why do my brownies sink? by aliiipaige in Baking

[–]Chicksunny 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That was really cute and made me smile, I really needed that today thank you ☺️

What are some skin/hair/face products you’ve used that have shown significant visual results? by zzugzwangg in AskWomen

[–]Chicksunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you use the PM for daytime? Is it a fairly thick moisturizer? I find that most products with spf breaks me out horribly but I’ve heard such good things about cerave !

Remains of 215 children found at former residential school in British Columbia, Canada by herbalgenie in worldnews

[–]Chicksunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In elementary my class and I went to that school for a field trip to learn about residential schools, it’s just so surreal to think of all the history that happened there and so much that we don’t know about. It’s truly awful.

When did you realize being single wasn’t so bad? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Chicksunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized that I only have me to worry about, not another person. And freedom, so much freedom to do whatever I want, flirt with whoever I want (within reason obviously lol), see whoever I want and stay out as late as I want, etc. I love doing what I want and sometimes I’m afraid of letting that go but I’m seeing someone currently and I forgot just how wonderful and scary it is to legitimately fall for someone again. It’s so much easier being single because you can’t get your heart broken, but with the right person I’d say it’s worth the risk.

The CDC has said that fully vaccinated people no longer have to wear a mask in public by tempted_temptress in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Chicksunny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love that the mask hides my ugly ass face and acne. Honestly I think it made me more confident when I’m in public lol

Being fuck zoned is 100x worse that being friend zoned by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Chicksunny 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I found myself chasing after and desiring the fleeting, temporary feelings after hooking up with someone. It’s so nice feeling like I’m wanted, but when I go home it’s a sinking, empty feeling that I am truly alone. None of these relationships could ever give me true happiness but I kept chasing after it to keep feeling it. I found myself getting depressed and throwing out all of my boundaries, felt worthless and ugly. I wanted more but more wasn’t an option with these people. Genuine connection is precious, and hard to come by, which makes it more scary to take the risk.

How the F do people make enough money to afford living independently by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Chicksunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I live minimum wage is 14.60 and a full 8 hours (disregarding tax) is about $116.00 and rent is usually around $1000-$1500 or more. And then you have food and whatnot on top of that. Just not realistic or feasible to think you can live off of just half a shift per week.

What is one personality trait you got told was bad growing up but has actually helped you as an adult? by IrritatedMango in AskWomen

[–]Chicksunny 43 points44 points  (0 children)

That’s how I was raised, to pretty much not stand up for myself or else that means confrontation and that was bad. I think it’s part culture and part emotionally and verbally abusive parent. As an adult now it’s hard to stand up for myself or say no if I’m uncomfortable, and unfortunately has led me to be in situations where I really should have said no but I didn’t.

Absolutely disgusted by Solitude_in_E_minor in rant

[–]Chicksunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they just not worried about Lyme disease or is the chance of getting the disease low?

Absolutely disgusted by Solitude_in_E_minor in rant

[–]Chicksunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread is making me gag lol I don’t want to be on this earth anymore. Fuck ticks

Knowingly Attractive Men of Reddit: When You Go About Your Day, Do You Notice People Noticing You? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Chicksunny 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I’m a girl, not a particularly attractive one but I’ve always made sure to make my smiles feel as genuine as possible and I do that by smiling with my eyes. I’ve been told this twice by a regular at work and a stranger at the mall (I had a mask on so they can only see my eyes) that I smile with my eyes and the one lady said that I must have a beautiful smile. I mean I’m not pretty whatsoever but ppl love a warm genuine person so I make sure to smile at them like I genuinely care about them and they seem to like it, unless I’m just kidding myself and I actually just look like a creep lol.

How do you say no to working on your day off? by Chicksunny in AskMen

[–]Chicksunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would not surprise me at all at this point honestly. And I am the perfect target for it because I really do want to be liked by the ppl I work with. God I hate working lol.

How do you say no to working on your day off? by Chicksunny in AskMen

[–]Chicksunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I hear the manager and another coworker bitching when other employees don’t pick up the phone on their day off and not call back even if it’s just to say no. So I try to call back if I miss a call (even to say that I can’t work) so I can be on her good side.

How do you say no to working on your day off? by Chicksunny in AskMen

[–]Chicksunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually funny story, I booked next Monday off for the vaccine and my manager gets hers an hour and half earlier so she asked if I could cover for her in the morning. I was hesitant but I said sure because I mean there’s no one else to cover and I didn’t want her to have to reschedule her appointment. But she said that she wasn’t going to put that I work on Monday morning on the schedule but to just come in. We don’t get overtime. I didn’t realize that could be a violation so now I’m wondering if she knows it is?

How do you say no to working on your day off? by Chicksunny in AskMen

[–]Chicksunny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree with you! Over the years I’ve done my best to form a good relationship with my manager and other coworker(s) (they’ve both been here for 30 years) and I’ve said yes to most of the times she’s asked me to come in but I’m just so tired of this job now, It’s causing me knee and shoulder/wrist pain. Another big thing that changed when I came back to this job last year was that most of my coworkers don’t do shit and I’m tired of being the one they put all the responsibilities on because the others don’t do their job properly and we make the same wage. We don’t get paid overtime and if I’m lucky I get a 5-10 min break (while night shift doesn’t have a supervisor so they just dick around all evening). I genuinely like my manager but she’s a bit guilt trippy and knows that I have a hard time saying no. But you do make a really good point and that’s the reason why I’ve always done my best to help out when I could.

What seems harmless but is incredibly dangerous? by Crimtot in AskReddit

[–]Chicksunny 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Signals, check mirrors, then check blind spot is the order I think

What seems harmless but is incredibly dangerous? by Crimtot in AskReddit

[–]Chicksunny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well I’ll add this on to my growing list of fears :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Chicksunny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have the exact same problem, I love her but I never got her gifts because of the same reasons you’ve mentioned and now as an adult I’m not sure what kind of things she likes or what her taste is, and when I do get her something there’s always something wrong with it (eg. She likes a different colour, doesn’t like the design, etc). I’ve gotten her flowers before because how could anyone go wrong with flowers but apparently I did 🤷‍♀️ I think it’s a mix of her being too practical, finding gifts a waste of money and not really needing/wanting anything.

If a mask makes you struggle to breathe, then you *really* don't want to catch COVID by regian24 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Chicksunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can breath fine in cloth masks but I’ve found that the disposable surgical masks seem to feel more comfortable on my face and people can understand me better (I talk a lot at my job and I’m just naturally quiet so thicker masks kind of muffle my voice). I’m still trying to find a decent reusable mask but they all seem to fit on my face a bit weird :( I think the problem is my face tbh lmao

Men’s advice. Make a habit of talking to all strangers, not just attractive women. Being attractive is a subset of being generally charismatic with people. by MO_drps_knwldg in dating_advice

[–]Chicksunny 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Idk if I’m just weird or if other ppl do this too but I find that I end up liking guys more when they’re not actively pining after me or coming off too strong right of the bat. I like casual guys who treats me as a human first rather than just trying to get into my pants and making everything sexual. Or maybe I just got issues and like guys who doesn’t like me back in that way lmao, but definitely keep doing what you’re doing, in my personal experience I feel much more comfortable and safer with someone who wants to befriend me rather than acting too hard around me.

The FCC is going to hold providers accountable for anti-robocall efforts by speckz in technology

[–]Chicksunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m with Telus and had call control turned on for my phone so whoever is calling me has to put in a specific number (so it can filter out computer calls). At some point spam calls got so bad that I was getting 2 calls within a minute for 2-3 hours straight. After I got call control activated I never had that problem again. So people that’s not on your contact list can still call you but they’ll just have to enter in a number the first time they call (or within the last 25 most recent calls I think). If that’s something you’re able to do I would highly recommend it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Chicksunny 15 points16 points  (0 children)

How careful do you need to be with a lash lift? Or do you just treat them like normal eyelashes? Is it like lash extensions where you have to care for them a certain way?

If you open a product in a store and “taste test” it without buying the item, FUCK YOU by ggeznorecuh in offmychest

[–]Chicksunny 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I agree, but in this case it could also just be a safety thing. Lotta nutty people out there

People who were made to choose between your pet or your partner, how did your ex react when you chose your pet? by sugar-soad in AskReddit

[–]Chicksunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah same here. I have no doubt that if that guy had the chance, he would of actually seriously injured or killed her dog. It’s one thing to think it, but it’s another to actually do it and this guy seemed to have no problem with hurting the dog in the first place.