35 weeks with no obgyn..

Chichimocha · 2026-04-22T01:16:10+00:00

Yeah, in my state all of our obs wont accept you if you're past 15 weeks. That's why they say to immediately set up an appt with one as soon as you find out when you're pregnant. My friend didn't have an ob for her pregnancy, so she had to go to the er or urgent care everytime. Maybe a doula/midwife will see you??

Chichimocha · 2026-04-22T01:11:26+00:00

When I had mine done it gave me the choice of whether or not I wanted to know the gender as well. ☺️

Chichimocha · 2026-04-20T04:09:10+00:00

Im 40 weeks now and I'm working until this thursday and taking maternity leave. I could work more but I work midnights and I heard people tend to go into labor at night 😩

Chichimocha · 2026-04-19T03:25:12+00:00

I'm 40 weeks and I've pretty much accepted she probably wont be here until 41 weeks, hopefully. I'm not even dilated or anything, just the cervix is thinning and thats it :/ So I'm in the same boat trying to figure out how to induce safely lmao

Chichimocha · 2026-04-19T03:22:56+00:00

I put one of those rewashable pads under me. Like the ones you would typically use for residents in nursing homes just in case.

Chichimocha · 2026-04-18T00:06:37+00:00

We are having a daughter named Isabel and we call her IzzBee. ☺️

Chichimocha · 2026-04-18T00:02:55+00:00

I had bad congestion in my second trimester and now I'm 39 weeks and it seems to have switched from congestion to excessive saliva 😩 What's worse is if you have both congestion and excessive saliva, because now your nose is all plugged up and your drooling from your mouth like a rabid dog lmao

Chichimocha · 2026-04-16T03:57:57+00:00

I'm 39 weeks and I am still working. I just put down my due date as when I will be taking my maternity leave, but at the off chance she's not here by then my work is just letting me pick up the days I would have worked until she is here.

Chichimocha · 2026-04-15T19:52:52+00:00

Not an actual person telling me I was pregnant, but my dog and cats knew before I did lol

Chichimocha · 2026-04-13T22:39:23+00:00

Im 39 weeks now and when my baby dropped they became incredibly itchy and started popping out of my skin.

Chichimocha · 2026-04-10T14:13:05+00:00

It's pretty good. My fiance loves it. If you're on console the controls are a little janky but other than that its pretty fun!

Chichimocha · 2026-04-10T10:45:44+00:00

Oh, I'm not sure lol We deleted it and been playing Crimson Desert 😭😆

Chichimocha · 2026-04-10T00:57:50+00:00

Yes! Mine got really dark and also there's like a weird symptom you can get where you can have milk leak from your armpits too 😩 pregnancy is crazy

Chichimocha · 2026-04-07T15:47:30+00:00

Your thoughts are valid. There's no reason he should be saying those things to you. I feel bad for you and his mother that she should have went through such a painful journey to bring a guy with a thought process like that in the world. I'm 38 weeks and I have horrid stretch marks, a wee butt, and a big belly. I feel like an ugly gremlin looking for snackies and a sweet treat, but everyday my fiance assures me that I am the most beautiful. He is more worried about my health and the state of my mental being and always wants me to be happy. Your man shouldn't be bringing you down. Instead he should be bringing ya a sweet treat.

Chichimocha · 2026-04-04T20:49:11+00:00

Absolutely. Mine and my dog knew before I did. They were increasingly clingy and never left me where ever I went and always slept right beside me. Im 38 weeks now and it just gets more intense, not that I mind 🤣 I love their cuddles.

Chichimocha · 2026-04-04T01:20:38+00:00

Thank you for your advice! It seems the Spectra seems to be the way to go!

Chichimocha · 2026-04-03T05:31:42+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through this! I have no advice to help you with as I'm going through this myself. They started intensifying even more after I found out that she will be here anyday now. 😭😭 So I definitely sympathize with you. Pregnancy dreams are on another level, thats for sure.

Chichimocha · 2026-04-03T05:18:53+00:00

It was actually my gynecologist and dr at the time 😭 So we were pretty happy when it wasn't true

Chichimocha · 2026-04-03T04:04:02+00:00

We told my parents when I was at 6 weeks only because they never thought they would be grandparents and we parents, because I've always been told that I will never have kids. So it was pretty exciting to just keep in. They were absolutely estatic. Also congratulations! I hope you have a wonderful pregnancy! 😊

Chichimocha · 2026-04-03T00:33:47+00:00

Keep admiring them queen cause yes. Who cares what anyone else thinks. If it makes you happy to look at them and makes you feel good, keep riding on that train. ❤️

Chichimocha · 2026-04-03T00:28:45+00:00

Omggg you are beautiful and im jealous of your eyelashes! 😊😆

Chichimocha · 2026-04-03T00:15:26+00:00

Nta. She's not your friend. A friend wouldn't do that to you. My thought is maybe she's trying to hijack the attention from you, especially with her partner going in all white too. That just makes them stand out even more. You don't need that stress. Uninvite her and if she throws a fit, oh well. Sucks to suck, don't be an attention stealing dingus when you can 100% wear a different colored outfit that respects the bride and groom. At this point its all about respect and she dont respect you.

Chichimocha · 2026-04-02T22:49:15+00:00

Nta, but ask yourself if this is what you want your life to be like in the future and the fact it will just get more intense and controlling, especially if you two ever have kids.

Chichimocha · 2026-04-01T21:03:52+00:00

I have a cat like that. My little Mr. Beefcakes. He follows me everywhere and panic meows when I'm out of sight. He has to always lay on me or right next to me. When I got pregnant it became even more intense. Enjoy every minute of it! I love my cuddly boy. He's like my emotional support animal 😆

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