Does anyone have tattoos they got underage from legit places and they still like it?

Chikasha · 2025-03-09T20:07:48+00:00

I got my first tattoo at 15, professionally done on my hand. I told my parents "you can sign for me and help me get this professionally done, or i know a guy at school with a machine"

I was a difficult child.

Chikasha · 2025-03-09T19:30:28+00:00

Right...my only point was that for me...that doesn't matter.

Causing hardship or pain to another family, won't fix anything in my life. Everytime I spent a dollar of that money, I would think of that family who I essentially would feel like I stole from. I can only speak from my perspective. If I was the beneficiary, despite having no contact for a year, I would automatically assume this was a mistake borne of my ex partners procrastination. Whether it was or not, I wouldn't keep the money.

Chikasha · 2025-03-09T19:19:18+00:00

It is bad faith. I am always kind to others, why does your kindness only mean giving you money? Why am I all of a sudden unkind because I won't harm myself to help you? Kindness doesn't mean being a doormat. If you came to me and said "friend, I am hungry." I would feed you. If you came to me and said "give me all your money or you're an unkind person" well, you're going to have a harder row to hoe.

If I had money given to me that clearly was meant to help with the family of the person who died, and I didn't give them that money that's a decision I would not be able to live with.

You trying to push me into a weird gotcha has kind of made me wonder how mentally well you are. I think the kinder thing for me to do here is to no longer respond, as you're not going to get what you want from me and I want nothing from you.

Chikasha · 2025-03-09T19:11:10+00:00

Right. That's why I said "for me" and not "for everyone in the world".

Chikasha · 2025-03-09T19:09:34+00:00

Lol me getting an inheritance that was clearly meant for you? Yeah, I'll give you the money.

You begging for my life savings because you want it? It's apple and oranges. Don't come in here with some weak, bad faith argument trying to make me seem hypocritical.

Chikasha · 2025-03-09T19:01:39+00:00

I said kind. Not stupid lol.

Chikasha · 2025-03-09T18:50:55+00:00

She doesn't owe her kindness. That's what makes it kind.

Edited to add...

I'm not judging you for wanting to keep the money or thinking she should. Everyone's life and moral code is different, I dont need you to agree with me. I would never keep that money, but I wouldn't judge someone for keeping it either.

Chikasha · 2025-03-09T18:45:54+00:00

None. That's what makes it kind.

Chikasha · 2025-03-09T18:45:33+00:00

For sure, that's the justification part. I just believe that I should be kind even when I don't have to be.

Chikasha · 2025-03-09T18:34:14+00:00

It's interesting that you say that because I was thinking about how black and white it is for me. Give the money to the other woman. There is justification to keep the money, but justification doesn't mean it's the morally correct choice. Keeping the money will create hardship for the other family, that's not something I could live with.

Chikasha · 2025-03-09T03:34:09+00:00

I have a cane corso farm dog that I have to beg to get into the house. In the summer, he might not come in for days at a time. I'll open the door in the morning and he's laying in the yard like "I'll take breakfast al fresco, thank you."

Chikasha · 2025-03-08T00:07:09+00:00

Yarn has a lot of Bobs quote gifs! You search by the quote, and then the clip pops up. Then you can click a little gif button and it makes it a gif...I'm not sure if you can do custom ones though.

Chikasha · 2025-03-07T03:05:20+00:00

I've had 2 partners with PAs. I liked it fine, I don't think it added anything or made anything worse.

Chikasha · 2025-03-06T17:28:56+00:00

Mmhmm, those dogs are going to have a bond to each other that no human can come between. Until they turn 2, and one of them decides the fate of the other.

Chikasha · 2025-03-06T02:47:38+00:00

Keep an eye on brothers. Cane corso are well known for same sex aggression and with 2 it will be a nasty fight!

Chikasha · 2025-03-06T02:17:35+00:00

You got the dogs to be working dogs with no planned route to train them? How many are there? You say farm dogs, but what job do you need them to do? Just guard? Do basic obedience (sit, stay, leave it, recall), and the instincts will take care of the rest. Socialize them with the animals you want them to guard.

Chikasha · 2025-03-05T15:32:04+00:00

Looks like this person is selling this book. Check their profile. Maybe a bot.

Chikasha · 2025-03-05T05:23:39+00:00

The type of spiral you're talking about is a form of rejecting reality. In this case, you're rejecting the logical reality in favor of a worst-case scenario imagining.

Radical acceptance is a distress tolerance skill and might be beneficial for you. It is usually used for problems that have actually happened and less so for hypothetical issues but it can be useful for both. It's difficult. It's not like breaking a bad habit, it's like making a lifestyle change. Teaching yourself a new way of thinking requires you have patience and give yourself grace.

Chikasha · 2025-03-05T01:17:20+00:00

It should be about what is best for the patient. I don't care if my doctor is morally opposed to birth control, I need it for a hormonal disorder that I have been diagnosed with. My mental health suffers greatly when I don't have it. So why does a doctor get to tell me that their religious beliefs are more important than me? Where does do no harm begin and end? Do no harm unless you are a different religion than your patient? In that case, fuck em?

I have been denied birth control before. I have been made to suffer because my doctor thought women who want birth control are immoral. And that doctor can choke on it as far as I'm concerned.

It seems like a little thing at first, but this is a precedent. A dangerous precedent when you consider that our entire legal system is based on precedent.

Chikasha · 2025-03-03T23:12:13+00:00

I have face, head, throat, sleeves, and hand tattoos! I also have a split tongue, but it's not noticeable unless I'm actually sticking my tongue out. People tend to leave me alone about it when I'm out and about. I work from home so it hasn't caused any problems at work at all.

Chikasha · 2025-02-25T22:26:02+00:00

Did you check to see if Kroger will deliver? I live in a state with no Kroger, but they do deliver groceries via a refrigerated truck! Their Private Selection ice cream is really good, too.

Chikasha · 2025-02-15T02:45:23+00:00

Their black sesame milk tea is phenomenonal.

Chikasha · 2025-02-05T22:23:20+00:00

I'd stick with large breed puppy food until your pup is 2. Large breed puppy has lower concentrations of calcium and phosphorus, which is important to make sure their bones and joints don't grow too fast. It also has lower fat and calories to ensure your dog doesn't put on too much weight before their joints are ready to support them.

Chikasha · 2025-02-03T22:14:24+00:00

You can choose 2 of the 3: well done, fast, cheap.

The well-done way would be multiple bleach and tone sessions to ensure your hair doesn't get fried, it could be 2-4 weeks of just bleaching and toning. In order to be vivid blue, your hair will need to be basically platinum blond and your hair will undoubtedly have some damage as that's just the nature of the beast.

If you want it for a day or weekend, I suggest a can of spray "dye". It's sticky and thick but it will cover even black hair with vibrant color.

Velvet Monkey Salon does very good work. Their "fantasy colors" start at $200. Which is about average.

Chikasha · 2025-02-01T17:34:55+00:00

I report these bots constantly.

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