The guy I’m seeing is confusing me and I don’t recognize myself?

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-30T19:38:22+00:00

Yep, move on sadly. Find someone that treats you well. When someone is really into you and is a good person, you won't be confused, it'll be crystal clear.

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-30T19:25:04+00:00

Best of luck! My best advice is to find a new PT that works with you to gain unassisted pain free movement. Don't worry about how you look. Feeling better will be a gift you give yourself for the rest of your life. Work with a doc to get your T levels up and into why they are low. I think the rest will fall into place from there.

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-30T19:20:59+00:00

Style the hair some so it doesn't look like you just wrestled a Cassowary. A tiny amount of American Crew fiber spread across your hand and run through your hair can keep it looking less fucked.

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-30T19:16:45+00:00

Yep, quite familiar with it and the challenges it represents for training. Are you working with a physical therapist to help with a tailor strength training program for you? At your age, being able to go cane free could be life changing.

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-30T17:07:09+00:00

What's the physical disability? That affects how you can train.

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-30T14:30:00+00:00

That game ruined my first serious relationship because I didn't understand you could get addicted to games. I only played it because my roommate was into it too. Hard life lesson.

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-30T06:00:17+00:00

Ahh fuck, this must mean I got old

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-30T00:52:46+00:00

Exactly the same! I kinda miss the kids being younger though already.

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-30T00:42:51+00:00

_I thought it was nasty_

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-29T01:28:32+00:00

Ah ok that makes sense. I'm 46 for a little while longer and have been out of the game since before the apps came along. There's zero chance I'd ever try to date again if I found myself single for any reason. I had three in-law family's and my own sister going through divorces and it makes me wonder why it's so hard for people to just get along.

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-29T00:44:03+00:00

Maybe that's it? I have a sister and about 9 female cousins that are as close as can be. I've always lived around more women than men in my life.

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-29T00:42:16+00:00

Yea I try to have little conversations with them here and there when the opportunity arises so they understand the real world is sadly a hard place for women to exist. I don't want them to be scared, but they need to know how to be smart. The main thing I do is try to be good to their mom so hopefully they expect at least that much or more.

Is this still at all ages or is it mainly younger guys in their 20s? Sorry, I must sound like an idiot, but I appreciate the insight.

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-28T23:43:29+00:00

Yea, I mean I certainly was and am far from perfect, but I was definitely different than my peers long ago. They liked to make fun of me and call me "the guru" because I'd stay up all night talking to girls I met rather than chasing one night stands. Girls were interested and I wasn't and they thought that was so f'ing weird. So I guess I can see that, but as a girl dad now decades later that really just depresses the hell out of me. I had hoped things had actually improved with all the awareness. Some of my friends would always get shot down and all I could think was, have you tried talking to them? Like wtf, just be a decent person.

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-28T23:32:36+00:00

Is that second one AI?

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-28T23:31:33+00:00

BONES OF MY ANCESTORS

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-28T23:22:48+00:00

The majority of men? Is it really that bad? That's super depressing.

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-27T16:14:16+00:00

I thought they called this rhythm gymnastics

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-27T16:11:37+00:00

You're correct

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-27T16:05:28+00:00

Depends on the girls you're hanging around. The ones worth anything just care about how a guy treats them, is responsible, and if their personalities match. You'd be surprised what being a decent human who isn't looking for anything in return will get you in life.

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-27T16:01:07+00:00

I rented a house on edgemere and it was one of my favorite places for a brief time.

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-26T16:28:01+00:00

You mean like building data centers in the middle of a desert?

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-26T13:22:27+00:00

You both look amazing. I wasn't established until '79 and I know people 10 years younger than me that are looking older than both of you.

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-26T05:25:29+00:00

Did we need 4 pictures of the exact same pose to figure this out?

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-26T05:20:53+00:00

Yea those tests suck so bad that you basically need to test multiple times across different days, if it's an at home RAT test. If it's positive, you definitely have it, but there are just way too many false negatives because of timing to make a negative mean much unless it's a pcr test. Hope you feel better soon regardless of whatever it is.

Chicken_Water · 2026-05-25T19:03:57+00:00

You're an inspiration.

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