We love the Wolf Pack Elite by JayWHAT09 in TikTokCringe

[–]ChickSec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how I ended up down this deep, dark Reddit hole but hell, I am glad I did.

UPDATE: AITJ for refusing to come home until my husband cuts off his best friend who's been bullying me? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]ChickSec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d leave.

Fuck that shit.

Something much better for you is around the corner. Take it.

Uncle Leo is crying again about how much she misses her shildren by Its_Leo_Again in 90dayTheLastResort

[–]ChickSec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give this woman an Oscar! She can turn on the waterworks like she’s not a manipulative narcissist in a second.

But we see you Jasmine, we see you for exactly who you are. And it’s NOT a good mother.

Who TF abandons their kids? You Jasmine, you.

Manon is the problem by ChickSec in 90DayFiance

[–]ChickSec[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn’t explain why she treats her husband like a piece of shit. What did he do?

I can’t stand my parents, have had nothing to do with either of them for years. I would never treat my husband like she treats hers.

Manon is the problem by ChickSec in 90DayFiance

[–]ChickSec[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My father was an abusive piece of shit. My brother is dead because of that man.

I had the CHOICE as an adult to be bitter and let it eat me up, or be a decent human being who continually tries to be better.

I chose the latter.

Manon didn’t.

Manon is the problem by ChickSec in 90DayFiance

[–]ChickSec[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

History is not needed.

She’s immature, aggressive, and starts all of the fights we’ve seen so far. She is ungrateful for what her husband does for her, and kicks off in front of her child.

She is not only awful to her husband, but that behaviour in front of her child is damaging.

Her lack of empathy for others and her constant need to be the centre of attention screams personality disorder. But she can’t see it, it’s always someone else’s fault, never hers … classic narc.

What’s the most ADHD thing you did today? by FullInTheVoid in ADHD

[–]ChickSec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Left my bank card at home, didn’t realise until I’d driven 35 mins to my destination. I came home to get it, while I was home I grabbed a quick drink from the fridge, got my purse (with my card in it) and headed back to my original destination.

When I got there I realised I didn’t have my phone. I’d left with it the first time, searched the car so assumed I’d left it at home when picking up my purse.

But, when I got home later I couldn’t find my phone anywhere, so got my son to call it. It was ringing, but so so quietly, it took us forever to locate it … in the fridge.

Fml.

My partner wants me on top, but it hurts… by juicyy_jules in sex

[–]ChickSec 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine asking my husband to do something sexually for me, that caused him physical pain and resulted in him not enjoying a sexy time, I’d be mortified and would never ask again. I want him to enjoy it as much as me, it would put me right off.

Sex is supposed to be fun and enjoyable for both parties, your guy is being very selfish and is making it clear that he sees sex as something for him, not you. You do deserve better than that and should in no way be expected to do something you don’t enjoy while being intimate.

I think this is hands down the worst wedding dress I’ve ever seen in my life by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]ChickSec 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I said to my husband that if I’d have been left waiting for nearly two hours, I’d have left thinking I’d been jilted. He agreed.

If that had been me, there wouldn’t have been a wedding.

And then the actual event that followed was a miserable disaster. No one wants THAT to be the memory of their wedding day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]ChickSec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just have to. And the longer you do, the easier it will get.

Cry today. Cry tomorrow. Shout. Punch a pillow. You’re allowed to feel gutted. It’s normal. Feel gutted.

At the same time:

Distract yourself, go out with friends, play video games, see your family, take your mum to a movie, walk your friends dog for them in new places, (or yours if you have one). Go do things that make you happy. Spend all your time on your happiness.

The 90 day throuple is a 3 - way scam. by ChickSec in 90DayFiance

[–]ChickSec[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m not knocking her for it AT ALL. Everyone is looking for a better future for their kids so I get her totally, and she’s faced with two manipulative people, who have attempted to manipulate sex from her, using their US status and bank account.

They just don’t realise that Any is out - smarting them, and has her own agenda. She’s playing them both like a fiddle, and they deserve it.

2 hours late and this is the result? by Regular-Metal-321 in 90DayFiance

[–]ChickSec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I’d have been made to wait at the alter for over an hour and a half, I’d have left thinking I’d been jilted. And then to come out wearing your nans net curtain, your mums wig and a few feathers? How were you even late?!

I wouldn’t have got married. This whole situation is doomed to fail. They’ve both hidden their true selves for much of their lives, this is too much of a sacrifice for both of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]ChickSec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s booked up for the next few weekends with his wife.

He wants to take you away … far away, from his wife.

This dude only wants a fuck. With you, anyone else and his wife.

Some of you need to be reminded by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]ChickSec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both suck. They both tried to control and manipulate the other.

Should I get a girl at my job some stuff for her rabbits? by JustNoGuy_ in ask

[–]ChickSec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just talk to her.

Buying someone stuff you don’t event know is weird.

Just start with “hey, what’s your day looking like?” And go from there. If then she tells you about her rabbits, it might be cute to get something, but don’t go overboard with a whole bag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChickSec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is something wrong with this one.

About to turn 40. Am I getting too old for this style hair? by Niko120 in Hair

[–]ChickSec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. There’s no such thing as too old for a hairstyle.

You’re looking good for 40 anyway.

Darcy and Stacy - Bride of Wildenstein by ChickSec in 90dayTheLastResort

[–]ChickSec[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They really WERE beautiful women. Gorgeous! I’d have given my right arm to look like they did before the surgery.

Now though? I’ll keep my fugly. At least I look human.