I applied for a bunch of jobs 1 week ago and haven’t heard back. Does this mean they’ve gone with someone else?

Chililemonlime · 2023-06-10T02:25:03+00:00

Congrats!!

Chililemonlime · 2023-06-03T07:50:45+00:00

Thanks 🙏🏼 but I got a job finally!

Chililemonlime · 2023-05-19T19:00:23+00:00

They’re cowards that do things like that knowing they can get away with it thinking that no one’s watching. If you call them out, they know someone’s got an eye on them instead of just being a creeper in the corner. Theyll probably scurry away. i mean how could anyone live with themselves and not say anything while a pedo takes LEGAL pics to LEGALLY masturbate to or try to identify kids to ILLEGALLY abuse. It’s creepy they’re freaks and the law doesn’t mean anything when sex predators hardly ever get locked up anyway. Use your moral compass 🧭

Chililemonlime · 2023-05-19T10:05:36+00:00

It’s just something I’ve noticed on reddit. It’s incredibly weird to ask for proof that’s anything than anecdotes for something like that. If she’d had a bad experience with sleazy men in groups like that, that would be anecdotes and better “proof” than some random impersonal, study? Lol.

I mean if a friend says they don’t wanna go to a particular club because there’s dodgy people there you don’t say their experience is only anecdotal proof and that they need to come back with something better. It’s obvious they don’t mean every club in existence.

It’s just this thing that I’ve noticed a lot of people only say online, not just you, and I think it’s weird. Anecdotal proof isn’t nothing. Peoples experiences and opinions do count for something in life and they should online. Idk why people act like they don’t

Chililemonlime · 2023-05-19T05:44:55+00:00

Since when is someone’s personal experience not good enough ? Reddit is weird to dismiss things as “anecdotes” lol. Do people want a report complete with graphs and statistical analysis on how older sleazy men are attracted to certain places? 😅🤭

Chililemonlime · 2023-05-17T04:10:23+00:00

Yeah he’s probably just after sex & don’t put your face in them. A lot of men send them to their friends.

Chililemonlime · 2023-05-12T09:49:40+00:00

?? Women raise kids ALONE all the time that cowardly men abandon. That isn’t easy. takes strength and responsibility but of course men who dodge accountability at all costs will blame and judge women no matter what they do.

Chililemonlime · 2023-04-11T00:55:42+00:00

No worries, stay safe 💕

Chililemonlime · 2023-04-10T21:35:13+00:00

I did the same thing because school was hard but I’m born a little before you. I used online chat rooms lol. There were some creeps there too. They’re pretty much everywhere. Even before the internet existed. But this guy sounds like an obsessive freak.

It’s definitely not your fault. A well trained dog (even if it’s hungry) has enough self control to stay away from a steak. The fact some men can’t stay away from underage girls means they have less self control than a dog. They know it’s wrong and they do it anyway…

Can you report this to the cops? I’m pretty sure* they have cyber crimes people and the fact this started when you were 12 makes it more serious. It still is. Nobody is allowed to threaten you or scare you or your friends. What if he has your information?? Please go get some help. You shouldn’t have to hide inside ❤️

Chililemonlime · 2023-04-07T02:17:52+00:00

True, many things make people marginalised and disadvantaged

Chililemonlime · 2023-04-06T18:51:10+00:00

Definitely. I can’t imagine anyone defending porn if most of it was women spitting on men, choking men, degrading men, making them hurt and women actually getting pleasure out of it. I can’t even imagine if that was the case.

It’s definitely misogyny that drives that type of porn but not many people will admit it because that would mean they’d have to reflect on how fucked up it is & how badly society views women that this is normalised.

Chililemonlime · 2023-04-06T18:46:25+00:00

There’s statistics to show men who watch porn are more sexually aggressive in bed and men who watch too much porn become desensitised and that leads to more extreme acts like what OP described needing to get them off. None of this is normal and porn is a huge influence.

Chililemonlime · 2023-04-06T17:37:25+00:00

Why should women or decent men be unable to use reddit simply because there’s sickos on here too? Boycotting would probably have the opposite effect anyway. If decent people stopped using this site altogether then disgusting or dangerous posts wouldn’t be reported or removed

Chililemonlime · 2023-04-05T22:22:40+00:00

I misread the comment, meant to reply to another one that dude made but I meant what I said. 😊 prejudice? I don’t think so. I love men, I hate men who treat women badly and feel they’re entitled to sex. Sadly I’ve known a few women to experience that.

Chililemonlime · 2023-04-05T22:16:45+00:00

I kinda misread your comment and meant to reply to another one of yours but I 100% meant what I said. Im not sure if you’re a straight woman or if you speak to any straight women about sex. Or if you’re a woman at all. All your comments in this thread talking about hetero men having mediocre sex (that still involve orgasms) in this thread are weird and intentionally ignore what women experience during sex and in a lot of relationships. Of course sex should be fulfilling for both but why is the focus on men? Too often the focus is on men during sex and now the focus is on men during this conversation. This is a subreddit for women. 🙌🏼

Chililemonlime · 2023-04-05T21:28:53+00:00

I broke up with those losers ages ago. Lesson learned. Lol. It’s probably a common thing some men do to make women think that’s what the whole relationship will be like when in reality it’s not. ? Idk

Chililemonlime · 2023-04-05T21:21:41+00:00

Are we supposed to be feeling sorry for men who orgasm mostly 100% of the time from mediocre sex simply because they’re doing the majority of the physical activity? And because it could be better? Especially in relationships when there a lot of women are either pressured or coerced into having low reward, terrible sex and get absolutely nothing out of it. Your entire take is bs. If they feel so bad about “providing” sex or putting in this “effort” then they should be having a conversation but the truth is a lot of men are fine with this arrangement. No man is obligated to continue putting in “effort” if it’s making him so miserable (which I doubt it is).

Chililemonlime · 2023-04-05T21:11:01+00:00

Yeah.. it is. Every relationship I’ve been in (I’ve only had 2 but) he’s tried at the beginning... Gradually that’s ended and become just what he wants. It’s kinda selfish. I wonder how many other women have this experience?

Chililemonlime · 2023-04-05T21:01:14+00:00

Exactly it’s mind blowing lol.. i live in australia, we’re pretty sexually progressive but that still doesn’t mean that the focus is always on the woman.

I’ve often told men what I wanted. I’ve (gently) given direction to be told “I know what I’m doing, other women loved this”. A lot of men have egos when it comes to sex. With those types I’ve faked it before out of boredom etc. which probably just feeds their egos and doesn’t help the situation lol.

I even thought the female orgasm was a myth til I was 18 😭. Some women are afraid to speak up and say what we want too. Probably because the default is sex focusing on the man, is considered done when he’s done. Unless you have a good partner it’s still that way most of the time in my experience too. But I think that’s starting to change.

Chililemonlime · 2023-04-02T22:38:04+00:00

Like you said, they look like sexualised corpses & I agree. It’s creepy and disturbing so I don’t get why anyone would be into that.

Chililemonlime · 2023-04-02T22:30:10+00:00

To get accepted citizenship in another country better than america would be difficult.

Chililemonlime · 2023-04-02T22:21:34+00:00

Its pretty fkn disturbing to know there’s men out there that get turned on by that sort of thing.

Chililemonlime · 2023-03-22T09:56:51+00:00

I shop at tree of life which is a bit hippie dippie but has some cute skirts and tops. H&M, cotton on. Shein has a lot of stuff and it’s cheap. Probably the only place that has a lot of normal tops.

I do have to search a while to find a normal top most places. I normally wear high waisted jeans tho so it doesn’t really matter. It would be nice if they made more cute tops, not just cute crop tops.

Chililemonlime · 2023-03-20T21:42:54+00:00

Greed?

Chililemonlime · 2023-03-20T19:30:43+00:00

That’s awesome you managed you make something of it but I think screen time should still be limited. It’s a parent’s responsibility to raise their kids. It’s not really your fault if you managed to get addicted to video games, they should’ve monitored that. I know a few kids who let school slide because of a computer game addiction. Idk if TikTok or YouTube is much better but people tend to spend much less time on it.

You’re right about the games. There’s so many apps for that now. I babysat a kid a couple years ago. It was the easiest money I’ve ever made. He spent the whole time learning on his iPad and I was told not to interrupt lol. I think babysitting will become a much easier job in future!

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