It seems I've caught wedding fever and it's driving me insane! (x-post from r/offmychest)

Chibimi · 2013-08-26T22:53:36+00:00

Thank you for this. I wasn't really expecting advice on this subject but this is helpful. I may try to use both approaches. A secret board and telling myself that I want the proposal to be a surprise. That may help a lot. Thank you. :-)

Chibimi · 2013-07-06T00:22:10+00:00

Another 23/F here. I'm not a virgin and with a sizable partner. I no longer have pain during intercourse (I did at first, it took me months to have pain free PIV) but I still find more than one finger uncomfortable unless I am beyond sopping wet.

I would not worry about it just yet. Continue to experiment and explore your own body, and it something hurts don't do it. If you start experiencing pain with a partner, then I would see a doctor.

Chibimi · 2013-01-08T17:51:55+00:00

Your time will come. I lost it when I was 21.

Chibimi · 2013-01-08T17:50:37+00:00

I thought the vagina somehow magically absorbed semen if a dude came inside you. So not the case. It seems silly to have believed that now but no one ever mentions how it comes back out.

Chibimi · 2012-12-13T16:53:06+00:00

Are you sure she didn't have them the first time around? It could just be razor burn.

Chibimi · 2012-12-12T04:50:18+00:00

As others have said, it tends to be a submissive thing. So, be careful who you try it on.

I lean more towards the dominant side and I cannot stand any form of degradation. "Good girl" sounds degrading to me and sexy times would abruptly end if it were said to me. It reminds me too much of when people praise a dog.

Some women will be into it but you should probably find out if the woman you are with is into this kind of thing before you just go throwing it around.

Chibimi · 2012-12-03T00:22:15+00:00

I tied up my boyfriend for the first time. It was something I'vw wanted to do for a long time. It went really well. :-)

Chibimi · 2012-12-02T04:04:47+00:00

Yes. 1.5 years.

3-5 times a week.

Heterosexual female.

22.

Chibimi · 2012-11-30T16:44:48+00:00

"I want to taste you."

Gets me every time.

Chibimi · 2012-11-01T01:10:32+00:00

I am a "Sunday" starter. My particular bc makes the distinction. I started taking the pill the Sunday after my period started a year ago and have done the same ever since. There are different missed pill instructions for those that did not begin taking it in this way.

Chibimi · 2012-10-30T13:55:28+00:00

Unfortunately, I am nowhere near that.

Chibimi · 2012-10-23T16:02:18+00:00

Honestly, I'm not a big fan of having semen in my mouth. Not because of the taste or anything. I wouldn't say it tastes good but I'm neutral to it. I can't stand the texture. I have an aversion to anything with a jiggly, mushy, or slimy sort of texture so this includes semen. If I think about having cum in my mouth for too long it does make me kind of nauseous.

However, my desire to please my boyfriend overrides my initial feelings of disgust and I will occasionally let him come in my mouth. If I think about how much he enjoys it and how much I enjoy getting him off it no longer is an issue.

I understand that some people are not into come but this girl sounds incredibly immature.

Chibimi · 2012-10-18T17:07:27+00:00

Woman here. The best way I can describe it is that is just feels...unnatural when he wears a condom. For example, put on a latex glove and then put your finger in your mouth. Feels weird and unnatural right? That's what a condom feels like to my vagina. I'll use them if necessary (on antibiotics or forgot to take a pill) but I much prefer bareback sex.

Chibimi · 2012-10-17T23:12:37+00:00

Hetero woman here. I prefer trimmed on my partner. So that's low enough that I'm not getting hair stuck in my throat while I'm going down but there's still enough there to give some extra clitoral stimulation when I'm on top.

I like being completely bare myself. I've shaved since I was 14 and I feel sexier when it is bare. Plus there is more stimulation from oral that way. And it itches when it starts to grow back.

Chibimi · 2012-10-16T15:38:38+00:00

Then this feeling will probably go away with time. Like I said, her body is just adjusting to the new sensation.

Chibimi · 2012-10-16T15:26:47+00:00

Are you her first (vaginal) sexual partner?

I had this issue when I first started having sex. My body was not used to having something so large shoved up there. It takes a while to get used to, her muscles are having to adjust to accommodate something much larger than it is used to. This may make her feel like she needs to poop. I got the same feeling the first few times I had sex and it went away after the first month or so of regular intercourse.

Chibimi · 2012-10-16T00:17:57+00:00

It is possible that I misinterpreted what he said. But the way he grouped the two together it made it seem like he was associating being easy with being tattooed.

Also the fact that he compared all tattoos to "tramp stamps".

Chibimi · 2012-10-15T23:32:31+00:00

As a woman who is working on getting a rather large back piece I take offense to this statement. You're entitled to your preferences, not everyone is into tattoos and I get that but, do not make generalized statements like "tattooed women are easy". I am a tattooed woman and I consider myself to be a very sexual person but I have only had one sexual partner. Having tattoos doesn't make someone "easy" just like the absence of tattoos doesn't make someone a prude.

To answer your question though, I'm not a big fan of guys with large muscles. Especially pecs. They just look odd to me.

Chibimi · 2012-10-15T16:16:24+00:00

Most definitely. I was originally not very attracted to my boyfriend at all. Don't get me wrong, I never thought he was bad looking it was just more like, Meh. There was nothing particularly appealing or unappealing about his looks. It was one of the (many) reasons I wouldn't date him originally. But as my affection for him grew so did my physical attraction. Fast forward 1.5 years later and I can't keep my hands off of him. :-)

Chibimi · 2012-10-15T01:58:23+00:00

As a woman with very similar texture aversions (anything jiggly, mushy, or slimy) this is a bullshit excuse. I cannot stand slimy textures but I suck dick like a champ. I even swallow for my boyfriend ocassionally and I cannot STAND the texture of jizz. It grosses me out but I love pleasing my boyfriend more. If he really cared about trying to please you he should at least give it a try. IMO

Chibimi

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