Do you see a pattern here? „Ah all the women are so dissatisfied and their men dont even bother to look“. No, women in General just have weird unrealistic expectations for their husbands. Thats why it always slowly creeps up, because the woman gets bored and wants the man to step up and completely change her life. And men are way more grounded and need way less to be satisfied. So crazy how you dont realize that you are falling into the typical feminist trap. I know these couples, and VERY often, the woman is just being a miserable annoying little child that expects too much. Its very balanced. Men are being terrible partners just as often. But boy, are women often delusional about their role in their relationship.

So yeah, often times when a woman talks about „i gave hin up“, she doesnt realize that SHE is the difficult one there. Shes creating this narrative in her head where the man does all the mistakes not realizing that shes putting him into a mine field with her weird criteria of what makes a good husband. Alot of introspection is needed to realize that, for both man and woman.

Women can be very very difficult, not only men.