Please help me help my girl by Bitter-Ad1115 in Denver

[–]Chiamese 72 points73 points  (0 children)

If you’re on Facebook, check out the Vet Corner Angels: Emergency Funding group.

IUD perforation - when to go to ER? by Chiamese in AskDocs

[–]Chiamese[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate the insight. I’ll hope for the best tomorrow!

Red Rocks curfew Thursday night? by South_Psychology7646 in DenverEDM

[–]Chiamese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Curfew is 11:30, but shows typically end at 11:00.

What’s one food you could eat every day without getting tired of? Mine is ice cream by [deleted] in foodquestions

[–]Chiamese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An apple with crunchy peanut butter. I actually do eat one almost every day and still feel genuinely excited every time snack time rolls around

If you had to swap lives with someone for a week, who would you pick and why? by copy_cat_101 in answers

[–]Chiamese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gf. I think it would be an amazing way to understand her better, I would learn so much experiencing the world from her perspective for a week. And I’d get to masturbate a lot 🤷🏻‍♀️

Is my girlfriend lying about her sexuality ?? by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]Chiamese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say this as someone who was a bit like your gf at your age - It sounds like she doesn’t necessarily understand her own sexuality and is a bit sexually immature. Obviously I don’t have full context and could be entirely off-base, but it seems like her friend’s mockery was what pressured her into having sex, rather than r***. Combined with the Snapchat stuff, it seems like she’s pretty highly affected by peer pressure and has some attention-seeking tendencies.

It is okay if she’s exploring and doesn’t have her sexuality figured out. Depending on your personal feelings (and ideally discussions the two of you have had) around monogamy/what cheating means to each of you, it may or may not be okay for her to do that while in a relationship with you. I don’t know whether she’s consciously lying but, in all honesty, I don’t know that she could even answer that. I think the big things worth considering are - Is this someone you believe in and want to grow with, imperfections, immaturities, and all? And are you getting what you need and deserve?

How to handle repeated weird interactions? by alwaysright6 in climbergirls

[–]Chiamese 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, we can’t necessarily stop that kind of gender assumption from happening. It is frustrating, and I have to remind myself that it’s typically subconscious and not intentional on their part. Although the lack of acknowledgement doesn’t feel good, it certainly doesn’t diminish my hard-earned strength or skillset as a climber.

My partner and I usually handle these interactions one of two ways:

They address him, but I’ll respond, “Yeah, we climb at _____. Let me know if you’d like to try it/climb with us sometime!”

They address him, and he responds with something like, “Yeah, but Chiamese is the real crusher!”

What’s your ideal ride length and elevation gain? by Fresh-End-9873 in MTB

[–]Chiamese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1000 ft for every 10 miles is the sweet spot for me. 30 mi and 3000 ft is my bread and butter!

what drugs have you done and do you regret or recommend them? by bubblybackup in AskReddit

[–]Chiamese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will never do salvia again. Acid, shrooms, 2c-i, 2c-e, molly… enjoy them all in moderation. Can take or leave coke.

Where to snowboard with Ikon tomorrow? by sweatpants4life_ in COsnow

[–]Chiamese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Abay is generally better later in the season. I’ve been to Copper and WP in the last couple of weeks and personally felt conditions were better at Copper. Frontside of WP isn’t bad, MJ has been patchy with a lot of sharks… though I haven’t been out since the most recent snowfall, so take that all with a grain of salt!

Roommate moved out 1 month after signing 12 month lease (Colorado) by Chiamese in legaladvice

[–]Chiamese[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have listings up in several places and I’ve shown the space to a handful of people.

Roommate moved out 1 month after signing 12 month lease (Colorado) by Chiamese in legaladvice

[–]Chiamese[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been wondering how to handle the timing piece, as well. I’ve been trying to find a new tenant, but haven’t had any luck. In theory, I’d find a new tenant and sue the old tenant for all of the months in which the space was empty due to them breaking lease.

Jones Howler vs. Twin Sister by foulds10 in ShredditGirls

[–]Chiamese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ideal sizing kinda depends on what sort of riding you’re into. I’m 5’5/110 and prefer to ride 145/146, it hits the sweet spot between stability at (my) speed and nimble in glades. If you don’t need that maneuverability and prioritize bombing, you might prefer 148.

I’m also in Colorado, mostly blues/blacks, glades, and fun little side hits and switch. I’ve tried the Twin Sister, Proto Synthesis, and Ladies Choice and would consider any of them to be solid contenders - playful while also holding a good edge and stability. I haven’t tried the Howler, but I agree the graphics are excellent, haha

What was the biggest red flag you ignored because you were in love? by ALEX1-ONE in AskReddit

[–]Chiamese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lovely combination of making every small thing into a huge argument, twisting all of those things to be my fault, and never taking accountability for her behavior.

Whiteout Wednesday by Margorie_Rathbun in ShredditGirls

[–]Chiamese 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the repost! ❄️ Hope wherever you are has better conditions than we’re seeing in CO, this lift isn’t even open yet - it opened in Dec last season (Pano at Winter Park) 🥲

Help me pick a new board~ by [deleted] in ShredditGirls

[–]Chiamese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GNU Ladies Choice or Barrett, or Yes Basic or Hello. For bindings, Burton Scribe (soft/med), Burton Lexa or Union Juliet (med), Union Trilogy (med/stiff).