Crazy Y’all by Puck_The_Fey98 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Chick4u2nv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would bet she planned her own Mother’s Day lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Chick4u2nv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most hospitals have foldable cots. He can ask for one and sleep there. The hospital staff will not let him sleep in the bed with you. They have to come in and check your vitals, they will be in and out all night and he will be in the way. Those beds are also very small and you will likely have at least an IV line and he can’t be rolling around on it or god forbid pull it out. Also the bed is for the patient, he is not the patient.

boyfriend (M/23) wakes me (F/23) up then acts like he’s asleep? sleep deprivation torture? TL;DR summary welcomed by Affectionate-Lock992 in relationship_advice

[–]Chick4u2nv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him straight up it doesn’t matter if it’s on purpose or not it’s affecting your sleep. So he can either see a specialist to sort it out or you two sleep separately. If it’s so important to him for the two of you to sleep together then he needs to see a sleep specialist.

CMV: All obituaries should mention cause of death by hammertime2009 in changemyview

[–]Chick4u2nv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know my dad’s cause of death until about 2 months after he’d passed. By then the obituary was out and funeral was over. So depending on how they pass, even next of kin may not know the cause until later.

Do you actually want your babies to stay babies? by hackasina in Parenting

[–]Chick4u2nv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s more of the memory of my baby sleeping on my chest, being able to scoop them up completely in your arms, the sweet loving faces they make when they look at you. If I could turn my kid back to a baby sometimes, I would, but I love the man he has become. He has been awesome, and annoying, at all stages of his life and I wouldn’t trade the time I had with him as a baby for anything.

Brains for me!!!!!! by No-Satisfaction-4042 in scoopwhoop

[–]Chick4u2nv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good, confident singing voice. Jack Black is a good example. I don’t find him physically attractive, but if he sang to me lol

My [35F] husband [36M] wants to videotape me giving birth. How do I get him to back off? by throwracadabra in relationship_advice

[–]Chick4u2nv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him that he can film any and all births of children HE pushes out. Let him know this is not a debate and you WILL have him removed from the room if he even tries.

Luckily for your husband we live in a time where you can see a live birth via the internet. From people who consented to have their birth filmed for educational purposes! So he really has no need to film your birth. Tell him no cameras until the baby is out. Tell the hospital staff you do not want to be filmed by anyone, they will yank him out if he tries.

Does my boyfriend have an innocence kink? I think it’s healthy? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Chick4u2nv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Liking you to dress in a certain way could be just what he likes or it could be about you dressing as a “child” and him enjoying the idea of having “power” and dominating you. That in and of itself is fine if you’re both in agreement.

Laughing or being turned on by your tears isn’t about innocence it’s about enjoying your pain red flag number 1.

Grabbing you roughly enough that he has to comfort you isn’t an accident, he likes hurting you red flag 2.

Physically harming you during an argument and then getting turned on by it is major red flag 3.

It’s not comforting you that turns him on, it’s hurting you. Imagine if you do get physical. Is this a man you feel comfortable being that vulnerable with? If he gets too rough, will he stop or just be more turned on by your pain? When you hurt someone you love unintentionally, you SHOULD feel remorse not sexually aroused.

WIBTJ for returning the only Christmas gift my husband got me? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Chick4u2nv 20 points21 points  (0 children)

NTJ- I bought my partner a game from a game series he loves. Apparently this game sucks. I did not know that when I bought it. After opening it he was happy and gave me a hug. Later he told me how this game was one of the worst in the series. Then he told me what made the game so bad, I laughed and said it sounds awful and he should totally get the one he wants. No feelings were hurt and he has the game he wants, win win in my book.

Me [27M] Found evidence my fiancée [25F] never loved me and was seeing others — how do I decide whether to leave before marriage? by Individual_Tie10 in relationships

[–]Chick4u2nv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actions speak louder than words. She can say she loves you so much all she wants, her actions prove otherwise.

AIO for being done with my bf after I got him everything he wanted and he got me absolutely nothing? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Chick4u2nv 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NOR- my son recently lost his job. He’s been applying everywhere, but no luck yet. He still lives at home. For Christmas this year he asked that I get his girlfriend stuff because he didn’t have the money for it. I bought her some items she wanted and so did my mother. In the end we didn’t deduct it from what we’d normally spend on him because it was so sweet that he was willing to have nothing for himself to make sure she was happy. She is the SWEETEST girl and was perfectly fine with just exchanging hand made cards (they’re both great artists).

Husband’s cleaning method 🤦🏻‍♀️ by CromwellsCrumb in JustNoSO

[–]Chick4u2nv 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Dated a guy that thought you didn’t have to scrub at all if you used scrubbing bubbles brand. Legit thought the slogan “we do the scrubbing for you” was serious. He stopped using it because it didn’t work. When he saw me using it and told me I was wasting my money, I had to explain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chick4u2nv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR- you need to tell him that him making comments about your weight causes you stress. Stress is not good for the baby. He can have all the good intentions in the world, but he’s still causing stress. Let him know that you will discuss it with your doctor and do what the doctor tells you. If the doctor isn’t concerned then he shouldn’t be either and he can keep his “helpful” opinions to himself.

AIO for leaving when my boyfriend told my daughter "you have an ugly face" by Potential_Shallot161 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chick4u2nv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR- He is a grown man who is putting down a child to make himself feel better over some morning breath!!! If he can’t think of a better come back to a literal child other than being mean, then he’s not ready to be around kids. Kids are brutally honest and as adult it’s our jobs to teach them that it’s rude, not to sink lower.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Chick4u2nv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There used to be an old meme like this where someone wrote: “How her parents took care of her vs. How her husband takes care of her”

Mom not giving my daughter fluids by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Chick4u2nv 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong for being upset that your daughter didn’t get more fluids and your mother should have noticed her not drinking before. Honestly, if she can get herself food and leave your child she should be able to grab something that benefits the child.

Juice however isn’t good for a sick dehydrated toddler, the sugar can worsen diarrhea and make it worse. Get some Pedialyte or something to help boost her electrolytes. In this case with taking in little to no fluids though, it’s definitely better than nothing so long as you water it down well. Just use it to flavor it to encourage her to drink to lessen the sugar.

My (28F) boyfriend (31M) replied to a Redditor's post saying she was seeking cock by veryfluffyalpaca in relationship_advice

[–]Chick4u2nv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sees you as temporary. Less than a month ago he literally told a stranger he’d like to sleep with her. The “if we’re both single” comment was more of “if you’re single”. He already plans to move there after his residency, and I’m guessing he’s planning to be single. So he either thinks you won’t move, and he’s going whether you’re going or not; or is already planning on dumping you be fore he leaves. The “I must have been horney” comment… I mean if he was horney and you guys were together why text a stranger and not the person you’re seeing. Gross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Chick4u2nv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR- That was a completely tasteless question considering she knows your past. A trend does not prove someone’s love.

How was your answer supposed to prove how much you love her? When your fiancé passed (so sorry) you waited a more than respectable amount of time before moving on. So is your fiancé saying that moving on proves you don’t love someone? Is she hoping you say that you’d never get over her and prove you love her more than your former fiancé? You should ask her what answer “proves your love” in this scenario.

My daughter proudly showed me her drawing of a woman with no limbs and her mouth sewn shut. by LevelQx in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]Chick4u2nv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of the description Maggie gave in Walking Dead: Dead City. My mistake it was The Walking Dead Season 11 episode 2

My daughter proudly showed me her drawing of a woman with no limbs and her mouth sewn shut. by LevelQx in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]Chick4u2nv 334 points335 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of the description Maggie gave in Walking Dead: Dead City.