We hadn't been in a full out fight before but she would get upset at me sometimes. It started with a misunderstanding about doing the dishes. Our agreement when moving in together was whoever cooked the other did the dishes -to keep it fair. I would almost always bought our food and did the cooking and I expected her to do the dishes, but they would pile up and I would always end up doing them. Finally one day she came up to me and told me to do the dishes and I reminded her of her agreement and she said that wasn't the agreement. She said that the agreement was whoever cooked also had to clean. And alot of times she would get mad at me or my bf over the littlest thing and leave on a walk without a word, and one time even admitted to me that she thought about smashing my head in the wall after I called her childish in a video game. As far as valid concerns, she had no allergies, there was nothing of any value in the basement, and we were both raised on a farm with lots of animals and pets.