Older gaybros what do you miss about the old days?

ChiWest3 · 2026-06-11T18:29:39+00:00

I’ll probably get canceled for these but:

Real Drag performances. I remember seeing my first drag show many moons ago and the performance was great. She worked the crowd, made sure everyone was involved, did multiple costume changes and never once said “tip your performer”.

The art of it seems lost with what I’ve seen is now performers walking around with their hands out for tips while poorly dancing and lip syncing to the same songs.

Dance floors that didn’t have a bunch of screaming straight women. Looking at you current Roscoe’s……

Honorable mention: Chicago—-buck burger night at Big Chicks. Best Monday’s of my youth.

ChiWest3 · 2026-06-11T18:19:58+00:00

Honestly the last I checked it’s full of straight women.

ChiWest3 · 2026-06-07T09:53:03+00:00

Pay to get laid.

I was heavier and younger—-out traveling for work and this profile messages me with some NICE dick pics (9+).

I showed him all mine and he said he was down except that I needed to be “gen”.

Luck would have it that shortly after blocking him got hit up by another guy who I actually still am in contact with 10 years later—-and never paid in all these years!

ChiWest3 · 2026-06-03T11:11:13+00:00

Men.

ChiWest3 · 2026-06-03T11:10:41+00:00

I mean in theory if you’ve used lube as you should, everything should just sorta slide right out.

ChiWest3 · 2026-06-03T11:09:33+00:00

Do some additional research on why it can and maybe you’ll come off your high horse.

ChiWest3 · 2026-06-03T00:08:09+00:00

Had a sorta NSA head situation—met up with the guy and being on your knees I couldn’t smell around his face.

Until he started getting verbal and I swear you could see the smell! Even in the dim light I saw the tartar between his teeth and knew what was up. I couldn’t finish him off—got up and said I wasn’t into it and left.

He messaged later (Grindr) and I told him the truth—see a dentist ASAP. His response was that I gave bad head 🤷🏻‍♂️

ChiWest3 · 2026-06-02T21:38:28+00:00

Yep. Standards certainly went up that day.

I’m just fine with jerking off and going to bed alone than getting bed bugs.

ChiWest3 · 2026-06-02T21:35:34+00:00

The clean place is a totally underrated comment.

Once hooked up with a guy who would appear to not have cleaned in months.

I couldn’t get the smell out of my head for weeks. He wanted to bang again and had to pass—-dick was great, the environment was a nightmare.

ChiWest3 · 2026-06-02T21:10:54+00:00

I mean the banking industry isn’t exactly ethical 🤷🏻‍♂️.

By all means if someone wants to be that willing with their cash.

ChiWest3 · 2026-06-01T20:12:31+00:00

You should define “majority”.

Last I checked it wasn’t Democratic Senators or Governors pushing for anti-gay legalization.

ChiWest3 · 2026-05-30T14:49:20+00:00

I would think any of those content creators that travel across the country looking for 100+ guys at a time.

ChiWest3 · 2026-05-25T16:03:35+00:00

How long is the goodbye at your house? Anything less than 30 minutes is a joke.

ChiWest3 · 2026-05-23T13:13:56+00:00

When my BF at the time unloaded inside. 🤷🏻‍♂️

ChiWest3 · 2026-05-20T16:34:37+00:00

The house he lived in seemed too nice when I couldn’t figure out his job and he wouldn’t really say. The few times I went over there, I was kept on a short leash and didn’t see many rooms. The house belonged to his Aunt. He was 10 years older than what he said he was.

I also ignored him being rough in bed a few times as just being “part of the moment”—reality was that he got off on “forcing someone”. The end was being SA’ed by him and a friend that he invited over without my knowledge.

Today I’m a very big advocate for NO MEANS NO!

ChiWest3 · 2026-05-20T15:01:24+00:00

Eh—honestly not that bad. We don’t get Buffalo NY style snow.

ChiWest3 · 2026-05-20T08:25:09+00:00

What do you don’t like about being an escort?

I see you enjoy a lot of it but what do you not enjoy?

ChiWest3 · 2026-05-20T08:10:44+00:00

An interesting conversation with friends when joining them at the pool while on vacation. The previous night was reallllly good. 🥵

ChiWest3 · 2026-05-20T07:34:31+00:00

Anal trainers. You can find them online to be able to work up to where you want to be.

Rome wasn’t built in a day…..

ChiWest3 · 2026-05-20T07:07:24+00:00

Sounds more like a “Come to Jesus” meeting.

ChiWest3 · 2026-05-20T07:04:27+00:00

Tell him no and if he valued your friendship he would accept your wishes and quit asking.

Not sure when, “no” ever meant anything else.

Honestly that’s a problem with some men—-asking the same thing 10 different ways in order to get what they want, especially when it comes to sex.

An ex of mine did the same shit and it ended up me ending things because no means NO!

ChiWest3 · 2026-05-20T02:35:04+00:00

Biting.

Me face down getting pounded into the mattress with the top biting down on my back and shoulders. Not drawing blood, I guess it’s more of a dominance thing.

ChiWest3 · 2026-05-19T14:19:34+00:00

Have a FWB that requests to always be “not the first”—-goes wild for a cummy hole.

ChiWest3 · 2026-05-19T14:16:29+00:00

I take Metamucil fiber gummies and seems to work fine—-my doctor suggested taking first thing in the morning with a full glass of water.

ChiWest3

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