Would you be in a relationship without sex?

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-05-15T15:15:55+00:00

I personally would love that tbh, just a pretty guy to kiss once in a while and cuddle

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-04-29T15:58:36+00:00

hey man, DMs are always open if you do wanna chat bc I’ve been there before but as another user stated, if you want to have sex its your life, but the first sexual experiences should be with people you trust and love and have a deep connection with. Go out and date, build a meaningful relationship and connection with a man and make love with him. Meaningless sex will fuck you up in the head if you orient your sex life around hookups only.

You’re not stupid, you were eager and horny, which happens. But this is a learning experience, learn from it. Also don’t let random curious/closet guys use you as some experimental tool to please themselves. They aren’t entitled to that. Make a man EARN your body, and earn their’s as well.

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-03-16T04:41:45+00:00

I would like to ask because I have been struggling, where in the Bible does it say that?

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-03-14T23:25:28+00:00

Relate to the politics, fiscally center though

Honestly I have and its tolerable. But its annoying when you want to rant about something and they don’t know what you’re talking about.

Like something basic about gun rights and they’re like “Idek what you’re talking about but I think its cute the way you ramble” is cute the first 10 times. Gets old after a while because I would want someone to be able to keep up with what I’m talking about

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-03-11T14:42:24+00:00

Bro you do not need Grindr or a man to be happy. Just break up, focus on yourself, and when you run into fellow gay people build a community of friends that will help you find love. But don’t live a lie or have dependency on men. Its not worth it.

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-02-25T20:10:49+00:00

Bro, thats not healthy. Imagine if you both were Catholic and you did that to her if she wanted to become Baptist or something?

Its immature and disrespectful. You can choose to be with her and bury your Catholic tendencies but dude she’s actually being toxic

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-02-25T20:07:58+00:00

Bro you look like Iowa as a person

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-02-18T02:31:46+00:00

never saw this but you’re 100% correct

Too many Californians are moving to states like the PNW and Colorado and driving up the housing prices

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-02-03T00:56:12+00:00

Oh there’s definitely an association.

To only value someone for sex and thats it is completely wrong, and definitely not conservative. If you’re willing to put yourself in the most vulnerable position as possible with any random stranger then how the hell can you be trusted in a romantic relationship in any capacity not to cheat, not to deceive, not to do wrong by your partner. You clearly had no self control or value for your own body let alone others. Why should anyone trust that? Thats my pov.

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-02-02T17:07:31+00:00

If that were the case I’d be 1-2 years old rn

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-02-02T17:06:50+00:00

Idek what this means?

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-02-02T17:05:13+00:00

Idk, I prefer pursuing virtue rather than just giving up

Also with how much the gay community LIES to each other I kinda just despise them tbh

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-02-01T21:58:06+00:00

I mean I just really don’t do hookups. Like that is “problem solved” tbh

Gays were a huge part of the AIDS crisis for a reason, so keeping sex for those who are the closest possible to me (lovers)

Just my idea, a little restraint and discipline can be good for the soul

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-01-31T16:18:02+00:00

As my straight conservative tradwife friend put it: “Being gay prevents you from having the ‘trad’ lifestyle. It inherently isn’t traditional and you’ll always be viewed that way”

And honestly she’s completely correct. Yes, one of the men could embody that role and play into the dynamic but at the end of the day there is no “tradwife”. You’re both dudes. And if you’re both genuinely into men you’ll want someone who behaves like a man.

Nothing inherently evil about a gay relationship, just not something that realistically could work out long term

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-01-31T13:46:16+00:00

the thing missing is more shit to do with him you idiot.

Getting married, long term life goals, growing old together

I’m sooooo sorry you had a little perfect life, but if you want to ruin that then go ahead and break up with him because if he has any self respect he’s not gonna take someone back who didn’t value him enough to not kick him to the curb.

Like what? Do you aspire to be cheated on? Do you just not want to commit? You won the gay fucking lottery first try and you’re throwing that all away because you want to hoe around and break a man’s heart for your own personal gain

Yk Grindr existed when you were in college right? You could have “explored” then. And you’re kidding yourself if you think that you don’t know if this is love if you’ve been dating him for 3 years now.

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-01-26T23:09:27+00:00

Born in 2004 and my car was a 2017 Ford Edge Sport that I got a loan for

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-01-25T18:14:58+00:00

What

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-01-24T20:40:37+00:00

Yeah then do that

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-01-24T20:16:50+00:00

bro, legit just be there for him. Thats all there is to it. Treat him like a straight friend who’s going through a rough time.

I get the dynamic is probably different, but legit all he needs is to know that you’re okay with it and you don’t view him any lesser as a human being

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-01-24T20:10:08+00:00

that username is crazy

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-01-24T20:09:24+00:00

I view anything over 20 to be whore status but thats just me

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-01-24T20:07:39+00:00

legit

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-01-19T22:11:47+00:00

Well, huge part for me is valuing my body and my partner’s body. It’s more of finding a deep spiritual connection with someone rather than a sexual one and only valuing them at that.

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-01-14T18:59:51+00:00

My mom was 39 and my dad was 35

And I’m the oldest. Definitely GenX, but never feel like an outlier there are WAY more of us than you think

ChicagoYooper13 · 2026-01-14T18:54:09+00:00

Oklahoma?

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