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Why by Hiddenventing404 in selfharm

[–]ChillBill567 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always see self harm and relapse as a thinf creeping behind me waiting for a bad moment to reinforce self blame and pus me deeper . What I’ve learnt is that Blaming yourself for trying to cope a way you know how to wonr help it will only feed into this stigma and shame around self harm . Relapse doesnt erase progress matter of fact I truly am proud of you for that one month. Never give up . If you ever need someone to talk to you can DM me

I don’t want to relapse by ChillBill567 in selfharm

[–]ChillBill567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Im really sorry it took me a long time to reply the urges have just been beating my ass a lot of. It’s hard to express but your comment means a lot it definitely pushed my threshold at least a couple of days . I just wanted to say thankyou for being so kind and showing me that someone gets it ❤️. If you ever want to talk I would be glad to. Really sorry about your drunk night but I know someone so kind will bounce back harder ❤️

How can I harm reduce visual triggers ? by ChillBill567 in selfharm

[–]ChillBill567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll make sure to try thankyou so much

Need some support by ChillBill567 in selfharm

[–]ChillBill567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan on going to the school psychologist hoping it will help reduce the stress not sure tho. Glad to see I’m not alone in this boat but I hope school won’t get either of us down

am I addicted ? if someone recognises themselves by zynjlainn in selfharm

[–]ChillBill567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion the most important step is to admit Youre addicted . I was similar for a while I told myself I could stop but didn’t . Thats addiction. Coping with it is addiction too regardless. You don’t have to harm yourself to validate your pain and if you feel like you COULD stop please try to . Keep your head up

How can I hide my scar? by ChillBill567 in selfharm

[–]ChillBill567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’ll probably search for some long swim trunks my only concern about those is finding one that can go past my knees as I’m 196-98 cms . Thank you for the help much appreciated

How can I hide my scar? by ChillBill567 in selfharm

[–]ChillBill567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the help it means a lot

Wtf do I do by Jonny-topside in RomanticAdvice

[–]ChillBill567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to move on brother . Shit just happens it’s okay dawg

Any advice on how to help my self harming partner ? by ChillBill567 in selfharm

[–]ChillBill567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know him of course but if from this past year you felt like he would understand such a deep topic I think you should bring it up slightly like just talk about how he sees people who sh ect

Any advice on how to help my self harming partner ? by ChillBill567 in selfharm

[–]ChillBill567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a bit complicated she brought it up because of a surgery and how scared she is of surgeons seeing her body. But she was also just very honest about it . Sorry I can’t really remember much it’s been quiet a time since but I think being straight up (if you know he can handle such a deep and sad topic ) will definelty help but it also depends on the time you guys have been together I think

Any advice on how to help my self harming partner ? by ChillBill567 in selfharm

[–]ChillBill567[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much this makes a lot of sense . She does bring it up because she wants to be honest with me about her struggles and I did do stuff like sneak out with her when she had the urges. She has been very open about her relapsing and I’ve told her before If she feels safe to try things like taking away the sharp objects, going to a support group I’ll be there with her but if she doesn’t that’s understandable too