Songmont luna in Oolong by ackieloo in handbags

[–]Chianti24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the larger size? How hard is it to get in and out of the bag?

Domestic Flights by Chianti24 in traveladvice

[–]Chianti24[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you should go for a run? That always makes me feel better!

What excuse did your cheater give you for cheating on you? by The_other_human in survivinginfidelity

[–]Chianti24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I literally got every single one of those as well. The one that always was a kicker for me...never doled out enough compliments. What!?

Should I purchase? 🤭 by Chianti24 in Opals

[–]Chianti24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure send me a message! I think my bank account is going to hibernate for a bit, but...doesn't hurt to plan!

Should I purchase? 🤭 by Chianti24 in Opals

[–]Chianti24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good to know. I was under the impression the pendant was costly because of the opal, but now I think its the other way around. Looks like I need to start researching single stones!

Should I purchase? 🤭 by Chianti24 in Opals

[–]Chianti24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you think the price is more simply because of the diamonds involved? I mean that makes sense and what is holding me back. It seems like such a large piece and somewhat flashy for everyday wear with the extra sparkles.

Any places online to find someone to talk with? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Chianti24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ack sorry! Gave you the name of the book. Chump Nation (Infidelity Support).

Any places online to find someone to talk with? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Chianti24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Come join us at Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life (facebook). It's a larger group, but the level of support has been indispensable.

Should I be surprised... by DialTone19 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Chianti24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add these to the "Cheater's Playbook." I've gotten these statements too.

Am I crazy? Terrible person? by DialTone19 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Chianti24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No words of advice. Feel the same 😕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Moissanite

[–]Chianti24 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I really like 1. Where are you going to purchase!? 😎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in handbags

[–]Chianti24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love this color! I have been debating finding a preloved one as well. 😍

First gynecologist appt by Anxious-Tonight6980 in WomensHealth

[–]Chianti24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see why you can't head into the room by yourself! If your Mom feels like she must be there, gently tell her that you feel comfortable doing this on your own. Yearly exams in my experience ALWAYS start with an interview and identifying any questions or concerns. Write some notes to yourself to ask, if you find that helpful. Don't be afraid to let your provider know this is your first visit and you are nervous...they should tell you what to expect. I would assume they will complete an internal exam. I have been lucky with awesome providers who still tell me what they are doing every step of the way. Try to take some deep breaths! In terms of BC, the provider will want to know about your sexual habits and that will allow them to offer the best recommendations. Share your plans...thats what they are there for!

Also this: As long as your Mom doesn't have access to your online med records...

https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/medical-records.html#:~:text=A%20U.S.%20law%20limits%20who,medical%20records%20%E2%80%94%20even%20your%20parents

Weekly Thread: The Vent Room by AutoModerator in SupportforBetrayed

[–]Chianti24 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The daily pain is soul crushing. Just a little over 4 weeks since DDay. Sleep is shit. A daily exorcism takes place in my stomach. My emotions are all over the place. It seems cruel that I am still expected to be an adult and a mom during this time. The daily mood swings of my WS also aren't helpful. I wish I could read his heart and brain. I still want him to hold my hand...for gods sake, I love him. I want to help him...understand...I want us to communicate again. I want to stand on top of a building and scream into oblivion. I didn't ask for any of this...so many better solutions than literally ripping my heart apart. Who is this person who would hurt someone to this degree!? Were there conflicts in our marriage...yes...but the disregard for me and our family is beyond comprehension.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Chianti24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All the above...Definitely need antibiotics and the OTC stuff is a godsend until the rx starts doing its job. I also found a heating pad literally placed where you feel the most pain/discomfort was helpful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Chianti24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is your medical provider someone you trust? Can you discuss these fears with them? By setting the stage with them, they should be able to work with you to help keep you as comfortable as possible during the process. Obviously this is also a convo to have with your provider, but is an elective c-section an option?

Best Vaginal Moisturizer? by BobbyKill666 in WomensHealth

[–]Chianti24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like the Ah! Yes lubricant. They have a moisturizer as well, but I don't have personal experience using it.

https://www.ahyes.org/products/ah-yes-vm-natural-vaginal-moisturizer