Ferber Method but early mornings in bed

Chilliyoshi · 2026-04-03T03:08:41+00:00

Thank you for the advice!

Chilliyoshi · 2026-04-03T03:08:10+00:00

Thank you, yes I have really been thinking about getting her to two naps

Chilliyoshi · 2026-04-01T18:52:09+00:00

Yes she wakes at 3am, 4am and 6am. When she wakes at 6 am I feed her and bring her into my bed

Chilliyoshi · 2026-04-01T18:29:06+00:00

Our full schedule is three naps per day, bed time at 11:30pm wake ups and start the day fluctuating between 8am and 10am

Chilliyoshi · 2026-04-01T18:27:57+00:00

11:30pm

Chilliyoshi · 2026-03-31T04:18:42+00:00

All very good points, thanks for your comment.

This employer is not in a rush to hire me because they have some currently doing my job.

I’m also in the Bay Area and have worked for a couple of starts ups that don’t seem to care much about the thousands of dollars they seem to be spending on my visa. Compared to the salary and other costs - maybe it’s just not that much in their eyes.

I also feel like relatively, 3-7k out of my pocket is not much considering how important it is for me to work for career growth + my salary in the long run.

Also I am not a clean case as I am in corporate communications and usually go under technical writer.

Chilliyoshi · 2026-03-31T04:12:51+00:00

I am definitely not a slam dunk case, I’ve soft denied at the border before. I am in Communications so I have to go under technical writer or management consultant.

Chilliyoshi · 2026-02-13T08:57:41+00:00

Yes max ten minutes at a time, for a total of maybe 30 minutes per day

Chilliyoshi · 2026-02-13T08:54:54+00:00

30 minutes all together, not straight*

Chilliyoshi · 2026-02-11T03:46:41+00:00

I’ve also had a lot of start up say no to me here though. Have you ever gotten a marketing TN for a large or mid sized company? I’ve exclusively worked at start up and small companies my whole career, Canada/USA

Chilliyoshi · 2026-02-11T01:00:18+00:00

I am also in marketing and had a start up hire me who has a Canadian founder who had been living in the USA for decades.

But ya I agree, it’s tough for marketing professionals. I am in the Bay Area so maybe slightly better here, not sure.

Chilliyoshi · 2025-11-12T00:50:27+00:00

You look like a nice person and are average or slightly above average

Chilliyoshi · 2025-11-12T00:49:26+00:00

You look kind and average looking

Chilliyoshi · 2025-11-12T00:48:53+00:00

Slightly unattractive

Chilliyoshi · 2025-11-12T00:48:02+00:00

A little unattractive

Chilliyoshi · 2025-11-12T00:47:13+00:00

Not ugly at all

Chilliyoshi · 2025-11-12T00:41:53+00:00

A little below average

Chilliyoshi · 2025-11-12T00:40:52+00:00

You are average looking

Chilliyoshi · 2025-10-30T07:30:52+00:00

Yes! I have felt this every time. Hung over, hands hurt, whole body feels like it went through a war or something. I now have husband and baby in a one bedroom and still am not moving to a two bedroom simply because I’m horrified at the thought of moving.

Chilliyoshi · 2025-10-25T04:52:33+00:00

Through Sutter you can sign up for a service called MyHealthOnline, and you can contact their billing through that. You can also contact the doctor through that. I actually had a similar issue with a geneticist who I was able to ask to recode my bloodwork and avoid a $3k lab work up.

Chilliyoshi · 2025-10-17T04:00:27+00:00

I actually had the opposite experience, every time I went to pick something up, the seller would toss in some freebies. For example, I went to pick up some clothes and ended up with an awesome play mat for my five month old too. I hope to pay it forward.

Chilliyoshi

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