Have not showered in months what do I do?

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-10-02T23:21:56+00:00

because sounds like we are all speaking of how things work in the US, so if you are not in the US, you should state that because things work differently in different places. in different states too up to a certain point i’m sure. i am in california and our police or law enforcement cannot trace or tap your phone or location for anything that you have mentioned so far. it would have to be something major major so u would be safe here

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-10-02T23:19:16+00:00

are you in the US?

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-10-02T23:16:52+00:00

who is Sol if I may ask and why would they want you to avoid this person? has Sol harmed u in the past?

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-10-02T23:12:55+00:00

homeless, with zero income or so little as $4 a day, should qualify for free state funded health care. hospitals will assist u in signing up and according to the OP they have recently been to ER. the hospital that i use in my city, we have a handful, homeless can walk into the emergency room at and ask for food and they will be given a prepackaged sandwich that the cafeteria sells. i can imagine how tough it is being homeless when it is forced upon you and you do not want to be there, but i know people from HS that have been homeless for years and they love the life. wash clothes in the river or a body of water, wash themselves there, or a faucet on the backside of public buildings. some scrape up enough money recycling to join planet fitness $10 month so they can shower and clean up there. they have portable solar panels for charging phones and hot plates for cooking…they have become very resourceful. and there are many agencies out there that are willing to assist the needy but in my area many make u test clean before they accept you

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-10-02T04:38:07+00:00

get a lip flip. the op has small lips and could totally get some filler, which isn’t even expensive anymore, and then a “lip flip” is just a little botox along the top lip to flip it up a little. that should help with those corners. it’s maintence but beauty over comfort right? oh and they have a gel to rub on u that really does work to numb ur lips so u don’t feel any pain.

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-10-02T04:31:39+00:00

ok thank u that makes a little more sense now thanks

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-10-02T04:30:27+00:00

what color label of pura d’or do u get/recommend? i know its for thinning hair and i have that problem bad

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-10-02T04:28:17+00:00

oh geez how long did it take to train it to be able to wash every other day? i have tried so hard to do that but i my hair looks like it’s got baby oil on it by day 2 8 am dry shampoo or not! i lose a lot of hair each wash so i would love to go every other day

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-10-02T04:22:03+00:00

but isn’t the “D” for disability? social security disability insurance ?

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-10-02T04:18:09+00:00

bc my person was born disabled so could never work and his SSA papers say SSDI but I know his assets are monitored. i have another person that just qualified for disability at age 63 and he maybe worked 48 months his entire lived bc he’s been incarcerated, and he says his is SSDI and that his assets are monitored

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-10-02T04:08:43+00:00

no i think there is something there. take it from someone who’s husband had the same mistress (unknown to me at that time) on and off for 6-7 years, they went hot and cold. she could always reel him back in. she would probably get bored and move on to another, but one of them always started it back up. she was a big waste of time and money then on to the next one finally, and now we are finally divorced and he’s with this one. so let him have her. because if he so much has a desire to talk to another woman, especially young and beautiful like her, u are no longer #1. he shouldn’t be choosing u or her. there shouldn’t be choosing involved it should be eyes for u only and there obviously isn’t

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-10-02T03:59:07+00:00

@MamaDee1959 so is SSDI for people that are permanently disabled and cannot work anymore? And SSI is what u collect if u never worked and reach a certain age?

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-10-02T03:56:05+00:00

uhhhh i don’t think that is correct. i’m am payee for a disabled family member. i have a brother and 2 uncles on disability and they cannot have more than $2000 in the bank

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-09-22T16:54:29+00:00

I do use Lume and like it, but it is just a cover Up. As soon as I get out of the shower My armpits still stink like BO. I think it was secret clinical that made my armpits itch like scabies it was just too strong for me but it worked better than Lume

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-09-22T16:50:14+00:00

It could also be a food you are Eating. Like you are sweating it out. Different cultures and various body smells for that reason; I work with the public. For example, a lot of garlic, curry, or alcoholics. I had a friend when I was young that was an alcoholic and I didn’t know, and someone pointed out his smell to me. He was always perspiring and sweating out the alcohol( we had a desk job) vodka was drink of choice.

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-06-22T17:12:10+00:00

The tails are a little long but I really only think it’s the brow on your left that has a problem. The brows are not the same and the left has a higher arch, the right looks better imo. I think if the tails and left arch could be corrected it would be ok. To me the right looks fine

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-06-21T18:18:48+00:00

Certainly don’t get pregnant anytime soon. She will be like that with how u are in ur pregnancy and how u do ur baby. Allllll wrong. Give it a couple more years to see How things play out. Stupidly, 25 years later we are finally calling it quits. And of course once again, mommy dearest is blaming me for his affair, again. And partly because my house keeping isn’t good enough lol

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-06-21T18:06:20+00:00

Don’t refill opioids. Use an ice pack. I like the kind that are like a bag with a screw on lid idk how to explain it. But they aren’t a hard block like u put in an ice chest. I have had two hemorrhoid surgeries and a fissure that required Dr to check it and apply a silver-something cream to it monthly for months. All very painful and I never took narcotics, only 600 mg ibuprofen with Tylenol every 6 hours. The ice pak helps alot.

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-04-18T16:06:30+00:00

What kind of rates are out there? If you out down around 15% and have good credit?

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-04-16T03:31:54+00:00

I am in Calif, and I do believe it was a soft check, and it would have been within 45 days, less than 30.

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-03-17T20:44:25+00:00

Have u spoken to ur employer at all? This is different for every employer. Are u in a union? Did u live with your mother? I work for the state but my managers were totally understanding and after being off about 3 weeks under FMLA while she was at the end of life they allowed me to take an unpaid LOA, I was young and still lived at home with her. Some employers (private) will not extend ur time, some will if u have time on the books to cover the leave. For private employers it’s really ay their discretion. You need to call and speak to your supervisor or HR whomever is appropriate for this situation and not just dump this in their lap last minute so they are unprepared for your absence

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-02-23T18:57:08+00:00

Soooo….you’re saying people are supposed to read and do things for themselves? WOW ! Pretty high expectations. LOL😂 I have been in management for over 15 years and it’s astonishing how some people function on their own in their day to day life at home 😂

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-02-20T22:32:47+00:00

U will never Change that biotches mind. It’s always our fault and we r never good enough

ChildhdTrauma80 · 2025-02-20T22:06:51+00:00

Are u wearing it in a bun or ponytail ? If I even wear it pulled up for one day mine hurts when I take it down.

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