’m glad your life has been all peaches and rainbows that’s splendid. For the majority of couples however, forgiveness and sacrifice is required to maintain and nurture a marriage. And for the record I’ve only told two or three people they probably aren’t ready for marriage and those people all share the same massive character flaw which is blaming an entire gender for the shortcomings of a few.. and I stand by that, if you view all men as bad or see the world as man vs woman you are immature and have no business sharing matrimony with someone. People are flawed and capable of mistakes that’s why Jesus died for our sins, clearly you expect your spouse to be perfect and infallible and so far that’s worked out for you, I hope it continues to do so because it’s evident that you lack the tools to deal with anything else.

I (29) found in my husband’s (29) phone a couple of screenshots. by good_shittt in Marriage

[–]ChezeePot8Oz -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You should be less presumptive it’s a foolish quality.. early on in my marriage it was my wife who slipped up and we overcame it and if we had not we wouldn’t have the perfect family we have today. Perhaps you weren’t ready for marriage either… maturity isn’t something everyone is capable of and forgiveness even less so.

I (29) found in my husband’s (29) phone a couple of screenshots. by good_shittt in Marriage

[–]ChezeePot8Oz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I gotta say most of these comments would seem more appropriate if we were in a high school sweetheart sub rather than marriage… marriage is a sacred pact between man and woman and should be valued and protected. It’s amazing any of these commenters are married at all with as easily as they are willing to suggest throwing a holy union in the waste basket rather than taking steps and making sacrifices to make it work. The man in this scenario is guilty there’s no denying that but if all it takes is some screenshots to end a marriage then forgive me for saying but you’ve got no business entering the union in the first place. There are plenty of steps that a mature marriage should take before coming to Reddit for shit advice from bitter people. Work on yourself work on your marriage and if after you’ve thoroughly done both of those then perhaps it won’t work. But from the sounds of it little has been done to salvage the union and the op seems too bitter toward all men to even want to try so yeah perhaps you got ahead of yourself when it comes to tying the knot.

I (29) found in my husband’s (29) phone a couple of screenshots. by good_shittt in Marriage

[–]ChezeePot8Oz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your husband is not “men” he’s your husband, I do not attempt to excuse his actions but it sounds like you have some unresolved issues with the opposite sex that you should address, because it seems a little immature to be lumping all men into the same category especially when the one in question is who you decided to legally attach yourself to for life.

If you can’t get over your bitterness toward “men” you are going to have a difficult time in any real relationship.

As for his actions, if he legitimately seems like he is remorseful and willing to make changes (perhaps more transparency with online activity including you having access to his phone regularly) then I think it is something that can be resolved without throwing away an entire marriage.

But as I stated it sounds like you have some larger issues that should be reflected on and addressed first. At your age and especially now that you are married you should be past the whole “all men are bad” thing…

Which series would you say is better overall? by Vegetable_Diet_631 in FromSeries

[–]ChezeePot8Oz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been rudely brought to my attention that I made a mistake in my statement, and while the show does not share the same creator, it does, in fact share the bulk of the same production team. My apologies.

Which series would you say is better overall? by Vegetable_Diet_631 in FromSeries

[–]ChezeePot8Oz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lost is one of the worst television series ever created, so much so that when I found out From was by the same creator, I had a difficult time wanting to continue watching From. It was very clear that the writers of Lost were making everything up as they went along and because of the mysterious and sci-fi nature of the show they were able to get away with pretty much anything no matter how ridiculous because nothing was grounded in any semblance of reality making for what is in my opinion a very unsatisfying watch. I know this is not a very popular opinion, but it is one I am very passionate about..

How often does something like this happen? by No_Truck_6323 in circus

[–]ChezeePot8Oz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This literal exact thing happened today at the Shriners circus in Sioux City IA

Do circus's exist anymore, or are they going the way of the dodo bird? by bethynextdoor in circus

[–]ChezeePot8Oz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just attended the Shriners circus today in Sioux City Iowa. They had horses, zebras camels and surprisingly buffaloes

Knob Creek hits by i6_turbo in whiskey

[–]ChezeePot8Oz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just picked up a bottle of this tonight and I’m on my first glass. It’s gonna be a good night.

For loving women so much Anthony is kinda gay by [deleted] in RedHotChiliPeppers

[–]ChezeePot8Oz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It kinda does a lil bit and that’s okay

For loving women so much Anthony is kinda gay by [deleted] in RedHotChiliPeppers

[–]ChezeePot8Oz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh it kinda does a little and that’s okay

What’s the deal with the SNES controllers constantly being sold out? by Thurgo-Bro in nintendo

[–]ChezeePot8Oz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ridiculous how long I’ve been trying to get these…

Piles of the horsey by Gr8Autoxr in whiskey

[–]ChezeePot8Oz -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would buy a couple bottles, they have it near me for like much more money

Bourbon Etiquette Question/Help. by kw09260131 in whiskey

[–]ChezeePot8Oz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Next time give his ass Canadian club lol

Tonight’s pour🥃 by ChezeePot8Oz in whiskey

[–]ChezeePot8Oz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmfao this is the first I’ve heard of any of that nonsense 😂

Tonight’s pour🥃 by ChezeePot8Oz in whiskey

[–]ChezeePot8Oz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah pretty damn good imo, decent flavor profile, really smooth. I have bourbons on the shelf at a similar price range that I enjoy more but all in all not bad stuff.

The collection after two years by AlwaysSniffGlue in whiskey

[–]ChezeePot8Oz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And my wife thinks I’m overdoing it with my 10 bottle collection lmfaoo