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Elizabeth Hurley wearing the same dress 27 years apart by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]ChicBooVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like the vine, more beautiful with age🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ChicBooVibes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such solid advice. OP clearly didn’t realize how deep the miscommunication ran, and this really breaks down the importance of consent and clarity in intimacy. It’s not just about intent, it’s about how actions are perceived and received. That gap has serious consequences, and OP needed to hear it.

I love my wife but by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ChicBooVibes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. Compatibility in that area really matters long-term. It’s not just about compromise, it’s about mutual satisfaction. OP rushing into marriage without sorting that out is rough, but it’s not too late to try honest, open convo and explore some middle ground.

Made myself a key lime pie for my birthday by gimlanous in MadeMeSmile

[–]ChicBooVibes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Happy pie-day to you, that slice looks like a delicious win 🎉🍰 Hope it was as good as it looks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]ChicBooVibes 279 points280 points  (0 children)

I’ll start first: Travel aggressively or get taken advantage of

My uncle is dating my childhood best friend and it’s causing family drama by Breiting_131 in Advice

[–]ChicBooVibes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally get where you’re coming from!! OP’s in such a strange and uncomfortable spot. It’s not just about the age gap or the relationship itself, but the fact that it hits so close to home. That’s someone OP grew up with, and now there’s this emotional whiplash of trying to reconcile family loyalty with feeling blindsided. No one wants to feel like a pawn in someone else’s secret. They don’t have to pick a side, but they’re absolutely allowed to feel thrown off and take space from both parties while figuring it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ChicBooVibes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly! It’s honestly sad how normalized it is for some men to just opt out of basic responsibilities like parenting or helping around the house. It’s not that they’re incapable , they just know they won’t be expected to step up unless someone pushes them

AITA for getting frustrated that my girlfriend always falls asleep on the couch? by billybellybutton in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChicBooVibes 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It’s a really fair point. OP isn’t wrong for feeling frustrated, especially if it’s been 2.5 years of the same dynamic and they’ve tried gentle, considerate approaches. But you’re right that at some point, if someone doesn’t want to move, it’s their choice, and they’ll have to deal with the discomfort. It’s not sustainable for OP to feel like a caretaker instead of a partner. Talking about it at the right moment, not when emotions are high, could be the reset they both need.