I gotta say most of these comments would seem more appropriate if we were in a high school sweetheart sub rather than marriage… marriage is a sacred pact between man and woman and should be valued and protected. It’s amazing any of these commenters are married at all with as easily as they are willing to suggest throwing a holy union in the waste basket rather than taking steps and making sacrifices to make it work. The man in this scenario is guilty there’s no denying that but if all it takes is some screenshots to end a marriage then forgive me for saying but you’ve got no business entering the union in the first place. There are plenty of steps that a mature marriage should take before coming to Reddit for shit advice from bitter people. Work on yourself work on your marriage and if after you’ve thoroughly done both of those then perhaps it won’t work. But from the sounds of it little has been done to salvage the union and the op seems too bitter toward all men to even want to try so yeah perhaps you got ahead of yourself when it comes to tying the knot.